I want to seduce my ex to an f-close after some outercourse only.

2011-09-18T01:34:01+00:00

That whole exit speech seems like it will be tough to execute. I never like to rely on strategies like that, because if the conditions don't end up like you planned then you're screwed. If she's hanging out with you again she obviously is still wanting to be around you. I'd say just be cool. Flirt with her definitely. Be honest man, say you enjoyed last night if it comes up. What's so wrong with that? I realize there's feelings that come with hooking up but fuck it. That's thinking about the future. Be an alpha male, be in the moment, cool as fuck, and make her want you. Escalate and f-close her. Abundance mindset, if you want to start another relationship out of it, she'll have to earn that. Tonight is just a hookup to blow off steam.

TheEllimist · 2011-09-18T05:16:42+00:00

You sound like a fucking loser. Do yourselves both a favor and just leave her alone.

Gothamite · 2011-09-18T05:35:48+00:00

Dude, way too much game, way too little humanity.

The girl let you make her come -- she likes you, a lot, a girl does let a man make her come and then go back to see him again the next day unless she likes him a lot.

But you have been apart from her for a while because of [whatever] ... and not being stupid, she wants to know if you want to get back with her because you still genuinely care for her -- or if you just want to fuck her, like any other selfish male pig.

So at the end of the night when she asked you about this, in the typical female indirect way (which you first brought up) you replied you didn't know yet? WTF????

The correct answer was, "No, baby, this has been wonderful", assuming that was the truth.

Dude, the question is not your "game technique" -- it is whether you regretted it or not! Can you be honest about that with yourself?? You couldn't tell her, and you didn't tell us. Do you know the answer??

She let you make her come, she's coming back to you for more ... and you're being a douchebag. We don't need more sophisticated game terminology than that.

Decide whether you still care for her, enough to be good to her. If so, show it to her all night long. Don't pretend nothing is happening all night long until you are leaving and then as going out the door try throwing something at her -- what sort of 14-year-old behavior is that?

She let you make her come, she's already told you she's yours, if she can trust you to care for her. The time for you to play Mr Indifferent is way past. It's time for you to decide whether you really want to be good to her, or not.

If you just want to fuck her and be done, then she is entirely right to be wary of you -- you are just like any other selfish male pig.

Game is not meant to be a substitute for the humanity in relationships, to let people ignore the humanity -- it is meant to help people who are awkward in dealing with their human insticts by giving them tools and techniques to more successfully deal with them.

You've said nothing but that you want to fuck this girl. Maybe the reason you blurted out that you didn't know if you regretted the time you spent with her is because it's the truth -- you have qualms about what you are doing.

As far as your game goes, again, you are way past the point of playing indifferent. At this point, that is just playing scared. You are in the late innings when she's already shown she's yours if you will prove to her you care and she can trust you. Your game is awful if you don't realize that. To close, show her that from the start, from "hello", the next time you see her. Don't blurt it out, show it.

Of course, you do first have to decide whether its true, to show it to her -- whether you intend to fake it or do it for real.

If she can't trust you, and you try to fake it just to fuck her, may you fail.

Like any other tool or technique, game may be useful for scumbags -- but it's no excuse for being one.

My plan is to hang out with her tonight. Make NO mention of what we did

That's not Game. That's being a scaredy cat.

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Title	I want to seduce my ex to an f-close after some outercourse only.
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Date	September 18, 2011 12:54 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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