My father and I had a man afternoon over the week. He took the day off of work to spend some good quality time with his son. He had an extremely long work week and wanted to blow some steam. We were craving some meat and decided to hit up a very popular burger joint in a shopping district that is always crawling with ladies.

We arrived to the burger joint in the middle of the afternoon. Prime time lunch hours. We walked up the the restaurant and I admittedly notice an over weight guy by himself outside on the patio gorging down on a greasy burger. His face was caked with burger drippings and ketchup. He was not giving a single fuck and looked to be in an awesome mood.

My dad and I ordered and sat down. We chatted as I looked around for some ladies. I went to refill my drink, a gorgeous 9.5 walked in to the restaurant. She was one of the those girls that makes your jaw sink to the ground. I woke up and put my game face on.

I sat back down with my dad and he started up a convo, however my attention was on the HB9.5. I was thinking about how I should approach this girl and how amazing she looked. I was planning carefully when the fat greasy guy enter the field. He walked right next to her and stared at the menu. He must have noticed her walking to the burger joint when he was outside and saw opportunity. She looked over to him and he started playing his game. He began convo with her admittedly like a boss.

They talked while she was waited for her order. They were laughing and smiling. I have no idea what they were talking about but it must have been an interesting, fun convo. She received her to go order but didn't leave till the convo was finished. She wasn't be a bitch or anything like that. When the convo ended, she exited the restaurant with a happy smile. The aggressive Alpha male went back outside to finish his meal. You could totally tell the presence of success in his walk.

I was totally blown away by the lack of fuck giving that his guy lived by. He saw this gorgeous girl and said fuck it. Without hesitation, he approached her and gave it his best effort. He didn't get a number or anything, but most importantly he tried. He tried to bang one of the hottest girls that I've seen in the long time.

My dad and I finished our meals and left. The Alpha was still sitting there enjoying his day. I guarantee that he slept great that night with no regrets of his day's actions.

I learned many things that afternoon. First, stop giving a fuck. Who cares if you fail? Do nothing and live with the regret or try and live with no regret. I had my opportunity to approach her and now I have regret missing out on a women that made my jaw drop. Second, stop thinking and act now, not later. If I wasn't so focused on her beauty and planning my approach, I could have just followed my natural instincts and approached her. I need to learn to follow my gut.

This guy surprised the hell out of me and I felt like a Beta in his presences. He may have not looked like a typical Alpha male, but he sure played game like one. Competition is every where and ultimately he wanted to spread his seed more than I did. I lost that day and it was a wake up call. Live and learn.