Went out with my brother and two friends Wednesday night before Thanksgiving because it's always one of the craziest nights of the year. We went to our local bar which is somewhat small and gets packed pretty early. This year though, the bar had a DJ and had a 9'x5' dancing area set up (very small in an already small place). Not a good move in my opinion.

I like dancing, but this is a not a club type place, it's more of a hole-in-the-wall type bar but whatever, we got some drinks and found some friends off to the side of the dance floor. I opened a few sets but it was impossible to talk, even yelling directly next to someone's ear it was hard to be heard; the music was bumping! I could feel the bass in my brain.

Anyway I could tell this night was going downhill quick, the music was way too loud to talk and the dance floor was way too small to dance, definitely a bad combo. After awhile we decide to bail and I grabbed my brother and myself's bill. I'm walking through the dance floor to give our waitress the bill when I see this girl I went to high-school with. She kind of glances over and I have no idea what happened but I guess my reflexes took over.

I grabbed her hand and danced with her for a second, pulled out the classic spin maneuver and got a smile. Game on!

Me yelling: "You're blah-blah from high-school right?"
Her: "Yeah how'd you know?" Me: "Come on, let's go outside to talk."

I turn around, hand my brother the bill and lead the girl outside. No resistance which is surprising to me now that I think about it. I look back for a second to see my brother dumbfounded, haha!

Once outside I isolated to a corner and let her sit in a chair and then pulled her close so her legs were between mine. We bullshitted for like five minutes but whenever I said anything to her I made sure I was saying it in her ear so our faces were close. Mid-sentence I started kissing her and full on make-out session ensued.

A few minutes later my brother came out to see what happened to me and so we could leave. The girl offered to drive me home instead! I was fucking pumped! My brother leaves and we go back to making out for a bit, she keeps telling me how sexy I am. I'm trying to get her to leave and go back to my place, but then she throws a hitch in my plans. She drove 3 or 4 guys there and she has to take them back (I'm not too concerned about the guys as I know most of them). I tell her they will be fine on their own and not to worry. It then hits me that she's somewhat drunk and shouldn't be driving. I'm too drunk to drive so I don't offer. I'm about to call my brother up to come back and pick us up when her phone rings.

It's her dad who has now determined that she can't drive based on their conversation and he's coming to pick her up. She then tells me that he will take us back to my place.... what?! There's no way that will work out so I decided to cut my losses for the night and called my brother to grab me. We go back inside to wait when the guys she was with grab her and pull her on the dance floor leaving me alone. I don't like that very much so I waited a minute then walked up and started kissing her right there and then told her I was rolling out. She protested saying how cute I am and she wants my phone number, so I grab her phone, plug my number in and call my cell so I have hers too. Goodbye kiss and then I left.

It seems so crazy to me that all of that happened in like 15-20 minutes, from when I was about to pay the bill to my brother coming back to pick me up. Shit moved quick!

It's also sort of weird that since that night she keeps popping up as a suggested friend on Facebook. I haven't added her or called her since the night ended weirdly, and I haven't heard from her yet either. Should I contact her or cut my losses?

Also thanks Seddit! I followed most of the basic steps you guys are always talking about and I was on fire!