I've read TRP for a long time, but have never seen a post addressing an issue I face. I have improved a lot, especially over the last year. But when I talk to women, I notice I am too eager offer something in trade up front. As a hypothetical, let's say I work at a bar. I would eventually offer her to come by for a drink on me sometime. My pleasure. Here's the name of my bar. Hope to see ya!

It is a bad habit. I don't know why I can't get over this one hurdle or why I even feel compelled to do it in the first place. But I am not alone in being the only one who does this, so your advice is golden to me. Thank you for helping a brother.