I met up a friend who was hanging out with some chicks at a bar. As soon as I get there, I maintain extended eye contact and a big smile with a HB8 when introducing myself.

We move to a nearby bar, and I start talking to her for a while. She stops drinking from the bar before since she is DD. Throughout the night, she is fiddling with her hair (IOI). While I am talking to her, she initiates kino by touching my arm about 3-4 times. I # close. Later another friend joins in the conversation, and HB mentions her bf. I don't really escalate the kino (was thrown off by getting kino first which i didn't expect and for the record i am an afc making constant improvements)

The day after, I text stating that there is a bday party going on. She has already made plans for the night (I should have realized that chicks don't last minute plans).

How should I proceed? I plan on a get together, but should it be 1on1 or invite other people along too?