So, you have a date with a girl. Do you have a plan (agenda) before meeting her about where to drive the conversation? Do you make a mental todo with things that you'll try (like kino escalation then talk a little bit about hobbies etc) or you go totally unprepared just to have a good time and see where is goes?

I know that the best thing is to just go there and have a good time but in many occasions I've found myself losing frame and then talking about random stuff. Maybe that's a good thing (losing yourself in the conversation) but it can also lead you to friendzone.

Advices?