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| 3 | So many girls on Tinder say they aren't looking for ONS but is this really true?Oh man. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 10:31 AM |
| 5 | So many girls on Tinder say they aren't looking for ONS but is this really true?It's a fine line between confidence and arrogance and I doubt you can see the line from this distance. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 10:01 AM |
| 6 | I just read No More Mr. Nice Guy... I'm a Nice Guy.Most of this I'll take to heart, but Let her come along on your awesome journey, don't give a fuck what's going on in hers because she's replacable. You aren't. Is a bit flawed in my opinion. You'll never make an emotional connection this way, you'll never learn much about her or most things, it will leave you unsatisfied. I'd say you should, after both parts are invested, absolutely give a fuck about her journey! You should just be open to rejection (vulnerability), even when you're emotionally… | /r/seduction | 24/11/15 09:14 PM |
| 8 | Seddit made ending a 3 year LTR, calling off a wedding and recovering from it all easier.One thing that I've discovered to be important: Keep yourself busy. Be it with girls, be it with your hobbies, friends, travelling, best if you mix up all of those. As long as you create various new experiences, so that the old ones don't occupy your mind, you'll be fine and can reflect on your past level headed and without being stuck in it. So don't just try to get back in the game. Try to own your life to the fullest and you'll basically slide back into the game. | /r/seduction | 24/11/15 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Persistence -VS- Oneitis: Where do you draw the line?I came to think that the difference is the emotional investment of the two. With persistence, you have a low-key but openly interested man and an interested woman. He does make a move and even if things evolve slowly, he still sticks with it. But first of all, he makes a move. With One-itis you have a man that's invested as if honeymoon's gonna start tomorrow and a woman that may not even know about all of this. First one is fine, second one is something you have to get over. You can only be per… | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How To Grab A Girls Attention And Hold ItI don't usually comment if it adds nothing to the conversation, but I just wanted to thank you man. That's exactly what I've needed. | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 01:14 PM |
| 2 | How to Pick Up Girls You Have Previously Met?That's bad. Girls aren't dumb, they notice what you're trying to express. Be honest with her. Trying to mask your intentions screams low self-esteem. | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 09:43 PM |
| 8 | How to get that 'rockstar' vibe and mentality?Just analyze his behavior and then act like him until it becomes natural to you. As for your thoughts: They arise without your influence, so take them as what they are. Suggestions from your subconscious, nothing more or less. Try meditating and you'll see how they just come up and go again. | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 09:14 PM |
| 5 | 20/M and a kissless virgin.Made out for the very first time today.Not much to do or say here. Just take my internet-high five and don't ever think of stopping to do what you did right there. | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 11:22 AM |
| 1 | How can I love myself fully?Thanks man. She was. She was the one who inspired what I'm about to become, a great friend and honestly an amazing person. I've reached out to her last month via Whatsapp after some time and all I've got was a "Who are you?" - while I was at the gym. Let's dance to Joy Division. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 08:54 AM |
| 2 | How can I love myself fully?Try to get to know yourself to the fullest. Meditation, as suggested by /u/aznmike is a great way for this. Another possibility is to go talk to a therapist, but the most important thing is to just do it. The first difficult task is to strip away all expectations and self-images you've layered over yourself since childhood. I'm not really qualified to show you a path here as this is the thing I'm still working on by myself. You get the idea and there are a lot of resources online. Simultaneously… | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | At what point can you stop playing text games, being seductive and all the other stuffYou shouldn't even start playing games and never stop being seductive. Just be yourself and this "Alphaness" will come naturally to you. If it doesn't, change your life so that it will, don't let it be just an image and, in Shia's words "DON'T LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS!" It sucks if you have to fake a mindset of abundance when you're actually worried about boring her. Don't be. Fill your life with things you want to achieve. If they are already there, just turn to them instead of investing in he… | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Go out aloneEasy. You tell her how alpha you are. Then she follows you home and makes sandwiches for you for the rest of your lives. That's it. For real though, thanks for the post. I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 08:01 AM |
| 2 | I have some oneitis due to my inexperienceGlad I could help! :) | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 06:49 PM |
