Left a girl after a one night stand and didn't ask her number, overly douche maneuver or seddit approved?

2011-11-30T19:56:33+00:00

Do girls often have morning sex after a one night stand?

Yes. Once you've "broken the seal" there's no ASD, no LMR, so usually they want another couple rounds. I guess I could be talking about older women here, perhaps younger women would actually catch some ASD after doing the deed and get "buyer's remorse" but that can have as much to do with the guy's attitude as the girl's.

Is it wrong to drop out like that and just leave a number on paper?

Right and wrong here are mostly your own standards. Sounds like YOU got a little ASD yourself and didn't know how to react. It's cool man. If she calls just play it off like it's no big deal, and you'd be happy to meet again. That is, if you want!

worthwhilethrowaway · 2011-11-30T20:00:38+00:00

Any reason you didn't actually say goodbye to her? that would be the only bad (not douchebag) thing in my book.

No, you're not obligated to say goodbye, but at the same time, having a single great night with someone, spending the night, and saying bye in the morning doesn't necessarily have to lead to anything either more than a one night stand.

It seems like you don't want to feel like you're a douchebag, so just make yourself the personal rule that you say goodbye to someone when you leave their place. If you want to have sex with them and the morning... then wake them up and see if they also want to have sex in the morning (some people don't, don't take it personally). It's just kind of... a bitch move to leave without saying anything. It gives off the impression that you aren't comfortable with what just happened, so you're running away from it.

Its the move someone would do if they haven't had many one night stands and they aren't sure what to do.

So in summary, waking her up to say goodbye to her (or get her name ;) ) is fine, and it's what i do, and it doesn't mean you want to get married. It's kind of like expressing the fact that you had a great time with them.

Title	Left a girl after a one night stand and didn't ask her number, overly douche maneuver or seddit approved?
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Date	November 30, 2011 7:48 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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