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ge99/r/seduction01/11/11 02:29 AM
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I don't know what your goals are, but if you are looking for a repeat customer why would you hide an aspect of yourself you enjoy. I have this convo frequently: "Yeah I've tried a bunch of phsychedelics and contrary to what you've heard they don't rock your brain. Ok so get this. You ever look a beautiful mosaic pattern? Well on LCD that mosiac becomes animated and you know that the mosiac is not really animated, those tiles aren't moving, but in your mind they are. So what does that say about r…
/r/seduction27/11/15 02:23 AM
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I think you just need some more kino. So the thing about kino that's important is it starts framing her interactions as well. Kino builds chemistry more than any word in your vocabulary. The first "outside of friend zone" kino touch sends a signal to her that this interaction is now different from a hangout with her friends. Her body language will start to change and, given the receptiveness of the touching, will immediately build some kind of actual chemistry. I'm struggling to explain this but…
/r/seduction27/11/15 02:12 AM
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/r/seduction25/11/15 03:25 AM
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Watched a bit. I don't think it applies in my case but thanks for sharing. Our issues only showed up deep into the relationship so there is no way to pre-select for those values. Its like trying to judge a car's reliability before you've driven it 100,000 miles.
/r/seduction24/11/15 10:11 PM
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I agree, don't meet girls at dancing, learn skills at dancing. I've made really cool friends doing blues dancing and most of them are female. The primary reason, as stated themselves, is because I'm not creepy. ;)
/r/seduction20/06/12 09:11 PM
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Maybe like her inbox?
/r/seduction06/06/12 12:54 PM
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So are you saying "Lying to people is bad?" That is life braheinstein, not pickup.
/r/seduction07/05/12 09:10 PM
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there is a dark side of pick up Nope, this is just you brother.
/r/seduction07/05/12 08:58 PM
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Should have mentioned I go out 2-3 times a month. ;)
/r/seduction07/05/12 01:01 PM
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Right, I agree. Had a brief moment to post.
/r/seduction02/05/12 05:10 PM
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Practice. Deeper tones are from slower air movement. Think about how much air you are expelling when you talk.
/r/seduction02/05/12 05:09 PM
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Yeah, I agree. But I couldn't simply post a single word. ;)
/r/seduction02/05/12 05:07 PM
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Just say "Yeah" like its a no big deal. This is not a game changer, massive shit test or anything too complicated. She is seeking validation, give it to her, give her those little butterflies that come from mutual attraction.
/r/seduction22/04/12 03:28 PM
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I think this subreddit has jumped the shark if this kind of material makes it to the front page.
/r/seduction16/04/12 01:50 AM
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Seriously... Its posts like this that perpetuate the misunderstand about the term alpha. The OP uses the phrase "confidant YET romantic"... that is absurdly stupid.
/r/seduction16/04/12 01:44 AM
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You should not make a woman consciously decide whether or not she is interested in you sexually. The answer will always be no. You didn't understand that part of what throwaway said. Escalate until she says NO and then you'll have an answer. That's not something I'm interested in. I think you're cool and I'd like to build on the chemistry we had last week, but I have plenty of friends and I'm not looking for another. Now you are just being an asshole. Girls have female friends. Now you are just …
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:20 AM
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So here is what happened to me in the past 3 months when this happened: 1st Girl I saw and fclosed a couple of times said "hey, I've got good news and bad news, I'm seeing somebody else and becoming emotionally attached with him" I responded with "cool! thats awesome, I'm glad for you" Her response: "oh wow, I thought you'd freak, anyway my friend thinks you are cute and wants to hang out" Ended up seeing her hotter and cooler friend for a while. Amazing times were had. 2nd As we are fooling aro…
/r/seduction13/03/12 10:32 PM
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MAYBE YOU COULD TALK TO HER ITS CRAZY I KNOW TRY IT MAYBE TALKING TO THEM WORKS
/r/seduction06/03/12 07:32 PM
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/r/sex
/r/seduction06/03/12 07:28 PM
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It's like anything FTFY
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:50 PM
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Buy a drink? Weak. Tell her if she gets 100 points she gets to kiss you. Worked for me. Remember though that these games are not necessary but can be fun. Don't ruin a perfectly good interaction by forcing these games in or rolling with them throughout an entire night. To be perfectly honest. If you are developing enough attraction you should be able to get her to do tasks without any point system. She is just complying with your alphaness.
/r/seduction05/03/12 03:51 PM
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Twice now I've played stupid games or bets with girls who have showed no IoI's and I wasn't really trying to pick up. Both times they've said something like "what do I win?" and I replied with "you can kiss me if you want to" while moving into their personal space and grabbing them. Both times I've ended up having sex with them. I think "what do I win?" is a huge, make your move IoI.
/r/seduction01/03/12 04:50 AM
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I'd just be clear if you are getting massive attraction IoI's or she is bringing up sex. You've already won the high value attraction game. As long as you aren't needy about it reciprocating is fine. You can still be high value and un-needy by saying things like "me too" and pulling her in for a kiss. Give her that warm and fuzzy "omg he likes me" feeling. An alpha male has no problem being vulnerable and sharing his feelings you know? If you like her let her know. Pretty advanced stuff here tho…
/r/seduction01/03/12 04:39 AM
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Good man and good luck!
/r/seduction01/03/12 01:02 AM
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This situation is no different from any other IMHO. Escalate as you would normally. Did you make it clear when you asked her out that this was because you are a man who is attracted to a women? I bet if you didn't she thinks this is work/professionalism/networking related.
/r/seduction29/02/12 10:15 PM
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Have you correctly branded her as your property and was that brand visible?
/r/seduction29/02/12 04:36 PM
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What? This is way too convoluted. Making up a memory to try and build sensitivity? C'mon man. Just be direct. Don't "playing for later on". You should have just said YES in reply too: "'R u trying to get in my pants? or do u like me'" That wasn't a shit test. She wasn't testing your reality.
/r/seduction27/02/12 09:05 PM
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. HOWEVER I am naturally introverted (still confident and all that). I don't like to or just can't have a meaningless conversation with people I am not good friends with. This is not the definition of introversion at all. The fact that you said meaningless probably means you are simply not outgoing or don't care about others. Not 100% sure but this is definitely not introversion.
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:37 PM
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What? I don't understand this at all. You did not feel joy with this girl but you grew attached?
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:30 PM
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Using a buffer of saying u dont like something she feels is apart of u is also a way to heighten her sensitivity towards u. Does not compute?
/r/seduction27/02/12 03:49 PM
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Gilmartin makes references to astrology, reincarnation, past life regression, and Kirlian aura (page 15) to support his conclusions Yeaaaaahhh... Uh, have to downvote.
/r/seduction27/02/12 05:00 AM
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I disagree its a simple matter of approaching more. If you approach poorly all the time because your inner game is messed up getting rejected won't help you overtime your shitty approaches.
/r/seduction23/02/12 04:05 PM
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I don't think you understood my point. Takes people along time to get in the right mindset that they are the coolest guy in the room and reset a preconceived notion you have of yourself. The RSD blueprint material is pretty good at explaining how to get in the correct mindframe. You can't simply say "you are awesome" and have somebody internalize that.
/r/seduction23/02/12 04:04 PM
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Honestly though, after a bit, there is a point where you realize you don't need to "fix" yourself, you are perfectly fine, it is just you lack the courage of jumping in because you think you are personally not fit to jump in. I'm reading this as "after a bit, your inner game has improved". This idea is false. You do not need to read 1000 articles on "inner game", you just need to go in it knowing you are a fantastic man/woman and that you are worth the same amount of time as others are worth of …
/r/seduction23/02/12 12:22 PM
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Thinking of moving on already? Nonsense. You have zero invested. Whats the harm in waiting for a text and trying to schedule a meetup. If nothing happens then so be it. Don't worry about if you fucked up because it doesn't matter. I can almost tell you don't have the right attitude here from you thinking her other nights were amazing. Who cares?
/r/seduction22/02/12 09:05 PM
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Naw, thats stupid. Sometimes I'm in an elevator with nothing to do when a text comes in. I'll reply right there.
/r/seduction22/02/12 03:38 AM
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Do you think not being interested in women is a problem? Sometimes I got through dry spells where I'm busy and don't care enough to go out. Happens. Not a big deal.
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:16 PM
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Is she adding value to your life? I have female friends that either friend zoned me or I friend zoned. I still hang out with them though because they add value to my life and I enjoy their company.
/r/seduction20/02/12 03:46 PM
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No.
/r/seduction18/02/12 07:29 PM
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I'm reading this as you didn't attempt to kiss her until the 4th date...
/r/seduction18/02/12 07:25 PM
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Don't believe your friends. It doesn't matter. Don't bring it up. If it comes up, ignore it. Simply say "IRRELEVANT" with a loud voice and move on. If you aren't that cheeky just try "doesn't matter".
/r/seduction16/02/12 02:30 PM
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No its not. All she had to do was tip her head forward a little or step back. This never happen to you before? The first kiss was slow. No claw, no hold, nothing. There wasn't even hand contact for a second.
/r/seduction16/02/12 12:16 AM
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I don't think you have a lot of field experience man. Rejection comes quickly and there were a lot of chances for that. First when he got into her bubble, second when he went for the cheek kiss, third when he touched her hair/face/neck and fourth when he went into for the first makeout. He didn't claw her, was only holding one hand for the majority of the first interaction and even had no points of contact at some parts. Any attractive girl knows whats up at each stage here and a there was plent…
/r/seduction15/02/12 11:21 PM
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No way man. There are IoIs flying everywhere here. She even starts laughing during the 2nd makeout, remarks that he is a good kisser, and then starts kissing him again. Look at the way he backs out of the 2nd makeout and she holds onto his coat, lets that hand drop, and grabs his coat again with the other one. She was into it. Even her vocal tonality indicates interest. Its so insane to even call this close to rapey.
/r/seduction15/02/12 11:12 PM
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No, he is describing aggression. Huge difference in rape vs being aggressive and taking charge.
/r/seduction15/02/12 11:06 PM
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Wait... wtf... downvotes... I don't understand. What is happening to seddit?
/r/seduction15/02/12 11:06 PM
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Ahahaha, this is awesome. Updated, this will likely get me laid, old flames rekindled. lolz I seriously just filled up the rest of February with girls. Replies so far: Girl from OKCupid, exchanged #'s, haven't met up with yet: Her: ... Response: You are no fun Her: :( Me: I was expecting "I can'e liiiiivveeee, if living is without you, I can't liiiiieeeeiiiiveeee, can't live anymooooorrrrreeee" Friend girl. Kissed, got weird, haven't seen in a while. Her: I'm going to assume that's you fishing f…
/r/seduction14/02/12 07:34 PM
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Yes, because once you understand clothing at a more advanced level you can appreciate better quality and construction of a well made piece of clothing. Once you learn how to take care of clothing these $140 shirts will last a decade instead of the year you can get out of crap from Macy's. Same goes for shoes. $200 shoes can last a lifetime. MFA also recommends v-neck shirts from Target, $30 watches you can grab at Walmart and basic Levi jeans and Chinos you can pick up at any big box stores. Sid…
/r/seduction13/02/12 07:11 PM
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You got me all wrong. Sometimes the newer guys wait for a kiss or don't want to "rush things". Just wanted to make sure you weren't advocating that type of behavior.
/r/seduction12/02/12 12:39 AM
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Not even. The meme is "* all the things". The "things" part is important because that word is what makes the statement nonsensical. I am annoyed when people misuse these meme.
/r/seduction11/02/12 11:38 PM
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Escalating when appropriate. What do you mean by this?
/r/seduction11/02/12 11:36 PM
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Uh, this is called attraction.
/r/seduction09/02/12 05:49 PM
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Nope. Its all about your attitude and behavior. What you just said is the antithesis of pickup. External factors don't matter. Game comes from within.
/r/seduction09/02/12 02:28 PM
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Voted down just because this encourages a limiting belief; that you have to look good to be successful in pickup. I kclosed tonight wearing the shittiest jeans, hair all fucked up and a lame ass t-shirt. Only logistics prevented the fclose. Of course being sharp and in shape makes you more attractive but we shouldn't propagate this belief here at seddit.
/r/seduction09/02/12 05:25 AM
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I just say I'm stalking them. Done it twice in the last couple of weeks, two dates planned. On phone: "hey, I stalked you on facebook, saw we have a mutual friend, how do you know her?" Message to different girl on OKC: "hey, I totally reached creeper level 9000 by noticing you liked my facebook status on a friends page, like your pictures, want to hang out?"
/r/seduction08/02/12 10:29 PM
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Why is this upvoted? This is reactive. It is 10000x better to start singing a nursery rhyme than to answer with a reactive statement. High value and confident people don't react to stupid statements like this.
/r/seduction08/02/12 10:13 PM
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You know sometimes people just need a friend. Throw away the seddit playbook and be a good person.
/r/seduction04/02/12 10:06 PM
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I sweat like a beast. DGAF. Doesn't matter.
/r/seduction04/02/12 04:27 PM
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Ugh, redundant stream of conscious with no point.
/r/seduction04/02/12 04:26 PM
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If you think you diagnosed yourself then you are full of shit. Stop thinking about it. You are awesome and you know it deep inside.
/r/seduction03/02/12 04:57 AM
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Save Seddit. Stop the circle jerk. Downvoted.
/r/seduction02/02/12 08:18 PM
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I agree. In fact I often criticize thi subreddit for the exact inverse of reasons. I find there is too much circle jerky inner game stuff. Not trying to beat a dead hoers here, just offering my perspective.
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:47 PM
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AskSeddit needs to be rolled into /r/seduction again. Some of the best content is hidden over there. Specific situations about girls bring out the minutia of pickup that should be exposed more.
/r/seduction28/01/12 01:21 PM
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Are you having fun? For similar logistics reasons I waited until the 5th encounter/date to have sex with somebody. Every date was an absolute blast and she was really cool. The sexual tension got to the point where I could feel it in my shoulders and ankles. On new years we finally had some of the most passionate and intense sex I've ever had. I arrived at her place, put my hand on her back and it was like a nuclear bomb went off. In 3.1 seconds I was carrying her to the bedroom. We knocked over…
/r/seduction28/01/12 12:58 PM
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bro fist
/r/seduction26/01/12 05:13 AM
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So to be honest you are pretty awesome for realizing this. Takes a lot of newcomers a while to realize how much they suck. Just have to start thinking about kisses differently. They are no big deal, fun and generate results. Took me a long time to realize this so don't think you're the only one and you can't overcome this. I am also a fully grown man. Women love being touched, hugged and kissed. Show her a good time. ;)
/r/seduction26/01/12 05:10 AM
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No, its dumb.
/r/seduction26/01/12 05:07 AM
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Be direct, escalate faster. Sometimes chemistry is just there and your advances are met with equal enthusiasm.
/r/seduction26/01/12 05:07 AM
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Takes time man. I'm 9 months in and finally getting great results. Just think of how much better you are than the average guy. insert cheesy hallmark card quote about failure, something about a horse
/r/seduction26/01/12 05:01 AM
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We aren't talking about boasting about money. We are talking about liking what you do as a profession.
/r/seduction25/01/12 11:52 PM
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Who cares. They exist and solutions are known.
/r/seduction25/01/12 06:24 AM
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Wrong subreddit. Go to /r/sex and you'll be the 1939383th person to mention the same thing.
/r/seduction24/01/12 09:08 PM
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Right away. The trick is to let a girl know you are a sexual being and are sexually interested without being pervy. Innuendos are great. Misinterpreting what she says on purpose is good too. I disagree with 30vanquish. This is very low risk. As long as you aren't pervy girls will usually giggle.
/r/seduction24/01/12 04:42 AM
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All the comments miss the point. You don't need to tell her jack about your life andyou don't need to have an interesting life to attract her. And no, I don't use fake stories, why? Work on making the munane interesting. I can make buying oatmeal an interesting story. Just have to work on it.
/r/seduction24/01/12 03:11 AM
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Your 3 is wrong. ALWAYS go for the kiss, better during the date than at the and, assume attraction, make sure to kino during the date.
/r/seduction24/01/12 03:06 AM
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Who cares? Does it matter? Nope.
/r/seduction24/01/12 02:16 AM
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SIR, IF WE GO DOWN, I JUST WANT TO SAY, IT WAS AN HONOR SERVING WITH YOU
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:35 PM
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EJECT EJECT EJECT!!! WTF!!! ICEBERG AHEAD BWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, RUDDER LEFT FULL REVERSE!!!!!!!!!
/r/seduction23/01/12 06:25 PM
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Why is it awkward? Its not. You fuck, your friends fuck, the girl at starbucks fuck, old people fuck. Perfectly normal.
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:56 PM
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Kiss her. You'll find out the easiest and most efficient way possible. Plus, its fun.
/r/seduction21/01/12 08:51 PM
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I’m the kind of guy who normally get friend-zoned, but whatever. Cool, I'll take advice from you.
/r/seduction21/01/12 06:02 PM
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What is your favorite marsupial? Team Edward or Team Jacob? If you were a plant what would it be? Craziest place you have had sex? Do you like swimming? Beer or wine? Who are you? Isn't Justin Bieber so hawt oh my god? The trick is to ask interesting things that spark deep conversation rather than normal interview questions ( where are you from, what do you do, where do you work ). Those questions are boring and trite. Make her laugh, break her reality and stand out from the 12 other bro's who h…
/r/seduction21/01/12 06:01 PM
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Your problem is that you are thinking these things. Why aren't you good enough? Ever see totally awesome women with brain dead asshole douche bags. You aren't better than that?
/r/seduction21/01/12 06:32 AM
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Yeah, it will hopefully discourage people from posting this type of noise. Next time I'll give you a big hug and say "there there buddy, its ok that you posted redundant and obvious knowledge which mirrors content that gets posted 4 times a week" and then we'll make love under the starts. I'm a generous lover. You'll enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction21/01/12 06:27 AM
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You should try approaching women and getting shot down. They can be much more mean than this.
/r/seduction20/01/12 09:53 PM
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This same content gets posted 4-5 times per week. Flip the words around, add an anecdotal story, ssdd. My real beef is aren't these things obvious? Like if you are trying to be sexually attractive you should take care of yourself? Isn't it obvious to think positively, about anything? The last point 4 is just outcome independence, a concept explained all over and in the sidebar. Shit you should read right away.
/r/seduction20/01/12 08:41 PM
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I replied to the comment, my reply to your useless post is below.
/r/seduction20/01/12 08:09 PM
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This is only encouraging a limiting belief. You don't need to do these things to be successful with women. Unless you look homeless and are an utter slob it really doesn't matter. Go check out Sasha daygame's infields. Guy looks almost homeless and generally unkempt and grabs really quality girls. One of the RSD guys closes in a van. If attraction is there nothing else matters.
/r/seduction20/01/12 07:15 PM
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Jeeze, do we need 4 of these useless posts a week?
/r/seduction20/01/12 07:11 PM
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"didn't want to rush things anyway" Are you kidding me? You've known her for almost 6 months dude.
/r/seduction20/01/12 04:15 AM
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FLB, Fuck Limiting Beliefs
/r/seduction20/01/12 03:48 AM
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Its how you are saying it. You sound pretentious from your 6th grade grammar comment. Heck you sound pretty pretentious and beta just by bringing this up.
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:49 AM
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I'm trying to point out this has nothing to do with being alpha or a leader at all.
/r/seduction18/01/12 04:16 AM
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Somehow you worked in seddit keywords ( alpha/leader ) about you being an inflexible asshole. This post should really be titled "don't be an inflexible asshole".
/r/seduction18/01/12 04:05 AM
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Being a leader or decisive does not mean you are an inflexible asshole or selfish. In all of your examples it would be very leaderish to take the tastes of those you are with into account. I don't suggest we go to King Palace Tai Food because I want Tai food right that second. I suggest we go get Tai food because I know the girl likes Tai and I've asked "do you like spicey food" previously in a conversation. I don't suggest we put on Paranormal Activity because I need to watch it immediately. I …
/r/seduction18/01/12 03:54 AM
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Oh I understand the material and there is just not enough information to classify masturbation as anything but healthy and normal. The studies are interesting but very narrow. More research is needed. The reported results simply don't matter enough. One being only 47 males, the other involving rats and the third has to do with chemically depleting dopamin ( much different from what masturbation does and ignoring any of the positive benefits: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation#Benefits ). …
/r/seduction17/01/12 10:07 PM
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The best motivation is intrinsic. Offering rewards lowers motivation. Stop spreading the myth that putting money on the line increases effort. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-determination_theory http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrkrvAUbU9Y http://www.alfiekohn.org/teaching/pdf/Punished%20by%20Rewards.pdf
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:18 PM
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An analogy isn't necessary. You could just say "be more creative or artistic rather than logical and linear".
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:11 PM
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I think you should read more closely. The statement: focused more so on using the right side of the brain rather than the left Is factually untrue. http://theconversation.edu.au/mondays-medical-myth-you-can-selectively-train-your-left-or-right-brain-4704 Which cites: http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1751-228X.2011.01120.x/abstract The abstract: Educational tools claiming to use “right-brain techniques” are increasingly shaping school curricula. By implying a strong scientific basis, …
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:10 PM
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Left/Right brain is a complete myth. https://www.google.com/search?sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=left+right+brain+myth Really sad that 0xeedfade was downvoted so much and the replies to this comment indicate so much ignorance.
/r/seduction17/01/12 04:07 PM
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You didn't cite anything.
/r/seduction17/01/12 02:38 PM
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Yourbrainonporn.com is mostly filled with anecdotal information and has almost nothing of scientific value. Though I don't have any studies to cite, I can guarantee that blowing your load has a lot to do with motivation. This is called "bullshit" or "nonsense".
/r/seduction17/01/12 02:29 PM
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The fuck? Steer her to whatever you are looking for. This question is like asking "Should I get a red or blue car?".
/r/seduction16/01/12 04:26 AM
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HUGE EPIC BRO FIST
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:22 PM
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All generalizations are false. All I heard here was slut shaming. Not cool.
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:18 PM
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You must be doing something wrong. When I was an ugly badly dressed fat fuck I would get a number every 5 approaches at a bar. Loads of flakes and fake numbers but I worked out those problems. Do you sound canned and like you have a routine? Do you make them laugh?
/r/seduction14/01/12 05:02 AM
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You have shitty roommates.
/r/seduction14/01/12 04:49 AM
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You are an AFC hiding under all your muscles and aggression. Theme of your FR is reactive. Kicking a beer bottle because you are pissed? Childish dude. Real childish.
/r/seduction14/01/12 04:47 AM
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So I just learned blues dancing and went that night to a bar which plays this type of music. Found a girl, grabbed her hands and taught/lead her into it. She wasn't my type but it was really fun. And yes, you have to ask a partner if she wants to dance. Whats the problem?
/r/seduction11/01/12 03:30 AM
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Stupid example. Sometimes senses of humor don't match up.
/r/seduction11/01/12 03:27 AM
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I took a sort of break in the fall. Kinda worked. Once I became "avalaible" lots of nice girls I met during that time wanted to hangout. ;)
/r/seduction10/01/12 09:38 PM
3

