Philosophical question for you guys...

chillbrodude · 2012-01-10T00:13:54+00:00

I would call it an art as opposed to a science. It does run much deeper than the acronyms and the techniques. Most people join this thinking there is some magic trick to manipulate women into fucking you whenever you have a lame, unhealthy life and low self esteem. They crave sex from a state of loneliness. You start with routine garbage and canned material etc.

It turns into a way you ended up changing your lifestyle dramatically by having a good diet and exercising. You take care of yourself and others better. You learn how to form deep emotional connections with people. You now have high self esteem, high standards (of yourself and others) and are relaxed in many situations you wouldn't have been. Your mental state is killer. You don't give a shit about what other people think about you and you're just out to have fun. The routines, canned lines, and mental masturbation are all gone. You live in the moment and everything is 100% natural.

2012-01-10T00:16:35+00:00

I use a lot of it as a homage to the ecentric personalities that dominated the early pick up community. Ross Jeffries (especially) and Mystery both had a way of inventing new lingo and catch phrases on the fly, so I like to use terms like "sarge" and "AFC" as a throwback. Some lingo had to be made or adopted from elsewhere because there just weren't other terms that fit, "neg" "value" "state"

That's the practical level, there is a deeper psychological level to it. Some guys just need a lot of information and words. Some guys that come here, all they really need to hear is "Just be cool," and they know what to do, other guys need a more technical explanation about evolutionary biology, drawing state from within and so on. It's similar to how some books about meditation are pamphlet sized, and others are textbooks, different aduiences need different things.

What you said was also true, a lot of guys work very logical jobs or hobbies like computer engineering or playing chess, and the more mechanical overviews of game are written for that mindset.

puaCurveBall · 2012-01-10T00:26:31+00:00

Naming things gives power and form to an idea. They also shorten a post down to the ideas behind it, and leave less room for misinterpretation.

There are plenty of "un-needed" and invented words in discussing art as well as science.

Which acronyms do you not feel are needed?

I feel it definitely runs deeper, we are talking about as deep changes any anyone can make in their life, and the terminology is just there to make sure we are on the same page.

Title	Philosophical question for you guys...
Author	chillbrodude
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Comments	9
Date	January 10, 2012 12:03 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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