Was exclusive, girl I was seeing eventually changed to "you can date others, just tell me". Said she felt like she was being real neurotic so she eased up. Ok, so I setup another date.


Since my last FR, HB( I forget ) from the last group and I have exchanged texts, not the girl I'm dating, not the focus of this FR girl. We are trying to get together. Just pointing out the plate spinning so later on the FR makes sense.


Met a HB9->5 ( explained later ) whom I met through a friend that brought to dinner one night. Heard she likes fun things to do in city I live in, I tell her I'm always about also doing awesome things and we should hang out. Right at the table I simply type her name into my phone and hand it to her without saying a word. Do this right on front of everybody without looking at her like its a perfectly normal thing to do.

Saw her a couple of times since then. K-closed each.

Planned to meet up with her for drinks but she changed plans to hang with her friends. Alright, I'm still down, don't care we went from date to friend hangout but make her promise to buy me drinks as a punishment. Arrive at a huge public party and start to think, ok, this could be awesome. Didn't know the party was happening.

Now when I say HB9->HB5 I mean that her perceived value dropped tremendously for some reason. First couple of times we hung out she was the alpha female of the group and felt like we were locked in alpha combat. Was fun as fuck and had this epic back and forth. For whatever reason she was just out of state and sorta "beta" that night. So we are chilling with her friends. I covertly kino and we all get drunk.

The social proof gods are shining on me and I see tons of people I know and introduce them to the group I'm with. Awesome.

We bounce to go get food as a group and she starts kino-ing me overtly in front of her friends. We are hand fucking under the table, her arm is around me and I'm just enjoying it. Her kino gets more and more overt and I'm almost feeling weird about it. Like I read something was wrong and boy was I right.

Turns out she was getting obliterated and went from a drunk girl to a totally incoherent and babbling mess. Oh no. I get her outside so I can try and get her to pass out in her car. I'm no babysitter and am really turned off by this. She's booze friendly but just acted like a freshman mormon girl that night. So I get her to her car, tell her to call a friend and pass out here until they arrive and I bounce.


So I return to this block party and since I'm there already decide to sarge with one goal in mind since I'm already spinning enough plates ( see above ).

Stop leaning in to talk to girls in loud places, talk slower and internalize being a self amused person ( from RSD right? )

Set #1 is a group of 4 girls, nice tall HB8 brunette is my target. Enter with situational opener about some stupid drink I bought. Group is hooked on my stupid drink. Isolate target from her friends eventually, no resistance. Talk, smile, kino and use a line from Simple Pickup about "baby jesus came to me in a dream and said we would make out" because I think its funny. She says, "not now, maybe later" I say "alright, let me go find my friends but I'll find you later".

Kino-ed pretty badly, should have had my arm around her, think I didn't build enough attraction or tension, she was gorgeous ( fapped to her smile today it was that good ) and I think I'm still afraid of beautiful women, work on it! lean ins 3-4, damn hard to break this habit

Set #2 Group of 3 girls, HB667, open with "wow do you guys look bored." Mother hen starts off with some shit about my shirt being gay and I just ignore her completly. How do you know each other? Yadda yadda. Convo goes silent and I own it. Keep my frame, watch the band, smirk and say nothing. HB7 asian asks what I do ( invests, now my target ), make her guess. She gets it wrong and I say its my my turn. Grab her hand and say "spin for me" she complies, yes! Say something like astronaut and follow up with "you know that spin didn't help, I just wanted to check you out." Target giggles. Hen appears with garbage shit tests, ignore again. More friends or target arrive and say we are goin to the bathroom. I say, "don't sorry Ill take care of target" and they fucking leave her with me!!! This never happens so I'm fucking shocked we keep talking, I build comfort, get her number early with "I'm doing awesome activity next week, you want to do it with me"., #close. Arm around her, talking, finally decide its time I go with "gotta find my friends" and go in for a kiss. Denied and I fall part with some seriously shitty remark about her not kissing me. Errr, fucked that up. Pua'd like a champ but a failed kclose made me go all beta, maintained frame like a boss but only # closed. Maybe more push pull next time?

Set #3 is a group of two girls HB5 and 7 dancing their asses off, open with "Holy shit you are the funnest people here" and lead them to dance closer to the stage. Sorta hooks... Felt like I was joining their party instead of them joining mine. At once point they insist I take a picture with them with my phone, alright... http://imgur.com/BNQy6 Bailed for some reason. Bailed for no reason, one was all over me and I don't know what my train of thought was here


location change, go to a bar, head to bathroom and see some HB9 on the dance floor smile at me both times on the way there and back, didn't approach because I'm a bitch, fuck, next time dammit


Set #4 Open up HB8 and HB6 with "hey my friends are lost, I need new ones, you are my new friends" They say something about only having 7 minutes so I say "let me tall you a joke". I mumble garbage about shit. Don't even know. HB8 is hooking on me, HB6 is giving me shit tests. Don't even know whats happening here and I feel uncalibrated. HB8 is cute as fuck. HB6 leaves eventually and I'm with HB8 alone. Didn't escalate because I'm still afraid of hot women. Shit. Work on it. Still maintain frame but feel like I'm being a dancing monkey at one point. Eventually my arm is around HB8 and I # close with the easy as shit "I'm doing xyz awesome activity later, come do it with me". Tell the girls to kiss me on the cheek when I leave. I see them again later and do the same, both kiss me on the cheek.
I'm really bad at building attraction. I almost know I'm already in the friend zone here. Have to learn more direct game and push/pull or something

Set #5 I go outside to calibrate and walk back in, grind with some old ladies who are just being ridiculous and open a set HB4 and HB5 next to them. Crash and burn right away but try to plow on. Fail. Leave and head to last set again.

Can't hook em all.