Without your own issues this post lacks substance. Edited down you basically said: Figure out if your issues are fixable or real. I don't know of too many issues that are real other than family dying or losing your kids. If you are sad because you have a shit job, then put less importance on it and put more value into what actually makes you happy. Which drills down to: Do more things that make you happy. If you can, fix problems that make you unhappy.
/r/seduction10/01/12 06:58 PM
0

Can we please stop linking to movies/shows and generally anything where the attraction and dynamics of a conversation are scripted?
/r/seduction10/01/12 05:10 PM
1

I just got banned too. SRS is a fucking joke.
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:29 PM
5

Start with the sidebar -->
/r/seduction09/01/12 12:17 AM
2

Anywhere there are women. Which is almost everywhere. Don't over think this.
/r/seduction08/01/12 11:59 PM
1

This is a self limiting belief. I too was bad at names. Started trying just a tad more and stopped thinking that. Boom, I'm great with names.
/r/seduction08/01/12 02:05 AM
1

Just want to point out that you can't say you aren't scared of women and then ay you can't aproach them. Also obligatory mention of the sidebr which will answer this fairly common question.
/r/seduction07/01/12 05:33 AM
1

Quality was all over but enough to make me want to go again. Service was local.
/r/seduction06/01/12 09:51 PM
8

Huh, I feel like I'm part of a club now based on showcase and curveball's answers. I get this all the time too...
/r/seduction04/01/12 04:21 AM
1

