Just wanted to share my experience of how the confidence and mindsets that pickup teachers is far more useful for just getting laid.

Was beta, got ok at pickup, met a great woman, together for three years, got engaged but then I called off the wedding.

I'm convinced the abundance mentality, the confidence and mindsets I built with this subreddit contributed to me getting out of a bad situation and ending the engagement.

Too many people get married for the wrong reasons and don't have the courage to call off a wedding when the partnership isn't working or red flags come up.

There was no thoughts about sunk costs or that I'll never meet anybody else or that I didn't want to go through dating again. What was interesting is people always consoled me with "don't worry there is somebody out there for you" or "plenty of fish in the sea" but I never actually thought that myself. The relationship wasn't working and because of my experience with seddit, I internalized that I will certainly find somebody better.

Yes there was heartbreak, yes it sucks, yes I loved her but I'm much better off now.

My friends who are single constantly complain about dating and how being single sucks. They would say things like "welcome to the dating nightmare again" or "can't wait to share horror stories".

But here I am, one week after officially starting to date again (9 months after the breakup), having fun and juggling two girls.

Thanks to seddit everything will be just fine.

I think we talk about seddit and focus on short term gains but in reality the seduction mindset keeps giving once you start to internalize its principals.