Overwhelmed

you_require_moar · 2011-09-06T04:20:39+00:00

I'm a bit of a skeptic about a lot of the more in depth and rigorous stuff put out by pick-up communities. I think the best thing this stuff does is with getting over AA. Just keep opening and learning from trial and error. Most of the "advanced techniques" will come naturally with experience, you will see what gets you the responses you desire.

Here are some basics that are proven golden:

i. Approach, approach, and approach.

ii. "Law of least effort" - let her do as much work as possible. Apply this to everything, e.g. if you have a choice of you going over to her place or her coming over to yours, she should be coming over to yours, she's investing and putting in the effort. Get them to invest.

iii. Manage Initial Expectations.

iv. Approach.

Spend less time micro-calibrating interactions and more time with overarching principals to save yourself headaches.

Is this helpful?

DrinkUpGuys · 2011-09-06T02:02:37+00:00

vague pronoun usage.

puaCurveBall · 2011-09-06T08:05:24+00:00

You learn in the field.

Jwebs428 · 2011-09-06T23:52:50+00:00

Thanks for the help guys. I will keep it in mind.

Title	Overwhelmed
Author	Jwebs428
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	September 6, 2011 2:01 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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