My biggest call out is game isn't manipulative if you choose not to be. A lot of game is approaching, being confidant, and escalating so you don't get friend zoned. That misc. part is totally bizarre and I have no idea why you feel like you have to say something like that.
/r/seduction04/01/12 12:23 AM
4

Movies != Real Life
/r/seduction03/01/12 04:24 AM
5

"those links lead to even more links. I don't want to spend weeks reading through stuff." Welcome to the internet? Do you think somebody could link you to something that DIDNT have more links to related material? Read the sidebar, it is there because it represents the foundation of seduction.
/r/seduction03/01/12 04:22 AM
58

Don't do anything different. Act like it never happened. If she brings it up just be like "oh, lol, I was drunk!" Everything you do is awesome and funny and you don't need to justify yourself.
/r/seduction01/01/12 06:04 PM
4

SPINNING TORNADO JAZZ HANDS OPENER HOOKS SETS
/r/seduction30/12/11 04:33 AM
4

Don't be afraid of just saying whatever is on your mind. I've talked to dates about esports before. Whatever. David Wygant talks a lot about just being in the moment and commenting on your surroundings. Baby? "Cute baby, whats its name?" Food in sight? "Oh man, thats looks delicious". Dog in sight? "Oh man, that looks delicious". Ok, stole that last one from simple pickup and the guy was asian. Still funny 100% of the time from a white guy.
/r/seduction29/12/11 05:08 AM
3

Like all things in life. Start small, enjoy your success, relish in the failures, move on. Get back on the horse and shit, no pain no gain, keep calm carry on.
/r/seduction29/12/11 05:05 AM
8

How do you think you'll get over this? Practice talking to plants? Comment on the weather, everybody has something to say about the weather.
/r/seduction29/12/11 03:07 AM
8

Talk to more people. Talk to everybody. It is that simple.
/r/seduction29/12/11 02:51 AM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=get+in+state&restrict_sr=on&sort=relevance
/r/seduction29/12/11 02:50 AM
3

Thats complete bullshit. These behaviors are only seen by gutless husks of a men who need women to feel validated and allow these women to walk over them. I mean for fucks sake man. The blurb on narcissism doesn't even describe narcissism. And then at the bottom "do not even attempt to separate the three"? What the fuck? This is pure nonsense!
/r/seduction29/12/11 02:37 AM
4

This is stupid and completly irrelevant to people with "game". Women like this exist because unattractive chodes exist. The popularity of this thread convinces me that seddt has an underbelly of keyboard jockey AFCs who do nothing more than circle jerk around "hallmark card" inner game posts. IMHO shit like this should be banned because all it does is touch the inner chode and re-enforces the powerless state of afcs.
/r/seduction28/12/11 11:09 PM
7

Read the sidebar, read the sidebar, READ THE SIDEBAR!
/r/seduction28/12/11 01:46 PM
4

That was almost sweet and poetic.
/r/seduction28/12/11 05:06 AM
3

This answer is good. Too good...
/r/seduction28/12/11 01:58 AM
27

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ni9ke/i_want_to_hook_up_with_a_milf/
/r/seduction27/12/11 07:35 PM
1

Good. You don't need expensive or nice shit to be happy. Save your money. Are you saying you want to be a consumerist whore?
/r/seduction26/12/11 10:08 PM
5

Next time keep the conversation going.
/r/seduction25/12/11 10:19 PM
7

Guy just uses posts on his own forum as examples he is right. The majority of his citations are his own website! There is bias written all over his content as most of his "stories" are from his own forum members. He cites this article: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-lies-trauma/201107/effects-porn-adolescent-boys which itself has no citations and reads like content spam linking back to the authors own website. What a joke.
/r/seduction21/12/11 08:49 PM
6

Who downvotes the guy that says going out into the field more is good? What the fuck?
/r/seduction21/12/11 06:12 PM
5

No, the single biggest obstacle is field experience. You can groom your toes nice, stop jerking off for no reason and text canned bullshit and you still will be an AFC if you don't gain experience approaching and escalating with women.
/r/seduction21/12/11 06:10 PM
-4

He is saying its a dick move to not tell women up front what you are looking for. I disagree completely and wanted to point out this is a outdated mindset.
/r/seduction21/12/11 02:44 AM
-7

Dick move? How so? Women want sex just as much as you do. Very western and ancient mindset to view women as not being sexual liberated and only interested in intimacy if commitment rewards follow.
/r/seduction20/12/11 11:19 PM
10

What a bause.
/r/seduction20/12/11 02:33 AM
-2

I guess the whole banal nature of the post is what really annoyed me. A better post would be "Go anywhere, smile at anybody". Little half an hour exercises on a plane in a barely real world social scenario ( everybody is annoyed and just wants travel to be over with ) doesn't help anybody.
/r/seduction19/12/11 10:34 PM
-3

Next week: Blinking and Breathing Can you handle it?
/r/seduction19/12/11 09:07 PM
3

Seriously beta stuff here. Just walk away man.
/r/seduction19/12/11 08:56 PM
8

My favorite is "get out in the field".
/r/seduction17/12/11 06:13 PM
1

No no no. You don't ask. You are a driven man who knows what he wants to d and acts on it. In repsonse to your comment below: Triangle gaze, wait for a pause or create one yourself, pull her close with your hand around the waist or neck and kiss her. Remember a conversation is a great way to build sexual tension via eye conact and slowing down your vocal patterns.
/r/seduction17/12/11 04:55 AM
1

I hear what you are saying and noted. First time I just blew somebody out so badly. Usually I just befriend the guys.
/r/seduction17/12/11 03:20 AM
1

The girl I who was bringing me home ( she insisted ;) ) eye daggered the two girls I was talking too.
/r/seduction17/12/11 03:20 AM
5

Lol... 3 replies and you are judging the entire community. The easiest advice I could give is all that texting is a no-no. Girls are text fiends and love the attention. Seduction is pretty simple once you are at this stage in the game. She was ( coy needy text games are bad ) obviously attracted and there are only two things you can really do now. Call her and ask her out. If she comes out escalate physically. Don't try and pull any coy stuff. It seems cute but it is really passive aggressive.
/r/seduction16/12/11 04:39 AM
2

Like the majority of seddit who upvoted the other thread. ;)
/r/seduction16/12/11 03:50 AM
1

Stop fucking boring girls. I bail out of sets because I'm just not interested in vagina with a vapid women attached.
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:21 PM
6

This has been the mantra of seddit for a while. Not sure why you felt this needed to be posted.
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:17 PM
1

Usually humans start with an initial greeting. This is called "saying hello". The next phase is asking her if she'd like to hang out with you. Try something like "would you like to hang out sometime?" Its even better to have something in mind, like drinks or coffee. If this is the case try "would you like to get drinks or coffee sometime?" Now because you are new at this this next option probably don't work as it requires not being an idiot or a pussy. Its always better to command rather than as…
/r/seduction14/12/11 07:20 PM
2

You know I'm really surprised this is the top comment. If you approach a mixed set there is a huge chance there will be an AFC who is in love with your target. You will be destroying his world if you even number close.
/r/seduction13/12/11 05:13 AM
1

I commented on the first line, not the second.
/r/seduction13/12/11 05:12 AM
-1

Karma eh? So now we are believing in made up superstitions?
/r/seduction13/12/11 01:49 AM
5

I am also a new non-dinner dater. I don't even care about the pickup aspects to it. Just bored with them.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:13 AM
3

Talk to every single person you see. FTFY
/r/seduction08/12/11 09:51 PM
1

a meal for two isn't really much more expensive than cooking a meal for just one person. Are you crazy? I can cook $100 meals for $5 + meat used. $34 for two pounds of swordfish, $3 for veggies/potato/rice side = $33. Two swordfish dishes at a decent place. $60-70 + tip. Chicken Marsala/Frenchesca/Parmesian is like $7.00 worth of ingredients, chicken included.
/r/seduction08/12/11 08:30 PM
1

Thanks man. Two dates this weekend. Both are going on "the plan" and I'll push sexual tension a little more than I usually do.
/r/seduction07/12/11 04:35 AM
1

and engrained inner seduction materials. Then what does that mean?
/r/seduction06/12/11 03:54 AM
3

Don't blame seduction. There isn't a person in the world who isn't a total douchebag when they are blacked out drunk.
/r/seduction06/12/11 12:49 AM
11

Just ask her out. Its really that easy.
/r/seduction06/12/11 12:08 AM
2

I wasn't going to # close her in front of everybody (to number close only the hot girl in a group in this setting would not have been cool - besides I knew I could get her email address from the website). I've # closed in situations just like this before. Was never a problem, not a big deal and shows confidence. I mean unless you are at Asexuals Anonymous or something who cares? Kinda wondering what you think the response from your group would be. At this point I'm mostly reading between the lin…
/r/seduction06/12/11 12:06 AM
1

Done the freeze, work the ladder, but usually I'm only getting d2/d3 lays. Hmmm is this from a lack of disqualification? I act like boyfriend material and asd goes up too defcon 5?
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:45 PM
3

Yeah, always was of the mind that random banter text game serves no purpose but I think my lack of texting may be causing some ambiguity. Over on the "ask women" thread some mention the little "hey how is it going" texts can make a big difference.
/r/seduction05/12/11 06:14 AM
2

For the past two days whenever I think of things I need to learn on seddit. I keep thinking of the phrase "get girls on the ge99 plan".
/r/seduction05/12/11 05:00 AM
2

Science baby: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-11223473
/r/seduction04/12/11 11:57 PM
2

Don't do this. Don't ask girls out on facebook. Ask for her number and then call her and ask her out.
/r/seduction04/12/11 11:55 PM
6

This is holding you back more than anything. Alone is good, alone is great. I'm single and awesome and loving it. Women catch the vibe and pick up on it.
/r/seduction04/12/11 10:20 PM
2

You can help yourself improve. Takes time, work, effort and a relentless desire to awkwardly fail.
/r/seduction03/12/11 05:05 PM
2

Read sidebar dude ----> Start with saying hi. Opportunities like this come all the time. Learn the material, get out into the field.
/r/seduction01/12/11 05:24 AM
-1

Because squirting lemon in my eye is amazing entertainment.
/r/seduction01/12/11 02:35 AM
7

What (1 and 5 ) the fuck?
/r/seduction30/11/11 10:17 PM
2

/r/sex/ This is not the subreddit you are looking for.
/r/seduction30/11/11 10:17 PM
1

confusion, anger and depression that followed sunday night. Uh, dude, this effect a week in? You rebounded hard. Way hard.
/r/seduction30/11/11 10:14 PM
2

4 . Don't say anything until asked. I was in the exact same scenario you were a couple of months ago and regret every second I spent farting around with my potential LTR. My LTR's kill count ( girls who seemed interested but I had to cutoff contact ) got up to 4 or 5. That's a lot of potential for a meaningful connection destroyed. My mindset is now LTR's just happen naturally. You both are attracted and want to see/sex each other often. So busy having a blast with one girl that the rest of the …
/r/seduction28/11/11 10:14 PM
2

Do you think being a nerd/geek/scientist prevents people from getting girls?
/r/seduction28/11/11 04:18 AM
1

The problem with little experiments like this is that there are way to many variables involved to be able to control properly. Did you go to specific spots where women would be more likely find a particular demographic appealing? The restaurant story sounds so awful. Did you go to a quality place with quality women wearing a backwards hat and a hip hop uniform? What was the flake/d2/ltr or sex percentage from both attires? That is what really matters. I mean you even said you had a totally diffe…
/r/seduction28/11/11 02:55 AM
8

"You don't need a clever slogan on your wall to be awesome"
/r/seduction28/11/11 01:29 AM
7

Just ask again, don't play games and never think these things matter. If attraction is there she'll just think "oh wow, he's so cute and forgetful".
/r/seduction28/11/11 01:29 AM
-10

Ugh. I wish I could downvote to oblivion sometimes. Did you have any controls or anything? This lacks any sort of scientific honesty.
/r/seduction28/11/11 01:27 AM
1

+1 man. The AFCs are totally downvoting to nothing and that sucks.
/r/seduction27/11/11 09:31 PM
0

