Ever since I watched Jarhead, I don't go after girls that aren't single (I'm in college, plenty of fish). However, that doesn't mean I won't help you kiddo's out.

While I was hanging out with one of my friends, her friend ran into us and joined us. This girl is so far the hottest girl I have seen on campus and every guy is constantly around her (she resembles Mila Kunis, but more assets [I know!]). My original friend left and it was just me and her. This was before I discovered this community and started actively pursuing women, but I am a comedian and charismatic so I was making her laugh. I wasn't really trying for anything, I was just being myself and not thinking much of it. She got a text and laughed, I asked who it was.

"My boyfriend". At this point we had been walking around for about an hour.

You have a boyfriend?

"Uh-huh. Is that a problem?"

Without a word or look, I turned on my heel and walked away. I did this cause I thought it was funny.

I forgot about it till 2 weeks later I saw her at a party and she was ALL OVER ME.

So maybe don't be as drastic, but if she has a boyfriend, it's really win-win to neg and ignore her.

In similar fashion, I was once ignoring a girl because my friend liked her and it just made her crazy about me.

So, ignore untouchables. Either you will have done the right thing, or it will just aid your quest.

[thoughts from an amateur]