My AA is virtually non-existent. Even before I discovered the community I had little. Just because I found out at a young age it doesn't matter what I do. I dance in weird places and creep people out for fun. Say weird shit, get myself blown out. I have no problem getting sexual fast with girls and escalating. But that's all at the bar or club with my buddies or by myself. When social circle game comes into play I die.

Most of my friends only source of women is our social circle. Although aside from the odd one they suck at picking up strangers. I rarely get anything from my social circle. What ifs just rush through my head. What if I hook up with girl x and her friend would make good LTR material? What if I date or show exclusivity with girl a and it goes south, burning part of my circle? Ahhhh! It's game killer. And even when I can game and escalate I don't really go for the kiss even though I know she wants me to. Too much at risk. I feel real awkward physically escalating and flirting when my social circle is around.

But not my friends. Here is an example of what happened a few nights ago. Hanging at a friends house. Tequila shots and youtube. 5 guys/3 girls. One of the girls is dating one of the guys. One of the girls is unattractive and the other is okay. Pretty cute but overly flirty and a somewhat sloppy drinker - not my type. But two of the guys were obviously going for her that night. One of them finally 'won' and they were in the next room for a bit before coming back. Then later at night while everyone was either half asleep on the couch or crowded around the computer they went off into the next room in the same bed. They didn't have sex because we would've heard them but they were probably just making out/snuggling. We, along with the guy in the bed all left late at night without much being spoken. The only mention of it was the next morning when one of my friends gave him a wink and asked if he enjoyed his night.

But I could never see myself doing this. Are we not supposed to be discreet in social circle game to keep the girls from looking like sluts and to keep us looking like a player? But it's so obvious when two of my friends are flirting and I absolutely hate when two guys are competing for the same girl.

How do I get rid of this? My social circle is a great source of short and long term dating material. Seeing my friends start dating and hooking up with girls in our distant circle is devastating to my inner game. Anyone have some advice or outside reading to do? Thanks.