The AFCs are upvoting today.
/r/seduction27/11/11 04:47 PM
3

I agree with this.
/r/seduction27/11/11 05:51 AM
21

David Wygant http://www.davidwygant.com/ does a good job at explaining how to do this. Its really not about being vulnerable but being able to connect and express your emotional side. A great example I've used before is this: Do you like hot chocolate? Normal answer: "Yeah, it tastes good lol" Emotionally Charged answer: "Yeah I love hot chocolate. Whenever we had snow days as a kid my sisters and I would go out sledding all day. When we got home my mother would always make us all hot chocolate …
/r/seduction27/11/11 01:28 AM
1

Dude, I agree with your sentiment but the OP is new ( by his own admission ) and used the word impress followed by expressing his desire to get laid more often. What I'm reading as "newbie that needs some inner game pointers" you are totally re-interpreting as veteren who just needs recipes. If he wanted stories he could have asked for them. This is odd. I agree with what your writing but totally bewildered on how you got there from the OPs post. And yes, impress is a pretty one dimensional word…
/r/seduction27/11/11 01:10 AM
1

The same way you'd approach any other girl. I'd start with the sidebar ----> and the basics.
/r/seduction27/11/11 12:28 AM
1

Sidebar dude ---> Read it before posting.
/r/seduction27/11/11 12:26 AM
1

The OP asked for recipe advice on a seduction forum with the word "impress" ( to affect deeply or strongly in mind or feelings; influence in opinion ) in the title. If he just wanted to cook something fancy he'd go to one of the thousands of recipe sites and find something he wanted to cook.
/r/seduction27/11/11 12:25 AM
2

Could simply be she didn't find anybody attractive enough or there were hard logistics that can't be overcome. Your mindset is a little AFC; the problem is with girls themselves and not with your game and that there is this hidden roadblock, the FWB/Booty Call that you can't possibly compete with. Focus on being attractive and not mentally masturbating over huge generalizations.
/r/seduction26/11/11 10:54 PM
1

Bad mindset. If you think you need to cook something, work out, wear nice clothes, etc to get women you don't have solid inner game. Also the rest of the internet is filled with much better cooking advice than this seduction forum.
/r/seduction26/11/11 04:54 PM
3

Id get ridiculous and unique trinkets that are linked with fond memories. Something they would never buy themselves and are small enough to put on a dresser or work desk. Met a girl dressed as a pirate. Id get her a pirate lego figure or something. Get one of those small cards that go on flowers, sign with smiley face + your name. Cheap and means a lot but doesn't broadcast ltr.
/r/seduction25/11/11 07:05 PM
1

Do you have a feather boa? Peacocking rocks!
/r/seduction25/11/11 06:38 PM
1

I'm sensing some oneitus here. Use more cube.
/r/seduction25/11/11 06:28 PM
5

Never refer to women you didn't have a relationship with as "lost chances" or "missed opportunities". You didn't loose anything at all unless they outright rejected you or you got a LJBF. Ping them, ask them if they want to hang out solo, just you and them. Recently I FClosed somebody I met months ago, just never asked them to hang out before. She said she wondered if I was attracted. Once I asked and escalated it was a relatively easy seduction and she's turning out to be pretty cool too. Are y…
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:32 PM
3

You pretty much described yourself as the definition of extroverted. You heat up during social situations. You get "in state" as we call it. A very common theme here on seddit is introverts finding out that they were actually very extroverted people. I'd propose that this change happens once people start developing mature and strong social skills. Once you get comfortable around people, women and getting out of your comfort zone your inner extroverted nature starts to take over. I am one of thos…
/r/seduction25/11/11 05:17 AM
1

I tried getting close enough to kiss, but she pulled away. All good, too bad for her though I'm a pretty damn good kisser. See this is the correct attitude. Not giving a fuck is so stupid and lame.
/r/seduction25/11/11 01:22 AM
2

I'd wager your introversion is all in your head and the only reason you are this way is because you just lack experience at being social. Introverts don't "warm up" like you do.
/r/seduction25/11/11 01:00 AM
1

6 hours away? That's too far.
/r/seduction24/11/11 06:48 PM
3

Word of advice? Start approaching sets.
/r/seduction22/11/11 06:33 PM
2

She definitely wanted more than a kiss, but I decided that I wanted to tease and take this one slowly, as I'm sensing LTR potential here. No fail no. Escalate anyway. Nothing kick starts a relationship like sex. You just gave life a chance to throw a curveball your way before you can really connect with each other. Always let her calibrate. Remember this isn't forcing sex upon her or being outrageously aggressive. Nibble her ear a little, get your hand up her shirt a little on her lower back. Si…
/r/seduction22/11/11 09:15 AM
1

Or from dudes posting as girls.
/r/seduction22/11/11 02:11 AM
2

There was a time when you didn't doubt what you read on the internet? Always be skeptical.
/r/seduction21/11/11 11:17 PM
11

Read the sidebar again. You missed the basics. You either escalate physically or you get friendzoned. Kiss her.
/r/seduction21/11/11 07:34 PM
2

Uh... Not sure why you think you can't be unique and exciting and also comfortable to be around. Friendly and happy people are disarming.
/r/seduction21/11/11 04:15 PM
8

Huge difference between trying to impress her and being unique and exciting.
/r/seduction21/11/11 07:37 AM
1

expert in any field out there has gone through tremendous amount of failed attempts and lessons before becoming who they are now Odd that people learn this. I thought this was a fact of life?
/r/seduction21/11/11 07:16 AM
1

Try looking at more than a handful of links. There is great sex advice for men on /r/sex.
/r/seduction21/11/11 07:03 AM
1

New to reddit? Rule #34b of the internet. If it exists. There is a subreddit for it. /r/sex
/r/seduction21/11/11 06:36 AM
1

Best answer.
/r/seduction21/11/11 04:08 AM
2

This is just being an asshole. Should have just smiled and ignored her when she said the dicks comment. Being non-reactive > reacting. This is also bad social karma. You never want to blow yourself out of a group of friends for no reason at all. Before you reacted to the dicks comment you were just a high value guy who held up his place in line. Then you got antagonistic about it and turned into a douche. Holding your ground and dealing with shit tests by A&A is completely different from respond…
/r/seduction21/11/11 02:32 AM
2

Poor reaction. Should have just said no. Bad inner game to get worked up over pointing and clicking a button. I mean c'mon man. Two pictures and you felt like a butler?
/r/seduction21/11/11 02:26 AM
1

Reading the sidebar would put you in the right mindset. Your post is 90% covered by avoiding limiting beliefs and developing a strong inner game. The fact that you can't pull any LTRs except for skanky bar chicks means you aren't building enough attraction. Build enough attraction and it doesn't matter if you have a shitty and depressing life ( IMHO ). You'll learn how to pull 9s and 10s just by being an attractive person in general. The side bits are just bonuses.
/r/seduction20/11/11 09:15 PM
0

Did you read the sidebar? I don't think you did.
/r/seduction20/11/11 08:14 PM
0

I like how your singular anecdotal experience somehow invalidates the widely agreed upon consensus.
/r/seduction20/11/11 02:08 PM
0

Uh no. Seduction always advises escalating quickly.
/r/seduction20/11/11 01:27 AM
2

Getting a number is meaningless...
/r/seduction19/11/11 02:48 AM
1

This is not normal.
/r/seduction18/11/11 01:49 PM
2

What makes you think you can't find love/connection/relationship while learning how to play the game? False dichotomy here. Finding the right person for you is a numbers game.
/r/seduction18/11/11 01:47 PM
8

Assume attraction and plow through. Don't get into your head about things like this. No biggie if she doesn't respond right?
/r/seduction18/11/11 03:24 AM
3

Also try being relaxed. Shoulders back, loose posture. Not sloppy mind you, at ease.
/r/seduction18/11/11 02:06 AM
2

Too much mental masturbation that has zero impact on your ability to approach and escalate.
/r/seduction17/11/11 03:08 PM
-1

Do not ever get inside of you head for too long. Uh, like this? I realized that I needed to really, honestly evaluate myself. That means pen and paper, really go deep into myself (no pun intended). I listed all the things I was happy with in my life, and things that I wasn't happy with. I went into detail on exactly why I went into this community and what I want to achieve from learning all of this. I took all the everyday struggles i've been dealing with, and brainstormed how to solve them. Jus…
/r/seduction17/11/11 01:21 PM
1

Doesn't this belong on askseddit because it pertains to a particular woman?
/r/seduction16/11/11 06:39 PM
6

I started doing the things I wanted to do rather than focused sarging. Don't go to bars anymore. The end result was ton of DHV hobbies and tons of solid results. My flake % is close to zero since September and I'm currently dating two awesome girls with a couple of plates spinning on the side.
/r/seduction16/11/11 04:30 AM
2

Yeah, def sounds like friend zoning.
/r/seduction16/11/11 03:22 AM
20

You described beta passive aggression. If it bothers you enough open up a discussion with her about how the behavior in question troubles you. If she is not willing to be a rational person and address your concerns and the problem is big enough you break up with her. Problem solved.
/r/seduction15/11/11 04:09 AM
1

WTF?
/r/seduction15/11/11 01:27 AM
1

Drop C. She's not worth it and sounds like a hassle.
/r/seduction14/11/11 12:02 AM
7

You know I have to say for a beginner and former AFC you are doing really awesome.
/r/seduction13/11/11 08:02 PM
13

Get rid of the chair. ;) I have the same situation almost. Except I have a chair and a couch in my living room and sometimes girls would sit in the chair. My solution is to throw coats and purses on it. In the spring/summer I put a book on the chair, extra throw pillows, whatever. Just make it so it is not immediately accessible and the girl has to move stuff out of the way to sit on it. Friends will move stuff out of the way but in my experience "new" people won't.
/r/seduction13/11/11 12:44 AM
1

Example?
/r/seduction12/11/11 09:37 PM
2

Based on the solid attraction you two had and the fact that she wasn't drunk I don't understand your trepidation here. SNL's really kick start any potential lasting relationship. Waiting to "close" just leaves chances of a external influence ( ex, jealous friends, life's curve balls ) disrupting any connection you could develop.
/r/seduction12/11/11 09:37 PM
1

Wait, you think inviting a girl over for sex and food is a joke? The next cheat code is "ok, come over at 8pm".
/r/seduction12/11/11 06:33 PM
2

I'm lol'ing about you asing her over for sex and pizza as a joke. I'd invite her over for sex and pizza and mean it. IMHO you have no other option. Don't get in your head about all of this and move on.
/r/seduction12/11/11 02:50 PM
2

Don't get in your head about the lack of replies. Drunk people do drunk things which their sober selves regret.
/r/seduction10/11/11 06:40 PM
3

If he can't walk up to a girl and say "Hi" then you can't do much winging. Game is 99% "I can approach women confidently". Have to walk before you can run.
/r/seduction10/11/11 06:36 PM
1

Uh.. social anxiety is not the same as outcome dependence and then you start talking about inner game and self validation. Mushing up a lot of different concepts here. think about something I'd much rather be doing Wait what? You are getting over your outcome independence/inner game/whatever you said by REINFORCING that you much rather do something else? Woah! My mind is full of fuck. I don't think you'd gain success at anything by constantly thinking you'd much rather be doing something else.
/r/seduction10/11/11 05:59 PM
3

The overwhelming upvotes indicate the majority of seddit did not read the sidebar or understand the basics of the right inner game.
/r/seduction10/11/11 03:35 PM
1

Downvotes fill my mind full of fuck.
/r/seduction09/11/11 05:31 AM
1

Being single is the most awesome thing that can happen to a man!
/r/seduction09/11/11 05:30 AM
-1

Just go over and talk to her. Its ok to jump through a hoop now and again especially in this case. Hell I'll hold a purse if she has to pee or something if the buying temperature seems high enough. You are so far ahead if she "approaches" you ( sly grin, hand gestures ) anyway a little bit of hoop jumping won't kill you.
/r/seduction09/11/11 05:28 AM
-4

Ok, you get 1 out of 3. The others sound weird. Escalate IMMEDIATELY! ;)
/r/seduction09/11/11 05:22 AM
1

Would like to add that you can simply open with "Hey guys, I'm ge99". You hit some automatic internal trigger here and 90% of people will extend their hands and introduce themselves. The other 10% will be douches and ask questions like "who are you" but you can simply follow up with "you guys look fun and awesome" or "I'm ge99, hows it going tonight".
/r/seduction09/11/11 05:15 AM
1

If you are not into her then why are you posting here?
/r/seduction09/11/11 05:05 AM
1

I agree. Assume attraction and escalate. If you do it right you'll know soon enough. Some girls just play with their hair or are bored at work and text a lot.
/r/seduction09/11/11 05:04 AM
21

