I meet a decent amount of girls, but always seem to get put in the best friend zone. Meaning they will actually go out of their way to hang out with me, but just done see me in the dating sense. In fact, ive slept with a few of these girls and they still just saw me as the comfy friend.

What am i doing wrong? Should i be doing more kino on the outset to make them less comfy lol?? Besides the link on here, whats a good read on kino?