this is a follow up on this girl i've been trying to hit on. to keep it simple, here's a summary on what had happen and the big question is WHAT DO I DO NEXT?!

SUMMARY

So, in a nutshell, I am trying to hit on HB8 who works in a lounge. HB8 compiled to my routines and asked me to add her on fb and we’ll work it out from there. I declined the offer cause I thought of DHV by telling HB8 FB is for me and my friends to communicate and not for randoms i.e. hi-bye friends. Btw, don’t ask me how this is DHV. It’s just how I try to make myself different.

ALMOST THERE…

Anyways, I posted a thorough FR to gain some advice. The advice given was

  • Stop over-analyzing and add her in fb, then work from there

    • Go back to the lounge, ignore HB8 for the whole night and if she talks to me then continue on conversation as per normal then try to number close.

Well, once again, I did something different and FB message HB8!! To my dismay, HB8 didn’t reply.

ON THE HOME STRETCH

I was at a café today and I SAW HB8!!! She’s working as a waitress there. It was really awkward cause HB8 didn’t dare to have any eye contact with me. I tried to be as normal as I could and did what Sedditors advice was ( refer no.2) Anyways, when i went up to pay, HB8 was "manning" the counter. And, the following is what happened

HB8: You’re XYZ right?

ME: ya..

HB8: Sorry I haven’t replied your message. I was away in Zimbabwe.

ME: uh ok..

Then I scrambled and left. I know that is dumb and super AFC. And my AA was to its max! But again, i can sense the awkwardness cause she didn't even dare to look at me!! it's as though she took a deep breathe then went in for the kill. could HB8 be shy as me or am i being naive. zzz

SO mPUAs –WHAT DO I DO?!?!