Hey Seddit,

I've been studying seduction material since I was 18. To put this perspective, I am now 22. I gave up on it when I was about 20 and tried to develop my natural skills. Thanks to Juggler though, my training stayed with me and I was actually a very good day gamer.

Tonight however, is my first "successful" night. It was my friend's birthday and we went out to a club to celebrate. The club might as well be called the PUA club, with a loud exciting front and a quiet back section perfect for isolations. To be honest, the night started off really crappy. AA was setting in as usual and the first 2 hours were spent inside my head and wondering why I'm not approach. It's okay, it happens. Just as I was about to call it a night, a group of related friends arrived and I was able to spark conversations. These conversations were not really for the sake of seduction, but talking to another human being and meeting new people really loosened me up.

Now I have to admit, I was skeptical at first but I joined my friends at the dance floor. I know some of you might be shaking your head but lucky for me there was a formal event nearby and the attendees just happen to spill over to the club. A group of cute girls there was giving all the right signs and looking to be opened. I walked over and said

Me: "You guys are dressed real fancy! Whats the occasion?"

Her: "Oh we're coming from a vet frat formal"

Me: "That sounds like a lot of fun. Just a random guess though: You like animals don't you?"

That got a small giggle out of her and I introduced myself to Erin. I then asked around and asked Erin to introduce me to her two other friends, Lucy and Dani. Immediately then I tried to warm up the group by talking to everyone. I found out that Lucy was in vet school for "Emergency animal care" which made me comment on how heroic it must be, getting up in the middle of the night to save a kitten in a tree. We all talk a bit longer, with me bouncing back and forth between Erin and her friends. But eventually I said "It was really nice meeting you guys! I'm going to go dance with my friends!". I turned around and began dancing with my friends back in my little circle. To be honest, I was already satisfied that I opened a set and got some traction but I definitely did not expect Lucy pulling me away from my group and back into her circle. Lucy proceeded to tell me that Erin was interested in snowboarding, and being a fellow snowboarder it gave me a bit to talk about.

More small talk and a bit of grinding (she was damn good at it!) led to me offering to buy her a drink. And here ladies and gentleman, is when I lost my footing. I could've gone without buying her a drink and simply sat her down. Instead we stood at the bar for a while waiting for the bartender while making small talk and eventually started making out. Not so bad right? But I'm pretty positive had I just sat her down, I would still be able get that kiss and then some more and saved $6 as well! She mentions that she's not really into relationships and that she just enjoyed the sex. Holy shit! Did this just fall on my lap? Like a complete fool I fell for the trap and said "So your place or mine?" She reeled back a bit and said "Well I'm really not that type of girl...". After that I sat her down and we made somemore small talk. As if not being able to fclose when it lands on my lap, we started talking about our ages. I find out that she is 5 years older than me and she starts complaining about too much older than me. A little bit of making out, and she tells me that she should go find her friends. At that point I knew I blew it so I pecked her one last time and never saw her again.

The saving grace was that I took so much out of that one contact. From starting off as a wreck stopped dead with AA to being able THIS close to fclose a girl was definitely a ridiculous feeling. Even though I didn't succeed, I can look back and realize what I did wrong. I felt much more social the rest of the night and even though I didn't open anymore sets, I felt great!

What would you guys have done when a girl tells you that she enjoyed sex? That seems like an easy one that got away. I would love to hear from seddit.

Thanks for reading.