Forgot where I read this tip but I actively try and encourage "we" talk by quickly establishing an "us vs the world" vibe. One classic which was posted recently was to observe other couples around you together. Try and guess how long they've been together, whether they are together, if they are happy, etc. This works on dates really well. I tried for the first time last week and my date was enthusiastically into it. Like squealed into it. Turned the conversation sexual quickly too. "Man, that co…
/r/seduction09/11/11 05:03 AM
1

Lol, so attractive women are commonly the victim of a rare and extreme case of sexual harassment caused by extraordinary circumstances and pure bad luck? Uh no, they get hit on all the time. You'd be cold and unapproachable if you got hit on all the time too.
/r/seduction09/11/11 02:41 AM
1

I'll outline how this could work: Stop playing with the band. Go talk to girls. Dunno, seems complex.
/r/seduction08/11/11 09:36 PM
1

Did this post have a point?
/r/seduction08/11/11 08:34 PM
4

This happens and is normal. Most of the time the girl just runs with it and even ramp it up. Girls love silly and flirty attention. I've even had boyfriends get involved too. "Oh no, not ge99 again he's going to steal my girl!" Sounds like the problem is the girl and not you. Typical drama queen bullshit. "Touched me on the knee? He's trying to fuck me OMG" When boyfriends/husbands and whomever call me out I usually keep the convo short and say something like "Hey man, that's just my personality…
/r/seduction08/11/11 01:55 PM
2

I don't get your point. I link to a thread about building attraction prior to a # close, which implies you have never seen this girl before and then you say it doesn't only aply to girls you are dating or have been dating? I don't get it. If you build enough attraction during your first interaction with her you win and it doesn't matter what you text.
/r/seduction07/11/11 04:41 AM
3

You say: This doesn't apply to girls you are dating, have been dating, etc. but your post has: Don't break up with a girl in a text. That's just low. It is easy but low. Plus no breakup sex can occur in a text. So you can break up with girls you are not dating? This applies to all texting. Build up enough attraction and it doesn't matter what you text. My post applies to girls you've just gotten a number off of.
/r/seduction07/11/11 04:30 AM
3

Or you could follow a master's advice and not worry about this minutia: The secret to good text game is getting really, really good at building attraction prior to your #-close. I suspect that attraction changes the context in which the women reads the texts. When she is attracted replying quickly turns from "uh oh he is eager and desperate" into "wow he is really into me, this is great!". When attracted a dumb joke goes from "this guy is lame" too "omg wow his lame jokes are so cute".
/r/seduction07/11/11 12:56 AM
1

Way to not understand how kino escalation works...
/r/seduction06/11/11 10:41 PM
3

I get a coke and then I head out to the front of the club and ask around for the manager. I meet him, shake his hand, tell him that his club is fucking amazing. I tell him he seems young for a club owner (probably not, but I was just bullshitting cause I want the club owner to like me haha) He tells me his story, how he started as a security guard, worked his way up to head of security, started his own club. I give him props for all he's accomplished. He introduces me to some of the staff, the s…
/r/seduction06/11/11 01:14 AM
1

I never take girls to movies. Heck I never take friends to movies. Social black hole. May as well hang out in two separate rooms. I then texted her a while later telling her that I would have kissed her but I had to really pee and that we both were freezing our asses off. Told her we would drink and be warm and then we could kiss and get into other trouble next time. She seemed to be cool with that. That is pretty beta. I like the intimate things like holding hands and locking fingers. Not sure …
/r/seduction06/11/11 01:03 AM
11

God damn I just came this was so good.
/r/seduction05/11/11 09:01 PM
2

Care to back up this huge generalization with data or references?
/r/seduction05/11/11 08:59 PM
4

Hard to say. Maybe you didn't disqualify yourself, build enough sexual tension, were too eager, not enough comfort, not enough attraction, she was on her period, you said something creepy, the stars were not aligned.
/r/seduction04/11/11 06:50 PM
5

You can say anything you want if you maintain frame and speak confidently. Don't worry about minutia like this. If you actually approach you are already doing better than 99% of the guys out there.
/r/seduction04/11/11 06:44 PM
1

He's actually has tons of advisers, money managers and smart people around him.
/r/seduction04/11/11 12:43 PM
49

NO NO NO Why does this have upvotes? Do you make decisions about life based on once instance of a fucking OMEGLE CHAT LOG? Cockiness is hot, CONFIDENCE is attractive. Cockiness gets you low quality bar sluts. Confidence lands you in bed with quality women.
/r/seduction04/11/11 04:53 AM
2

Too much mental masturbation going on in here and the mindset is all wrong. There is a huge difference between saying: "I fear approaching women, I need to get over the fear to have fun" and "I fear approaching women, that fear is irrational and stupid" The 2nd mindset is what you should think about. Not some Dr. Phil feel good nonsense about getting over your own anxieties.
/r/seduction04/11/11 04:50 AM
3

I wouldn't bother unless this guy has a lot of quality of women in his life. Hear this shit all the time from AFCs who complain about never going on dates and how women friend zone them. I tell them about /r/seduction and always give me some shit like this. I pull out my phone and show them my text logs and pictures. Shuts them up. You could try explaining that seduction, IMHO, is mostly about inner game, being confidant and getting rid of approach anxiety and women on a pedestal behavior. The r…
/r/seduction02/11/11 10:28 PM
1

super emotional and nutty is not the same as having a bad day
/r/seduction02/11/11 04:21 AM
2

No this stuff is pretty bad actually. puaCurveBall, frogma, TofuTofu and cody_au have posted much better content than this, go checkout their submissions and comment replies. I disagree with them on some topics ( like 180 degrees disagree ) but they truly understand and explains some of the deeper parts of inner game much better than this content.
/r/seduction01/11/11 02:50 AM
4

Downvoted for false dichotomy.
/r/seduction01/11/11 02:31 AM
1

So when you say: I explained later but I don't think I explained correctly You are actually saying: I lied to her. Don't do that. I have no idea why you didn't just say "Hey, I'm really sick so I may be out of the picture for the next couple of days. I'll let you know when I'm feeling better and we'll go have an awesome time. "
/r/seduction31/10/11 04:12 AM
5

Depends. I'll invite a girl to 1-3 events depending on my schedule and how much I liked her. If she doesn't reply to these, no worry. If you are engaging in banter back and forth and she doesn't respond it doesn't mean much because people are busy. Go back to inviting her to events. If she's not responding it means you didn't build enough attraction or things just didn't click. It happens.
/r/seduction31/10/11 04:09 AM
2

Maybe talk to her? Seems like a good way to start an interaction.
/r/seduction31/10/11 04:02 AM
1

Just tell her what was up. No sense trying to worm around trying to make an excuse. Pretty rare for a girl to schedule activities. She must be interested.
/r/seduction31/10/11 04:00 AM
1

A study. One study. Don't say studies.
/r/seduction31/10/11 01:35 AM
6

Good friends are rarer than good women. Use your social circle as a pivot. Invite girls outside to come chill with you and your awesome friends. Doing cool activities with your friends becomes a DHV later when you can show outsides how awesome your life is. When you guys go out together you can always approach with time constraints or have wing men always available. IMHO people that hook up within a social circle are essentially picking low hanging fruit. There are better women out there you hav…
/r/seduction31/10/11 12:48 AM
2

Yes! 2nd approach all the way. Thanks for posting this. I'm happy to see other sedditors that share the view that being awesome involves making yourself awesome.
/r/seduction31/10/11 12:41 AM
3

I think if you do this much mental masturbation about a girl like this you have the wrong mindset. Regardless of your goals ( LTR vs SNL ) you'll find once you master the skills and more "inner game" goals outlined in the sidebar that you will have an abundance of women in your life. The general rule of thumb is escalate or be friend zoned and in this case I think you are leaning towards the friend zone. just talking to her when I get the chance and step by step I get more "lovelier" No, kiss he…
/r/seduction30/10/11 04:07 AM
0

I have no idea what the body of this thread has to do with the title. I don't think buying flowers, 3somes or proposing have much in common and I'm really confused why your ex-wife and babies mother keep getting finding their way into these posts. Dunno... I know I jumped on you pretty bad in another thread but seddit shouldn't be your personal emotional dumping blog...
/r/seduction30/10/11 01:43 AM
7

When to run entourage vs regular game. I stopped running game on girls in the social groups I'm in because things got way too complicated and catty. :/ Started doing more entourage game to everybody but I'm realizing I'm friend zoning way to many women who seem DTF. Not sure how to draw the line.
/r/seduction27/10/11 07:17 PM
1

Did you read the sidebar? You're asking a pretty basic and well covered question.
/r/seduction27/10/11 02:23 PM
0

Not useful.
/r/seduction27/10/11 02:16 PM
16

This makes no sense.
/r/seduction27/10/11 02:14 PM
1

Totally different concept. That's called classical conditioning and if I remember right, never involves the completion of a task.
/r/seduction27/10/11 12:37 PM
1

I'd like to add that offers of rewards have a negative effect on motivation. http://www.google.com/search?gcx=w&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=offers+or+rewards+reduce+motivation I recommend reading Punished by Rewards for a good overview.
/r/seduction27/10/11 04:53 AM
2

I don't hate you but did feel it a waste of my time to respond as the past has shown that you will not be swayed or taught and that you become defensive. You didn't respond at all. What did you offer just now that isn't covered by millions of pages of existing philosophy and science? Why did you just say that a cursory reading of http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epistimology wouldn't both dispute and offer alternatives. You also are almost teetering over the cliff of trying to explain human irration…
/r/seduction27/10/11 04:45 AM
1

Troll? I can see how you would think that. Sometimes my reading comprehension isn't as good as I'd like. To be honest I think seddit has become a playground for "The Secret" esque Deeprak Choprah pseudo science and circle jerk inner game nonsense. Been around for about 8 months now, lurked for 3 or 4 and had to delete an account with FRs because a female redditor complicated the shit out of my social circle. Seddit was much better back then and I'd like to think I'm being the tough love drill se…
/r/seduction27/10/11 04:27 AM
1

Not sure. I think there is value in the lambasting the OP gets in these kind of topics. Sometimes people need to hear the world isn't going to wipe your ass for you.
/r/seduction26/10/11 03:12 PM
7

I didn't mean you fuck off. I meant the point you are trying to make is redundant.
/r/seduction26/10/11 03:48 AM
3

If you are unable to create a connection with a women than that's on you. Its not the material and community's fault.
/r/seduction26/10/11 03:33 AM
5

Sigh... Seddit doesn't need this kind of mental masturbation. The average AFC needs to get himself out of his comfort zone, better himself, approach and escalate with women or he needs to fuck off. He doesn't need to contemplate the meaning of life and whether free will exists. We don't need hundreds of words explaining or justifying this concept. Everything you've written could be learned and disputed from reading the wikipedia entry on free will. Better men than you or I have devoted their liv…
/r/seduction26/10/11 03:22 AM
1

Or just go out and talk to everybody.
/r/seduction25/10/11 07:51 PM
2

I think you may be misunderstanding some material. You should always be direct and make your sexual intentions known and in front. Mystery and subtlety come in by being vague, but not deceitful, about yourself making her want more, to uncover and discover you. Tell her you work at McDonalds for example.
/r/seduction24/10/11 05:31 PM
1

Posting as a mod breaks the democratic nature of reddit. Should have been posted as a regular user.
/r/seduction24/10/11 03:10 AM
1

To be fair I barely see any official seddit coaching shit these days. I think you are right about the app though. I don't care about the competitors thing but testmypatience shouldn't be using his mod hat to promote something.
/r/seduction24/10/11 03:09 AM
1

Yup, agree with everything you said. Seddit is no the place for this though.
/r/seduction22/10/11 09:46 PM
2

I don't take inner game advice from people who post stuff like this: Because I have been a fucking mess and nothing has made sense for months now. Moments of clarity but nothing that helps me. So glad I got trashed drunk tonight. Get yourself together man.
/r/seduction22/10/11 04:51 PM
2

Seddit is not r/relationship advice or r/depression or something. Seddit is about seducing women. If you are getting trashed drunk and joking about killing yourself you need help. Don't bring seddit down with this type of shit.
/r/seduction22/10/11 02:17 PM
3

I'm as shocked as you. This guy just posts useless fluff from some psychology theory he made up.
/r/seduction22/10/11 02:15 PM
3

