Assortment of LR's from 2011

Hi guys, I haven't posted here before, but I've been active in seduction since late 2009, and I'd really like to share a few of my highlights from 2011. A lot happened between each story, but these were my favourite parts.

A little background info: I was 21 last year, living in Brisbane, Australia. I was working full time and doing university full time. After having just broken up with my girlfriend of 3 months, I was looking to get my life back on track. I was living with my Aunty, and I was feeling a bit depressed coming out of a relationship in a hard way. Lucky for me, my good karma kicked in and life turned itself around.

New House, New Friends, New Experiences (January)

A very good friend of mine (Joel) gave me a call telling me a friend of his had a room in her house, and was looking for someone to move in. Perfect! Move in there, and live with three girls who completely changed my life and views of the world around me. For anonymity, we'll called them R, L and K. Within the first week, R, K and I were left alone in the house, and, following a few beverages, a steering of the conversation towards sex, and massages, the three of us ended up having sex. Not my first threesome, but the first I ever felt in control of. We also had a birthday party for R and I (same birthday, SPOOKY), and I ended up sleeping with one of R's (mega hot) friends. Life had just picked up. not long after this, I started a fuck buddy situation with L.

The Strippers (March/April)

After attending a friends birthday party, I went out dressed like a rockstar. This involved a (now infamous), red leopardprint jacket, with no shirt underneath. Awesome. Met an extremely attractive, Swedish, alternative girl (so far up my alley), really sexual, and had awesome chick friends with her. Had an absolute blast that night, ended up taking the Alt girl home. Found out she was a stripper afterwards (first stripper! Wooh!). Great sex, but unfortunately left for Thailand the next day :(. The next week, head to the same club, run into the same girls (minus the Swede), and end up taking another one of the girls home in 10 minutes flat. Turns out she worked with the Swedish girl at the same club. Ended up seeing her a few times afterwards.

The Second Threeway (May)

For L's birthday, she coaxed a girl she worked with (bartender) into having a threeway with her and I. Absolutely stunning girl too. Not much to say here, I barely did anything to earn it.

Trouble in Paradise... (June)

Few sneaky drinks at my place, have my good friend Joel over, and a chicky friend of mine over. We play a game of "I never" (or Never Have I Ever), which ends up with Joel and I pulling R and L (respectively) to appropriate rooms to have sex. End up coming out afterwards to continue drinking, and L decides she want to have a threeway with my chicky friend and I. End up naked in L's bed, but my friend ends up freaking and not wanting to go on. L gets frustrated and leaves, and I end up having sex with my friend. In L's bed. Needless to say, this was a dumb thing to do.

The new house and the one night virgin (July)

After June's shenanigans, I end up leaving the house after shit goes South. Move in with two good friends of mine, who live dead centre of the club district. Long story short on this one, go out with a few friends of mine, get introduced to a stunning German girl, end up pulling her and seeing her a few times afterwards. I found out later that the she had never had sex. Which kind of makes me feel bad, but hopefully I made it special for her.

The girlfriend (October)

Around them middle of October, I ran into a girl I met at a party earlier in the year. Totally didn't get along, but a lot of alcohol and illicit substances were involved, so I was probably a dick. End up going out for drinks with her after work one day, and I am currently dating her, and haven't been happier in a long time, which is awesome.

Hope you enjoyed my assortment of adventures throughout the year, and I would highly, HIGHLY suggest to anyone who wants to learn how to interact with women: Live with a few. Honestly, the biggest learning experience of my life.

Cheers, Ryan

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[–]motherducker 6 points7 points8 points 14 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]imryano2 points 14 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Sure, that's a fair call. Considering the wall of text above, I didn't particularly want to make it any longer, but since you asked, I'll elaborate a bit.

To start with, my goal is to meet girls, expand my social circle and eventually have a girlfriend (of my choosing, rather than the other way round). This may sound silly with the above stories, but I am still friends with all of the above girls, and I still see the majority of them on a regular basis.

When starting out, I found a lot of the information I came across was incongruent with my personality. Tried stuff from Mystery Method, Love System, RSD, you name it. I think a real turning point for me was coming across RSD Tim's Flawless Natural, where it showed that you didn't really need a -game plan- or -system- to pick up, and it is more about who you are and how you live you life, and girls are only a part of that. After a fair bit of experimenting and testing, and being happier with my life, I found myself in a very comfortable position with my game.

I don't use "lines" or any of that stuff. A lot of the psychology stuff runs through my head subconsciously, but most of the time I'm just being myself and having a good time. I think the largest thing for me is pushing comfort. I love having a girl around for the long term, whether that be as a friend, fuckbuddy or girlfriend. If I don't get laid, no big deal, I've made friend and expanded my social circle. Sex isn't the goal (but it is a really nice perk).

Complications:

A) If done incorrectly (and even sometimes correctly), people will think you're gay. Especially the girls friends. There have been countless times where I will talk to girl, and because I'm not acting all dominant and threatening with my body language, and they can't hear a word I'm saying to her, her friends assume it's completely platonic. This is not as big a deal as people make it out to be. Handle it however it is congruent with you, I simply say something along the lines of "No, but did you have someone in mind for me?", because I have a lot of gay friends, and love chatting bout my adventures!

B) Friendzoning. I'm not sure as to whether its how I initiate a friendship with a woman, or something else, but I've never had an issue with this. The first time I ever had sex, it was with my best friend of three years, and has happened copious amounts of times since. A good friend of mine calls this "The Trojan Horse". Once I get a more refined answer as to why it isn't an issue for me, I'll keep you updated.

Benefits:

A) Social Circle. As you can see from above, most of these lays were from social circle. A lot of people will go "Oh, it doesn't count, it's a lot easier from social circle", which I completely agree with (being easier). With that being said, all the people I met them through, I met through game. I came to Brisbane from a smaller town up north, and only had two or three friends, and it has only been the last few years where I have hit my social stride. It's extremely important to maintain your social circle as well, I think a lot of people go out and meet people, add them on Facebook and go "why aren't I getting social circle lays? I have nearly 800 facebook friends!". No, hang out with them, be there for them, everything a good friend should do. You'd be amazed by the results.

B) Social Proof. I nearly -always- have girls with me when I go out. And not just one, 4 or 5 in most cases. If you are hanging out with 5 girls who adore you (and you adore them, in turn), not only does it give you some amazing nights out, but they will talk to girls and hook you up. There is no joke here, this happens all the time, and is awesome.

Hopefully this gives a little bit more insight, if you have any questions or queries, let me know!

[–]puaCurveBall -1 points0 points1 point 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]imryano1 points 14 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Fred_Flintstone 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Title	Assortment of LR's from 2011
Author	imryano
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	January 6, 2012 2:13 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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