I have decided I have a crush on a woman that I work with. I say woman because she is 26, and I am 20. I would like to say I have a great understanding of the Game after reading, The Mystery Method, The Game, Double Your Dating, Conquer Your Campus and various E-Books. With that being said I have found something interesting but also very frustrating about myself which is before when I did not like this girl I could talk to her without any doubt entering my head. The instant that I decided, man I really like this girl she is nearly perfect, is when I started to clam up around her presence.

I have liked her for over a year now, but have not done anything to escalate and now I am getting to the stage where I am about to say fuck it. I have the confidence to know that if I was to get her phone number that she would give it to me and I could get a date out of it. Unfortunately, I make up excuses that prevent me from escalating. I really believe that once I made my mind up that I have a big crush on this girl that my mind was tricked into behaving like a preschooler.

Once a connection has been established with a woman of your liking, does anyone else find it hard to see this person normally again?

Hope this all made sense, I just feel the need to get this out there. And if I was to vague which im sure I was, please ask away.