I've been warring against the feel good inner game stuff lately and let me just say this guy helps proves a point I've been trying to make. ( His 1 )The salsa dancing will literally translate into body confidence, posture and grace. It is an impressive skill that girls eat up. Dance changes the way you walk. Smoother, rhythmically. ( His 3 )Takes care of himself, works out and has a dapper dress style. The rest of the FR is mostly knowing the material given my experts and executing the mechanics…
/r/seduction22/10/11 05:27 AM
5

Its fun as shit. I take swing and salsa and let me tell you that every girl I've ever mentioned this too wants an immediate lesson. Keep vids on your phone too. Massive DHV.
/r/seduction22/10/11 05:20 AM
1

Can you cite the resources your quoting here? I think seddit should start being a lot more critical of the material posted.
/r/seduction21/10/11 07:46 PM
4

No, the first step is understanding you have things to improve upon and then having the life inertia to be able to do them. If you are a loser it doesn't help you to think you aren't. Why would somebody who thinks they are awesome ever try to improve their lives?
/r/seduction20/10/11 11:11 PM
-7

Delusional thinking helps nobody.
/r/seduction20/10/11 11:10 PM
7

So I don't like these kind of empty platitudinous inner game things. Easy to say "I'm awesome". Very hard to know you are awesome because x,y,z. Everybody has potential to be awesome but you should really work on your life/personality so that there are actual reasons why you are awesome.
/r/seduction20/10/11 10:42 PM
-1

Sigh. Reddit reads what it wants too sometimes and its obvious you didn't read the thread I linked too. If you did you'd see I actually am trying to say something completely different.
/r/seduction19/10/11 01:03 AM
-2

Lol. Dude, go read the thread I linked too. Others have made similar transformations while getting into seduction and it made me curious. I was asking if anybody else had a similar experience. My lack of interest in video games is just the example I can use that pertains to me. So did I say I'm big willy pimping style? Did I make a comment that makes you think I'm full of myself? No, I said I'm extroverted in the title and "having a self amused and fun personality". Did I say I'm banging HB10s 8…
/r/seduction18/10/11 11:22 PM
-2

It must be hard to have such bad reading comprehension skills: "truly a different person I was 6 months ago" And explain "full of yourself" when all I said was "self amused and fun personality".
/r/seduction18/10/11 10:59 PM
0

No, its not like I've swapped video games for people or anything. I still love video games I think, I just can't play them anymore. :(
/r/seduction18/10/11 05:47 PM
2

I feel the exact same way. It wasn't until I forced myself to go out 7 nights a week that I became a very extroverted person. The downvoters piss me off. Not because they are introverted AFCs with no game but because they don't realize how much potential they have to become awesome extroverted people.
/r/seduction18/10/11 04:54 PM
1

Oh, your introversion is because the world is to boring for you? Be self amused, be the life of the party, control the conversation.
/r/seduction18/10/11 04:52 PM
3

Dude, people have jobs, work, hobbies and things to do. Don't get anxious over a text that wasn't returned. If your game isn't tight and you weren't attractive enough or gave her a reason to text back she may never text you back at all. Thats ok, you are a stellar human being that dates hot women all the time. You do not care. 1 is best. Never ever think 2 or 3 are options. What exactly did you text her?
/r/seduction17/10/11 04:12 PM
1

DO NOT ASK THE INTERNET FOR MEDICAL ADVICE
/r/seduction17/10/11 04:07 PM
6

As frustrated as I am with seddit's decline in quality I think we should leave things the way they are, delete askseddit and sedditelite and just see what happens. Its one thing for the haters to say "wow this sucks" but I don't see anybody, including myself, post original or useful content. These oneitus newb lack of sidebar reading guys will always be there and the lack of massive downvotes means our community is full of them. Having a community of endless newbs is almost a good thing. This me…
/r/seduction13/10/11 03:00 PM
3

But the answer is always the same for AFCs. Read sidebar, understand the basics.
/r/seduction13/10/11 01:11 PM
3

Why would you wait? She's chasing you now and this is good.
/r/seduction13/10/11 01:10 PM
1

Fist meetings... Yes....
/r/seduction12/10/11 02:08 AM
5

Try "Hi, I'm ErX29 first". Don't use canned openers you thought of before. Unless you are really really really good they may come across as pre-planned and flat.
/r/seduction12/10/11 01:51 AM
2

Do you think you can go out with girls by not asking them out? You really need to just sack up and ask her out. If you are already out, escalate. Kino then kissing is usually a good start. Also you seem new: Sidebar holds the answers you seek ---->
/r/seduction11/10/11 11:40 PM
4

No tricks needed. The examples you gave are not "mental tricks" but the natural result of developing your inner game and getting used to approaching women. Tricks implies a sort of gimmick or false perception of reality. Do you think of how her opinion makes no difference to you? It doesn't. Do you think about how your adding value to her life and not the other way around? I am.
/r/seduction11/10/11 11:37 PM
5

Do more of something. Get used to it. Mental tricks be damned. Get out there and just do it. There is no magic pill or mantra that will be more effective than practice.
/r/seduction11/10/11 11:01 PM
0

"incongruences of the system" What? No. The system is simple. Be attractive, get laid.
/r/seduction11/10/11 04:03 PM
0

So are you looking for videos of this? http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=kino&aq=f 4th link down.
/r/seduction11/10/11 04:30 AM
1

I'm trying to understand this mindset. Did you honestly think you get better at anything by not doing it?
/r/seduction11/10/11 04:28 AM
2

If you are asking it means you will. You can't just read a couple of FAQs and get rid of all the awkward and afc shit you do. My problem is that I don't want to say anything stupid or say something out of line when she doesn't actually like me. Need a couple of attitude changes here. Say whatever you want but own it. You can get away with some pretty creepy and/or outrageous things if you act like what you just said is no big deal. Don't worry about if she likes you or not. Assume attraction. Yo…
/r/seduction11/10/11 03:57 AM
-7

This is so fucking stupid and off topic.
/r/seduction10/10/11 09:25 PM
3

A half hour coffee is a good start. Don't invest a lot of time into girls you barely know.
/r/seduction10/10/11 09:03 PM
2

You don't know that. Humans are complex. Right. You are the driver, you always escalate, make her calibrate. Somebody else just wrote exactly what I would have said: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/l6ve5/thoughts_on_scraping_by/
/r/seduction10/10/11 08:12 PM
4

Sounds like a pretty epic night man. Chodes don't dance with girls.
/r/seduction10/10/11 04:56 AM
5

I know that our body releases oxytocin when we are touched by others, but there must be some deeper reason why kino works. Well I'd say a chemical response is pretty "deep".
/r/seduction10/10/11 04:54 AM
1

K-closed at this point, but didn't on purpose). After a while she tells me her hair doesn't look good today and that I shouldn't be playing with it. Then I purposely stop all kino and just say "ok" and lay back, smiling. She immediately starts to play with MY hair and keeps trying to get me to make a move. Now I should note here that I was SURE if I were to make a move at that point, she would stop me a bit into it and mention something about the earlier convo. And She would make a great FWB if …
/r/seduction10/10/11 04:52 AM
4

What a clown. This is the perfect example of how to be a try hard dancing monkey. We aim to be confidant men. Confidant on approaching and leading interactions. Confidant in ourselves and the lives we lead. Confidant that we would be improving a women's life if she were with us. We don't aim to be wild and silly fools. This guy doesn't give a fuck too: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7B2VMCHXpA You want to be like him? ;)
/r/seduction10/10/11 04:42 AM
2

20! 20! Holy shit dude when I first started opening a single set was really rough. I could never imagine 20 in a day.
/r/seduction09/10/11 01:52 AM
1

How is this about seduction? This is more life advice or /r/relationshipadvice material.
/r/seduction06/10/11 09:44 PM
-1

If you aren't comfortable with this then you probably have weak game. I say this in the most positive way possible. So there is the mechanics side of game, kino, avoid shit tests and the like and also the being a friendly interesting person side of game. If you can't make friends anywhere you go that means a lot of different things. Your first impressions suck, you have "life AA" and you aren't interesting or fun. This may be your current sticking point and not the fact you hang out with models …
/r/seduction06/10/11 09:42 PM
6

Level Creepy
/r/seduction06/10/11 09:20 PM
1

Look to your right ---> Sidebar ---> It has answers to basic questions --->
/r/seduction06/10/11 09:20 PM
-5

No please no. There is this: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=motivational+quotes
/r/seduction06/10/11 09:20 PM
1

Hard? What? Call her after work. Duh?
/r/seduction06/10/11 09:18 PM
4

Not sure how much more succinct I can be. Go out alone, by yourself, not with anybody else.
/r/seduction06/10/11 07:24 PM
2

Limiting beliefs and excuses alert! only people I know that I can consistently hit the town with go out by yourself because of their being a model? and?
/r/seduction06/10/11 06:46 PM
2

He didn't make a mistake. He didn't do anything at all actually. He did the typical AFC thing and attributed it to seddit helping him. Sometimes new sedditors need some tough love to shake them awake. If you want a teddy bear hug instead of hard hitting advice try /r/relationshipadvice. Also, check my comment history, I do my part to help people out. And welcome to the internet. For the past 20 years discussion forums, bbs, chat rooms have always had a mixture of helpful advice, spam, trolls and…
/r/seduction05/10/11 07:22 PM
1

Nut up by texting? Yeah, your really getting outside your comfort zone there...
/r/seduction05/10/11 02:13 PM
2

Read sidebar, read sidebar, read the sidebar ---->>>>>> You will not only learn that your specific question is stupid but understand there is a lot more to this than just opening lines.
/r/seduction04/10/11 05:51 PM
2

Isn't this normal?
/r/seduction04/10/11 02:33 PM
3

Dude you sound exactly like me 2-3 months ago. Two points that allowed me to breakthrough: The clubs/groups/meetups you join are simply pivots. Your are making friends and loads of social proof. I go out at night now and run into a dozen people who know me as an awesome person. You can literally see the buying temperature of a girl go from cold to hot when people you know start to come over and say "Hey ge99! How you been? Let me get the next round!" Just say anything. Don't worry about finding …
/r/seduction04/10/11 02:10 AM
2

I'd dhv, kino, disqualify, push/pull, avoid shit tests, be cocky funny and ooze confidence with my body language and voice. Since you are new and probably have no idea what I said I'd just say: "Hey, I think you are cute and I'd like to get to know you better, lets get coffee or a drink." Also, read the sidebar, has answers for everything and is a great beginners guide.
/r/seduction04/10/11 12:50 AM
3

Tons of imho better friendzone material in the sidebar ----> "Being too nice" is a rather inaccurate and simplistic way of explaining the friend zone. There is the attraction/comfort ratio to consider. Your drive and physicality of your kino/actions is important. Your availability for emotional and social validation.
/r/seduction03/10/11 07:28 PM
0

And here is this weeks...
/r/seduction03/10/11 05:30 PM
2

These generalizations are mostly false. Date higher quality women.
/r/seduction03/10/11 01:51 PM
1

We really need a texting guide. This question pops up twice a day now...
/r/seduction03/10/11 03:29 AM
2

Don't you see? She approached him because he was attractive. Looks matter and its saying it doesn't is just a sales tactic.
/r/seduction03/10/11 03:25 AM
15

so I decided to send her a text message, asking her if I could crash at her place Wait wut? You asked a girl you met once if you could crash at her place for the night? This is way beyond creepy and I think is just plain rude. I'm so surprised you weren't called on this yet. Who does shit like this?
/r/seduction02/10/11 01:23 PM
3

Usually text a silly message first like "Help some weird girl got my phone number!" or "This is the most important number you'll ever get". Dunno, depends on the girl. I think there can be good text game. krauserpua.com does amazing things with facebook messages and some of the text FRs on seddit are inspiring. My personal opinion is that texting has zero context and you are always better off with a call. Too much is lost via texting. Being able to read the tone and pace of the call and adjust a…
/r/seduction02/10/11 04:07 AM
2

Do it more! After 100s of failed sets this will become routine. There are also two other ways of looking at it. Good, now I can find somebody better. You are already winning by approaching and doing better than millions of other bros.
/r/seduction02/10/11 01:09 AM
1

"Success" is pretty personal. I'm shooting for HB8+ samedays at the moment but meeting a cool girl I could be in a relationship with is also something I'm looking for. Your call, shouldn't be ours, decide for yourself what you are working towards.
/r/seduction30/09/11 03:05 PM
1

