Ok seddit, let's see if you can help me out. Backstory: I went out with this girl last night for a couple drinks I met from OkCupid. She messaged me first and then proceeded to ask me out. The date went really well in my opinion. Definitely exceeded all my expectations because OkCupid usually sets the bar pretty low. Anyways, now that I dig the chick I don't want to fuck things up. Thus, how should I proceed for the second date?

I texted her today to say hi because she went to a football game at both of ours alma mater. I'm going out of town to Las Vegas and will be back Thursday. Should I stave off on texting till I get back (unless of course she texts me)? Should I send her a message through okcupid while i'm away? I'm just trying to play the fine line between I'm interested but not desperate.

Give me what you got!