| 4 | I have some oneitis due to my inexperienceWhat you've got there is really nice. Just go with the flow. To do that, never forget the rest of your life. What do you want to do with yourself? Do you want to learn a language, finish a project you're doing right now really well? Don't forget about that. If you see cute girls, flirt with them as well, text to and pursue whoever you feel like. She's only a fraction of your life now. A really enjoyable fraction, but still a fraction. Don't overthink things, enjoy them. If it works out with her,… | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 05:33 PM |
| -14 | Best response to "I was thinking about you""Do you think about me still, do you, do you? Or did you not think so far (aheeaaad)? Cause I've been thinking bout forever" | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Screw unjustified confidence. *Accept* the suckage. Build up from that.This really resonates with me, and I've been on both sides. Recently, my unjustified confidence disappeared again, but this time it was different: I saw more clearly and that allowed me to get onto the right path and to just stop being delusional. I hit up the gym instead of telling myself that it's alright and that I've already lost so much weight, I'm more aware of how the outer world sees me now and I only want to go back to this old self-perception by really becoming this person first. Right… | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 09:06 PM |
| 9 | Just had the shortest date in my life.I've noticed that when I asked a question here some days ago, nearly all responders had some redpill-history to them. Made me question the subreddit itself, although the advice wasn't too out of this world. | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I don't get it.You're right. The thing is: That's what I've got. I don't try to make some dreamy situation happen, just look for advice on how to handle an existing one. | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 01:19 PM |
| 2 | I don't get it.I get your point, but calling my goals "ridiculous ideas" doesn't really help it. This is my character. I want exactly this. I also have the urge to exercise, and I act on it. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I don't get it.Damn. Just, damn. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I don't get it.Haha great, I'll turn the 2nd one into a Biggie Smalls memorial then. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 06:51 PM |
| 1 | I don't get it.Yeah, I was one once. Not so much anymore, but a really catholic upbringing and self-esteem issues from the past still still seem to sometimes get the better of me. But I've lurked on Seddit for some months now, always tried to put advice into practice and absolutely know where you're coming from, so it's not painful at all, while still true. So thanks for your input, it wasn't until i read it that I saw the dissonance between what I know is right and what I impulsively wrote. I'm actively tryin… | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I don't get it.Thanks, this is great advice! I really appreciate (and saved) it. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I don't get it.That's basically it, although I really don't want to marry anyone yet. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I don't get it.I get that, also learned a lot from here. But whenever I have problems in this field, I go to this sub. So which would you recommend instead? | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls just aren't interested?Honestly, I don't even need hope for that one. I appreciate the unnecessary and unfunny insult anyways, live a great life. | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Girls just aren't interested?"Yeah man, my shredded body gets them so wet, I literally have to swim in them." Thanks for the laugh! | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 08:02 PM |
| 10 | Being needy VS. Showing interestThere's this little difference between Hollywood-kiss flirting and casual approach and conversation. You better not lean in for a kiss with every girl you approach, that's just douchbaggy. But when she sees you sharing a laugh and being comfortable with talking to many other people and even beautiful girls... with this, you show her that you're not a simple option she can take for granted, but that she has to put in some effort to get with you. This again will rise your worth in her eyes. The ot… | /r/seduction | 03/03/15 09:15 PM |
| 1 | I've helped 1000s of men with their dating lives... So I created a Udemy course called Dating, Relationship and Conversation Skills For Manly Men and I’ve decided to give it away for FREE to the Seddit communitythank you!!! :) | /r/seduction | 15/02/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I've helped 1000s of men with their dating lives... So I created a Udemy course called Dating, Relationship and Conversation Skills For Manly Men and I’ve decided to give it away for FREE to the Seddit communitygoddamn, too late. will there be another seddit-coupon anytime soon? i'd love to take your course very much, but can't afford it. :( that's student-life... | /r/seduction | 15/02/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you become the girl you are attracted to?He seems to be a native German speaker, "to get something" means "etwas bekommen", which looks so much like "become" | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 12:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally having some fun in a clubSaved, thanks. Reflecting on this, my recent going out-behavior might be the opposite of being desirable or even just fun. Honestly, you're the type of person I want to be surrounded by while partying! | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 11:54 PM |
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