Who cares what the rest of us thing? You want some Xbox Live achievement points or something?
/r/seduction30/09/11 02:49 PM
1

Why should we believe you when most other pickup material recommends the first approach? You've basically said years worth of evolution and material isn't worth a damn and you know better.
/r/seduction30/09/11 02:35 PM
1

Could try /r/relationshipadvice? Besides the fact that reddit has a pretty narrow demographic, seduction is even narrower. Your also asking a question which can only truly be answered by large scale studies. If 12 redditors reply do you think you have enough information to form an opinion?
/r/seduction29/09/11 05:59 PM
2

"but she said that she "thinks she was going off campus," so clearly, did not want to be around me outside of class." Or she simply had other plans? Don't mentally masturbate over this stuff. Never pull away from physical contact. Its pretty normal to have physical contact with total strangers. Go ride on the NYC subway and you'll get used to it pretty quick.
/r/seduction29/09/11 05:56 PM
1

This is not the subreddit for this...
/r/seduction29/09/11 02:57 PM
1

Just a bunch of ideas: I didn't know how to describe it, so I said something along the lines, "yea it's decent, .... I'd let you try some but that be kinda weird" Then I got, no thanks what if you got herpes!" (Girl A said that) Me.... "I was just trying to be nice" while laughing.... This is boring small talk from a conversation point of view. Take things up a notch, show some passion and open the door for more interesting threads. Some Wygantesque here: Her: Is this good. You: Oh yeah, but you…
/r/seduction28/09/11 05:55 PM
2

You seem like a dick. Just because somebody isn't on your xmas card list doesn't mean you can't be friendly, respectful and nice to them.
/r/seduction28/09/11 12:38 AM
2

Agree and amplify. "Yeah, your 18th in line." Or go sexual: "Fo shizzy, got a cool hat and a long cane"
/r/seduction28/09/11 12:34 AM
2

Heh, yeah. Loads are FRs are "Went to college party at my close friends house, met thirty horny drunk chicks, fucked one". I'm an old geezer here. I have to actually go out and meet girls jaded by 10 years of lying/cheating/asshole ex-boyfriends, dead end careers and the pain of adulthood. At least these girls know how to fuck.
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:12 AM
0

how would the guy react in a way that shows interest in her, while also avoiding the clingy aspect? Show interest by: Kissing her. Kissing her more. Escalating from there. Hundreds of FR's and stories around here of guys getting friend zoned. You ask them "did you kiss her?" and most of them say no. The ones that say yes you ask "did you escalate from there?" and they say no. Even if you're not in seduction for same nights and are looking for LTRs this is the single and clearest way to indicate …
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:07 AM
1

Talk about anything. Say bullshit about the weather for start. Your practicing being friendly and comfortable talking. Don't mentally masturbate over it too much. So what if they think its creepy? Fuck them. I mean this in the nicest way possible. Its good inner game to never be hatin, yo.
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:45 AM
1

Practice makes perfect man. Speaking personally 6 months ago I was low energy, dull and always on auto pilot. 3 months ago I started noticing I was "in state" without any sort of explicit action on my part. I was just charming, fun and very present sometimes. Now I'm just "in state" and present all the time. Its not that I don't get tired or feel like shit physically but it just doesn't matter. I'm still on. Worked over 40 hours this weekend. I was unshaven, wearing the rattiest and wrinkled clo…
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:32 AM
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Think? Need more details. Don't give up, everything sounds normal. Did you kiss her? Talking about another girl? Not a big deal. Inviting you out to things with her friends? Not a big deal. Avoiding going out with just you? How? Are you inviting her to cool things?
/r/seduction26/09/11 07:26 PM
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Think? Need more details. Don't give up, everything sounds normal. Did you kiss her? Talking about another girl? Not a big deal. Inviting you out to things with her friends? Not a big deal. Avoiding going out with just you? How? Are you inviting her to cool things?
/r/seduction26/09/11 07:26 PM
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Think? Did you try and kiss her? How does she avoid? Does she flake or simply not attend? Are you asking her to do cool things? What did you screw up? Talking about other girls isn't a huge deal, what did you say? I don't think your out of the game unless you provide more details.
/r/seduction26/09/11 07:01 PM
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And if you think that girl is cool just wait until all the attention you get your inner game in check and become a value giving and fun guy. That specific girl will be over shadowed by somebody much cooler and hotter in no time.
/r/seduction22/09/11 07:16 PM
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Woah woah woah! You don't stop being nice just because you are a PUA. There is nothing in PUA material that says "be a dick" or "stop being nice". You don't stop "putting up with" shit tests, you have fun and deflect them.
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:19 PM
4

Tomorrow we'll get the weekly: "Just approach, seriously, do it" post.
/r/seduction19/09/11 02:55 PM
4

Dude, friends don't make out on a couch. You've broken through. Got some LMR, probably because of ASD. Only thing you can do is continue to be awesome, make her chase you and keep escalating.
/r/seduction19/09/11 01:03 PM
4

I've done: "Hey, I hate eating alone, I'm going to join you ok?" Worked ok. Love Kino_Pua's post much better. Will do that next time.
/r/seduction18/09/11 11:24 PM
2

How long is a while? I think the friend zone is in your future. Have to escalte fast...
/r/seduction18/09/11 05:26 PM
1

You want the airport guys to direct you with their huge cone flashlights right to her pussy. I lol'ed.
/r/seduction16/09/11 07:29 PM
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You sound like an asshole. Being revengeful or thinking about "karma" means this her behavior has effected you. Be non-reactive. You have abundant women in your life because you are an awesome individual. Having girls flake or plans that fowl up just means you have time for exciting and spontaneous adventures.
/r/seduction16/09/11 07:14 PM
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I should edit the post. I recommend befriending all participants not sleeping with them.
/r/seduction16/09/11 01:18 PM
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"folk/Viking metal" wut? No seriously, cool FR, kudos to maintaining frame.
/r/seduction16/09/11 03:48 AM
1

Lol, no, just seemed like the simplest way to say "I am not attending to seduce women".
/r/seduction16/09/11 03:35 AM
1

No easily accessible salsa lessons around me. Been searching, mostly classes that require a partner.
/r/seduction15/09/11 09:00 PM
3

Age range is all over. I don't go to game. ( crap, phone auto correct changed that I to I'm ) Too many social connectors and pivots that can provide massive amounts of DHV. "Oh hey ge99, lets show my hot friends our moves!" :D:D:D:D
/r/seduction15/09/11 08:59 PM
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Hell yeah you will. 6 months ago I couldn't dance to save my life. Practicing in front of a mirror everyday worked wonders and feel comfortable at a club or wedding. Dancing is 90% muscle memory and body awareness. Some of the most awesome looking moves don't require much dexterity at all.
/r/seduction15/09/11 08:58 PM
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I do genuinely enjoy the music so that helps. Did salsa once too and liked that too. Mostly do swing because of availability/convenience but swing has a certain "bounce" to it that I enjoy. Fairly sure these concept apply to all couple dances. Men as leaders, tons of kino, lots of women, etc...
/r/seduction15/09/11 06:15 PM
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Crap, can't edit the title? Oopsie about the double ands.
/r/seduction15/09/11 05:12 PM
2

Don't overthink it. Ask M out or whatever highschoolers do. Try http://www.reddit.com/r/highseddit too.
/r/seduction15/09/11 02:23 AM
2

she talks about how she can cook all my fav food and wants to" Nice qualification there. I pulled away she kept her arms tight and looked up at me and I tilted my head she mirrored me Oops. That was your cue man. Should have kissed her then. Should have kissed her before that really. I feel like I came on a bit strong but I am not one to sit back and wait I've learned to go for things I want I don't think strong enough. Think I could of went for a goodnight kiss but didnt since half of her cowor…
/r/seduction15/09/11 02:18 AM
1

No, he really didn't... Besides not escalating, he just gave up after a very weak no and was extremely beta and "soft".
/r/seduction14/09/11 10:03 PM
1

The fact that you work in science is very impressive. Male female interactions have really been studied extensively but the pickup community rarely cites any material.
/r/seduction14/09/11 09:44 PM
4

I don't think anybody in the history of mankind has argued with this statement. ;)
/r/seduction14/09/11 08:17 PM
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No, you seem weak and needy. ME:to be honest, more than sex, just to hold somebody right now would be nice ME:if its meant to happen, it will happen ME:a cuddle buddy would be awesome right now though.. ME:its fine ME:i understand :) When her interest was wavering you should have turned up the heat and turned her on. After this: (12:26:30 am)HER:ohhh i am really turned on right now but also i have NEVER done something like this before (12:26:43 am)ME:neither have I... (12:26:59 am)HER:i actually…
/r/seduction14/09/11 07:04 PM
3

facepalm Pretty sure this chick was totally hot and down for a casual encounter...
/r/seduction14/09/11 06:04 PM
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By doing more of it. Make a job out of it. 6 months ago I couldn't approach a single women. Now I do it without thinking about it. Approaching women is just a completely natural piece of my personality now. You can get real caught up with technique vs technique but start small and find what you are comfortable with. The biggest "technique" is confidence. If you open with "The marbles in my brain are jiggling around because the magic unicorn is battling a fire breathing dragon" and say it with co…
/r/seduction14/09/11 04:04 AM
2

I had a couple of dates with a HB5 whom I had no sexual attraction for but she was really cool. Couldn't Shallow Hal her so I friend zoned. She is an awesome friend and one of the more important people in my life. Play entourage/social circle game with her and her friends. Don't fuck them but enjoy their company and use as a pivot to open other women.
/r/seduction14/09/11 03:51 AM
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Walk up to the first person you see, smile, lock eyes and say "Hi I'm new, my name is John!" This is called "being friendly". ;)
/r/seduction14/09/11 02:50 AM
1

Half the post is about giving physical gifts of value. One story probably resulted in his boss being insulted. The other is about "victim mentality" or something and rejecting a free vacation. "deleting some of their numbers because of their flakiness" Right, either a girl becomes invested in you by seeing you or she isn't. Contacting again and again and asking to go out won't build attraction and flakiness IMHO is a character flaw. Either you commit or you don't. I don't like flakiness for that…
/r/seduction14/09/11 02:41 AM
1

What the fuck do gifts have to do with somebody taking off your socks?
/r/seduction14/09/11 12:26 AM
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Stop all contact, let her chase, make her invest. This tactic has worked amazingly well for me. Sarge because your nights are free.
/r/seduction13/09/11 03:08 PM
6

Don't buy girls drinks. Its a losing investment, needy and really expensive over time.
/r/seduction13/09/11 01:55 PM
2

Nothing in the material says "lie to women". This isn't related to pickup at all.
/r/seduction13/09/11 01:16 PM
0

I'm shocked this is downvoted... Loads of dreamers in seddit...
/r/seduction13/09/11 11:29 AM
2

I'd like to see us back up these types of statements with links to the studies that confirm or deny this. What women find attractive and how they pick partners has been studied to death.
/r/seduction12/09/11 06:11 PM
1

Seriously? Thats just creepy sounding without building some attraction and comfort first.
/r/seduction12/09/11 12:56 PM
2

Move on quickly. I ask with the 2nd or 3rd message. "Hey, I'm into meeting real people and getting to know them, how about coffee or a phone conversation, I'm 555 555 5555"
/r/seduction12/09/11 11:56 AM
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Great stuff. "Make comments implying you two will hookup, get into a relationship, heck get married, etc (all semi-joking)" THIS. This technique is always solid for me and can work in an infinite amount of other pieces of game. Huge opener for level 2? kino like throwing an arm around and pulling her in. Also create the "us" vibe and can be a running joke later. "Aw, its like we are married but past the awesome and kinky sex phase. ( Sexualize the interaction ) Boring... push her away" ( push/pu…
/r/seduction12/09/11 03:05 AM
1

I think you're not telling us the whole story and getting the two scenarios mixed up. The first story sounds fishy and fine. The second sounds dickish but odd. I mean you bounce this girl to your place and lost her to another guy?
/r/seduction11/09/11 10:21 PM
1

I don't disagree. I'm just not seeing the picture the OP is painting, especially the first story. The phrase "was interested in this cute new girl in our social circle" says a lot to me. You either met her and moved the interaction forward or you didn't. Being interested is meaningless you know? I don't understand a lot of your comment though. First time I've heard of buying temperature being transferable. Guess it makes sense though.
/r/seduction11/09/11 07:42 PM
1

