[FR] Went out for the first time after seddit. I was surprised.

chadcamomila · 2011-12-07T15:39:01+00:00

Let me first explain something, the things here in Brazil are a little different, in the city where I live there are no bars like the ones in the US, where you go to drink and talk to other people, here the bars are limited to you and your party (your table), there is no place where you can meet new people, unless you are "creepy" and go sit down with someone on their tables (That doesn't really happens).

This is a text book limiting belief. Don't be afraid to break social norms if it suits you.

For a first time it sounds like you did really well.

RocketPUA · 2011-12-07T15:24:13+00:00

You approached a random and puller her and her friend into your group...that is not your typical AFC first time results. That is awesome!

"I know you're into me, just do something" (a friend of mine advised me to)

Also a little confused. After she said do something, did you walk away and tell your friend about it, get his opinion, and then try to go back to her? If so, you should definitely have been more alpha and just go for it right there.

I walked up to the girl I suddenly gave up and walked the other way. I didn't have enough balls.

I don't think your balls(or lack thereof) had anything to do with it, but just that you need to internalize your state as to not let something unexpected like that break you out of it. When you're in state, you're in control. When she suddenly opened you, it probably threw you out of state.

Title	[FR] Went out for the first time after seddit. I was surprised.
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Upvotes	12
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Date	December 7, 2011 1:06 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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