Hey first FR, so let me know what if it meets the mark.

Okay, so I open this girl, all goes extremely well. We go out for impromptu drinks and dinner, she wants to grab coffee after as well as she is getting picked up at 8. So I get crazy good vibes, she even mentions how great and comfortable she feels.

I call her the next day to make plans for today. My thoughts being we go to a cool neighbourhood and just walk around check out the shops. She says she has never been there before and doesn’t feel comfortable going there (major wtf sensors go off for me). She says we can go to this other neighbourhood where she has to meet someone at 4. I say yes for some reason (I think it was because I was so thrown off).

So, this place is a huge touristy mall in Toronto (Eaton Centre). Not the best place for a day2… a fucking mall… how dull. I suggest we go outside and walk, there are cooler stores outside. 10 feet out of the mall she says she is cold so we go back in. Might I add at this point she is constantly on about how tired she is yada yada. So we sit somewhere in the mall and chat. Pretty dull in comparison to how well we were vibing the previous night. She is saying really boring shit on how she just wants to settle down and get a job just to make money, I’m negging that attitude, talking about passions etc. Long story short, she is just dull from my perspective now. At this point I’m just staring at my watch.

So when it comes to our goodbyes it is an awkward rushed hug because just mid stride she says okay see you later and goes to hug me. Didn’t go for a kiss, regret this, but it was a crowded ass mall and she made it clear that she hates pda and attention.

She texts me shortly after and I end the text convo with “that was a lame goodbye in a crowded corridor, how am I supposed to know if you are good kisser or not?” or something along those lines. Fucking beta text, but I don’t really give a fuck at this point because I was mad at myself, the situation, and her.

Anyway, what are your thoughts, how should I proceed. Should I even proceed. I would like to make it clear my dissatisfaction with her but don’t really know how. She is away for the weekend, so I figured I would send her a happy birthday text and gauge from there. I just feel at a major loss and super dejected because of this for some reason…