Is this what happened or is this hypothetical?
/r/seduction11/09/11 05:55 PM
3

If this guy can just easily swoop in and steal your girl then you're not really closing anything and the attraction just isn't there. The first story speaks volumns I think. You are "interested" and a girl and don't even get her #? Pete stole nothing from you there.
/r/seduction11/09/11 04:16 PM
1

Nope. Thought I made it clear that I'm LJBF because its becoming clearer a relationship with her will be lowering the quality of my life and not being that good of a fit for me.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:05 AM
2

"find out if HB8 has said anything about you" I wouldn't ask. Sounds high school. "Do you liek me? Circle yes no"
/r/seduction07/09/11 08:17 PM
3

You know I think waiting for the number was good actually. Sounds like you had a really really smooth interaction and frame and stopping the flow with a #close could have broken that.
/r/seduction07/09/11 06:54 PM
2

"f-closing out of the equation for tonight" This will effect your kino and attraction building. Either you build attraction and sexual tension or you don't. If you don't, welcome to the friend zone.
/r/seduction07/09/11 06:45 PM
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Huh, not to knock your style or anything but isn't that opener a bit creepy? I see many more natural and situational openers in your FR's. I wouldn't want a newbie to think that just blindly charging in with shoulder tapping and name introductions is the way to go.
/r/seduction06/09/11 11:50 PM
2

Bouquet of roses? No. Maybe something silly and fun wrapped in ridiculous wrapping paper ( christmas or transformers )?
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:52 PM
2

Lol, I want her field report instead. You got gamed bro!
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:13 PM
5

I think you are beaing yourself up too much. Sounds like an awesome night. Did you # close the 3set in front of your date?
/r/seduction04/09/11 01:13 PM
5

Further proof its just how you say it, not what you say. Me the other night: "You're kinda boring but that smile of yours is going in my spank bank". She bought me a shot after that.
/r/seduction04/09/11 01:22 AM
5

Never buy drinks. Looks beta, unoriginal and is a bad investment. How did you ask her to dance? Did you just walk up and ask?
/r/seduction03/09/11 07:35 PM
1

Sounds like this guy is just a clown and has nothing to do with always being "on".
/r/seduction03/09/11 07:30 PM
1

There is a subreddit for that. /r/okcupid
/r/seduction03/09/11 01:45 PM
1

I aways open groups next to me at the bar with situational or observational openers. "Hey cool tattoo, ring, necklace, what's the story/history/meaning?" Follow up with story about yourself related to the thing, get people talking. I don't open with pickup in mind, just draw people in, make new friends.
/r/seduction03/09/11 01:29 PM
1

Language, stack? I was thinking of doing the same thing this weekend... Maybe we can combine efforts. C# pro, Ruby/Django newbsauce.
/r/seduction03/09/11 02:09 AM
2

Hmmmm, odd. Your mindset of women settling for the lesser man means you still have an inner game issue. Cool it worked out and everything however I would work on improving your mindset.
/r/seduction02/09/11 09:09 PM
2

I agree, this doesn't sound like oneitus. My only takeaway is that its been too long and attraction just fizzled away. I'd next and see if she contacts you. If not. Well thats the way things go.
/r/seduction02/09/11 05:41 PM
2

I don't do this anymore. If I wanted to hang with her friends Id get their number. ;) Not being jaded or saying I'm looking for a ltr just that these kind of dates are no fun. Hard to connect emotionally and physically.
/r/seduction01/09/11 09:04 PM
9

Pretty sure he's just ponting out where things could be headed.
/r/seduction01/09/11 09:02 PM
1

"People will only be opposed to that in which they think cannot exist or which nobody would give them freely." Lol, I know people like you. "Oh you don't believe in ghosts? Thats because you don't have an open mind..."
/r/seduction01/09/11 04:31 PM
1

Not really, you make a huge claim that you have figured out the key to all human interaction but seems to lack any sort of qualifications to make such a statement. I have a casual interest in reading about human behavior and if anything is clear from the books I read is that there is no "master key" and our complex social lives are being run from a brain which was designed and evolved to handle basic instincts. Our complex social abilities are merely "tacked on" to existing brain structures more…
/r/seduction01/09/11 11:07 AM
1

Do you have any sort of qualifications besides: "I had been doing a lot of research into why we do things. I have done this research into myself, others, resource materials, etc. for years. "?
/r/seduction01/09/11 02:05 AM
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"Should i just use the mentality i use on the street and actually see where things go by using the tips i've been reading?" No, don't have the confidence to talk to women like everybody else and no, don't use any of the tips you've read. ;)
/r/seduction31/08/11 04:03 PM
3

You're the idiot. Reactions like that means if effected you. Being vindiative about banal insults isn't an attractive trait in anyone.
/r/seduction31/08/11 02:42 PM
2

Whuzzah? Isn't there an imbalance the moment you say hi? Aren't all generalzations false? What if her grandmother just died of cancer, her kitten committed suicide and nobody remembered her birthday? Just have to balance the investment and everything will be ok?
/r/seduction31/08/11 02:37 PM
7

Notes? Really? Find her later, say "Hi something relevant about class", if she doesn't flee or brush you off, game on.
/r/seduction31/08/11 03:21 AM
0

You know having consistent same days takes years to master right? Not sure what kind or magic you are looking for here.
/r/seduction30/08/11 01:56 PM
11

I wouldn't mentally masturbate over this. I don't see anything wrong with "hey name, you're cute/beautiful/pretty and have a chill/cool/nice personality, want to grab coffee some time?" Say it like you've done this 1000s of times and is as normal as brushing your teeth.
/r/seduction29/08/11 04:56 PM
2

Really demoralizing when FRs that are nothing more than "went to college party with friends and had sex with a drunk slut" get 20 upvotes...
/r/seduction29/08/11 03:18 AM
8

You matched yourself up with a girl who you didn't share a lifestyle with. That was your first mistake. Your second mistake was stopping making plans with everybody else. You need to pull girls into your life first. This isn't about the dynamics of women or heartbreak or love or whatever. This is just you making mistakes. Saying "don't fall for a girl" is so ridiculous. Seduction gives you more chances and choices to find the girl of your dreams. If you find a girl you click with, go for it, don…
/r/seduction26/08/11 06:52 PM
2

I agree 100%. The end effect is you look like own the sidewalk and belong in the area. Good way to prevent any hassle usually tagetting tourists.
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:50 PM
2

This is exactly it. What kind of eye contact are you guys using? Soften up those eyebrows, relax the face, usually it results in a head nod after 3 seconds. Just have to survive the first scan for weakness. ;)
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:48 PM
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To improve my eye contact I started locking eyes with the ghetto ganstas that live near my area. If you can hold eyes with somebody who looks and acts like they just got out of jail then AMOG #1928 isn't a problem and girls become a no brainer. Now I lock eyes with everybody without even thinking. The smile took a while to work on but now when I'm in public I'm one of the few people who is walking around looking genuinely happy. People do become attracted to you.
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:00 AM
1

Don't even joke about shit.
/r/seduction26/08/11 02:42 AM
2

Read sidebar ---->
/r/seduction25/08/11 08:45 PM
1

Really? People talk to people about things that are important to them.
/r/seduction25/08/11 11:44 AM
1

This is like bad Wygant and smells like Oprah's Secret bs.
/r/seduction24/08/11 03:55 AM
1

Escalation isn't awkward. Rejection is. You just have to sack up and go for it. Rejection almost becomes cathartic after a while because enough of it means you are doing a good job of approaching and escalating many different women. Its like the pain that comes from working out. Good sort of pain. Coming over to watch a movie, on her bed, at her place was a pretty strong indication of interest. Know why a hand on her shoulder was not received well? Because it is such a non sexual form of touch I…
/r/seduction24/08/11 03:52 AM
1

Read the sidebar please: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e46vd/can_we_get_our_numbers_sorted_ie_how_do_we_define/c155hkd
/r/seduction23/08/11 05:38 PM
1

Seddit doesn't need this type of advice. Somebody will actually use it. ;)
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:51 PM
1

The HB scale is relative to how she perceives herself and not how attractive she is to you.
/r/seduction23/08/11 01:17 PM
3

Dubstep.
/r/seduction20/08/11 09:56 PM
4

I tried. It worked. Consider me learned.
/r/seduction20/08/11 09:53 PM
5

"this was in a professional capacity, but it'll work anywhere" Won't work the same that's for sure. You can reasonable assume that women think people approaching them at work is much different than on the street.
/r/seduction19/08/11 07:55 PM
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A grain? More like an entire beach.
/r/seduction19/08/11 07:50 PM
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I think this post is bullshit and you have basically created a thesis on based on assumptions and generalizations. Have any data to backup that PUAs don't have successful relationships? Wish I had links to the presentations an articles but tons of PUA's talk about how they have/had an awesome LTR girlfriend. PUA doesn't teach you how to be emotional detached. It teaches AFCs who fall for every girl that smiles at them to calm down realize that once they develop the skills to meet women their opt…
/r/seduction19/08/11 06:43 PM
1

I agree, its the one thing I've learned from this interaction.
/r/seduction19/08/11 06:32 PM
3

You need to have the mindset that asking a girl out in public or kissing her in front of people is perfectly normal behavior.
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:38 PM
2

This isn't true at all. Peacokcing and routeins are never recommended and most upvoted material is about developing your inner game or dealing with logistics ( texting, escalation, kino ) which cross al the schools of thought.
/r/seduction19/08/11 12:22 PM
1

I think that unless she engages, you should only text with plans. Even then I'd probably try and escalate sextually or turn the attention to making plans and avoid random bs chatter as much as possible. I think I did the same thing with FR-1 ( still need to post ) and fucked it up.
/r/seduction18/08/11 11:33 PM
0

Average and chubby with bad skin guy here and I bang ok poon. Befoe seddit I was average and chubby with bad skin.
/r/seduction18/08/11 02:37 PM
1

I live in a majorish city and do things 4-7 nights a a week. One of these girls is a friend's friend another was from a pretty cool event in my city. I don't go out to bars that often just work hard at finding things to do. I really recommend meetup.com to help with this. Don't have to join the groups, just checkout their calendars. There are always things going on off the beaten track. Just have to find where to look. Regarding the "no big deal". Thats because I approach like crazy and setup da…
/r/seduction16/08/11 06:59 PM
1

True true. I understand for purposes of FRs its important to be as objective as possible
/r/seduction16/08/11 06:54 PM
1

Bracelet move wtf?
/r/seduction15/08/11 08:28 PM
3

Escalate, Escalate, Escalate Did you kiss her yet?
/r/seduction15/08/11 03:03 PM
1

Well fitting clothes are more important.
/r/seduction14/08/11 07:21 PM
2

It depends on the confidence of delivery and whether or not you can recover from pushing too hard. I forget where I've read this but the summary of a technique I like is "push a rapid sexual frame, let her pace you". Kinda like the escalation ladder but with conversation. So she was alone so there is always the easy and played out "So a hot girl like you sitting alone, why, what, when?" etc, etc, etc. I would never do this as I prefer contextualizing conversation to the situation. So she said at…
/r/seduction11/08/11 04:57 AM
3

I want to be able to spit game like the guys from simplepickup on >youtube. Work more on wittyness and touching. I think you are missing the point of what these guys are doing. Their game isn't the witty and outrageous things they say but rather how they say it. Look more closely at their body language, eye contract and the slow, loud and confident way they say things. You can't learn to "spit game" by forcing yourself to be a clown.
/r/seduction10/08/11 04:31 PM
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The sidebar or a simple google search contains all the information you need. http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=establish+sexual+attraction http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=beta+behavior+pua Tada. So hard... This post is pretty beta...
/r/seduction10/08/11 04:10 PM
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Bad attitude here. Being able to laugh off the downs and smile through them is a key personality trait.
/r/seduction10/08/11 01:58 AM
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I don't like the existing advice. If you are "assuming attraction" then stop looking for IoIs and all that shit. I hate when people talk about IoIs. Either she walked away or turned her back or she didn't. If she didn't, its on. This girl involved herself in you and your group by hanging out with you. Escalate. You are an awesome man that she would be privileged to have sex with. You do not try and gauge her chemistry and try when its the proper mix or whatever. Her joining your table and playin…
/r/seduction09/08/11 07:30 PM
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