Here's a little background. We're both seniors in college right now. Made out at a dance club last halloween, hung out a little in between then and the past couple weeks. When we got back to school after break, we hung out with a bunch of friends and drank together that night. Had really good conversation, lots of kino. I walked her home and kiss closed that night.

Fast forward a couple of days to last week, and she said yes to a date. We made our own pizza together and watched the BCS football game, she's cool. Drove her home at the end of the night, kissed and made out a little before I dropped her off. Said she had a good time, I felt good chemistry on my end.

The next day we went to dance club on campus, again had a fun time, lots of kissing and making out on the dance floor. Walked her halfway home (she was with friends), kissed goodbye. Talked a little bit more later that week.

Now this past weekend I suggested getting dinner this coming week (through text, I was out of the country). No text response. Called her this evening about hanging out tonight since I was back, didn't pick up the phone, so I just sent her a quick text about tonight. (I know you are supposed to give the 24 hours before a date, but I figured it would be ok tonight given the circumstances).

She responded a little bit ago saying she was watching a movie with the roommates tonight. Then says "As far as dinner, I had a good time last week, but I don't think I'm ready for anything more, at least in terms of dates.. I'm sorry I know this sounds kinda lame haha".

What's your guys' take on what that means? and how do you think I should respond?

My initial thoughts are that since we're 2nd semester seniors, doesn't want to get into a serious relationship, I don't either. I'm sorta looking for something casual. Should I tell her? I also think that the "in terms of dates" means she's looking for something more on the physical side? or at least not looking for anything romantic like I said. I thought girls liked dates? haha.

Should my response be something alpha-y blowing it off? Should I let her know what my intentions are? Suggest we talk a little? Or should I just be like "no problem I totally understand"? Had a lot of fun with this girl and would like to keep it going!

Thanks seddit!