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So I'm taking a date out to a museum. What's a good way to escalate kino?

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October 13, 2011

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Title	So I'm taking a date out to a museum. What's a good way to escalate kino?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	8
Comments	12
Date	October 13, 2011 3:25 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/laefg/so_im_taking_a_date_out_to_a_museum_whats_a_good/
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[–][deleted] 14 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Unleash_The_Dragon 5 points6 points7 points 14 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]bluntperson 3 points4 points5 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Unleash_The_Dragon 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Legit my friend you've already cleared well over the bar. Always assume it's on, no matter what happens, it's always on.

Sure, the contact dies down too, you're a busy alpha male going about your alpha life doing alpha things. Not sitting around beta style worrying about her contacting you. You know that thing you've always wanted to do? (for me it was fitness, lifting weights and training martial arts) now is the perfect time to do it so next time you come to thinking about life you don't think about when you'll start, you'll think of how close you are to where you always wanted to be.

In some ways pickup isn't directly about pickup but it's a marker of your inner game emanating out and how people react to that. Sure you can learn to market and direct the way you sell yourself but at the end of the day if the product is solid and coming from a genuine place that will shine through all else.

I don't believe there is a single thing i can't do - AT ALL. Anything, anywhere, any time. Be the same. It's already going to happen my friend, it's as good as done. Heck you might as well save yourself some time and skip straight to the pregnancy scare, you've won the game before you rolled the dice. In essence whatever happens happens between you two, don't be around for sex as an act, be around for the level of intimacy and attraction between you two that erupts in sex. Journey, not the destination.

Women are the most beautiful things in the world.

/endrant

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[–]Unleash_The_Dragon 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you actually enjoy yourself as opposed to analysing every little thing as well? You came out feeling better because YOU picked her up, not your game

I just went on a trip to train Muay Thai in Thailand for two weeks. Go and enjoy or focus on whatever you're doing for those two weeks. Being a focused, confident, centred alpha male is attractive. Going away to do something but spending the whole time thinking about her isn't. You're trying to portray the strong, healthy and completely non outcome dependant persona she wants, subconsciously, her children to have and is therefore attracted to.

But by the same token you've just slept with her after a date (i.e. not a one night stand) so clearly there's something between you, just feel how she's coming across to you whenever you guys talk and gage if she's going to want attention or not, decide how to go from there. There's never any cookie cutter to take in to these situations, it's all feedback dependant.

In short just listen to her through and through, get an idea of where she's coming from emotionally and play it by ear. Being a cool friend while also not being outcome dependant is the key. If attraction stays it stays, if it goes it goes, you're not going to stop your life to keep it there, nor would she respect you if you did.

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