I expect this to get buried, but what the fuck.

I think this is a fundamental question for the whole pickup thing; if you don't love yourself, you can't love others. If you're not happy, you can't make others happy, at least not properly. If you're not kind to yourself, it will, in one way or another, prevent you from being as kind to others.

And so I ask you, lurkers of seddit - are you happy? And how does this relate to your seduction skills? Not to start a circlejerk, but I think the question is worth a discussion. And I'm not talking about whether you are in state a lot, I'm talking about whether you're fundamentally content about who you are and what your life is like.

PS - I phrased this as neutrally as possible to prevent this potential thread from taking a certain direction from the start.