| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 101 | Plate caught feels and this was her shit test. What’s the reason for it? | captaintrippay | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 03:21 AM | |
| 2 | How do you maintain the 'power' dynamic in a LTR? I.E you need me, more than I need you | captaintrippay | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:02 AM | |
| 1 | The Problem with TRP and Overall life Satisfaction | captaintrippay | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 08:05 AM | |
| 1 | How to realize if it’s the girl or your own insecurities? | captaintrippay | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 07:43 AM | |
| 1 | What's your take? | captaintrippay | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 08:49 AM | |
| 1 | TRP approved romantic dates/activities? | captaintrippay | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 04:37 AM | |
| 1 | Cognitive Dissonance | captaintrippay | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 10:11 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | LTR searched ex on FB, soft next ?Facts. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 04:19 PM |
| 6 | Do Women Ever Get OneitisThis man stays dropping knowledge | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 03:28 AM |
| 7 | Yourself or Pussy? More pussy won’t make you happier, so how do you make the most of your (precious) time?Prioritize your plates. Instead of, “how many women can I sleep with//how many plates can I spin?” Tell yourself, “I got 4 slots open on my draft team who’s tryna play?” Basically man you gotta take your plates and pick your top 3-4. Break down what you value most from these relationships.. It’s a rinse and repeat cycle but the grind never stops that’s life. Edit: The best part of this is that usually the girls you prioritize wanna know more about YOU. Aka, take them on a ride on your bike. Ask … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 09:38 PM |
| 3 | 7.5/10 plate wants me to crap on her?I lost it 😂 | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 11:07 AM |
| 8 | A plate of mine answered two phone calls while we were together in secrecy. Makes me wait. Soft next is overreaction ?Shit test. Congrats you failed Edit: it’s the “you mad?” text that tells me it’s a shit test. Been there done that brother. Both passed and failed and I promise you the way to win this is it play dumb and not care or AA and tease her while she’s on the phone. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 06:16 AM |
| 2 | My text game needs improvement, any advice?Strike while the iron is hot. Waiting game with a girl you met at the club is a fools game. You’ll lose 9/10 times. Be upfront and tell her you wanna see her again. Phrase that however you want. But a chick you barely know waiting days and only texting past 1am and ending it with a 1am text that says bought some sexy new clothesss will get you nowhere. You live and learn go get the next one | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 07:38 AM |
| 19 | In horrible painCongratulations. You’re human. Much love and keep grinding. It’ll all workout | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 05:50 AM |
| 95 | In horrible painAlright fuck this. This sub is slowly becoming a circle jerk of the angry and misinformed. How do you deal with the pain? Like everybody else. You just DO. Some days you up some days you down. Does it stop you? NO. Do you call it quits and give up? NO. Are there moments where you let it get to you and bring you down? Yes. That’s life brother and it’s normal. You know what’s not normal? Letting it consume you. Letting this decision or moment hinder your potential. Letting it fester and build up u… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 05:42 AM |
| 19 | In horrible painMan quit regurgitating what you see on here and be human for a moment. Assuming everything this man said to be true, you think lifting is gonna help him? Momentarily, maybe. This the kind of question that can‘t be answered by any of us. Only through op’s healing process. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How to realize if it’s the girl or your own insecurities?Hahaha this is true. Guess I should’ve said she’s wifey material compared to the other girls I’ve either dated or been in an ltr with. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How to realize if it’s the girl or your own insecurities?Solid advice | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How to realize if it’s the girl or your own insecurities?But where is the line? I don’t want to be controlling. I want to learn to trust again. Early in the relationship I had a gut feeling some of the dudes on insta were bad news (2 guys). She blocked them completely. 6 months later -a few weeks ago- another guy caught me eye. Told her in person I didn’t like it to block him. She agreed. She didn’t. I found out today about 3 weeks later. Called her up. Said remove him in 5 minutes and call me back. She blows me up. Who? Who could it be? Oh it’s XXXX … | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 07:54 AM |
| 1 | How do you maintain the 'power' dynamic in a LTR? I.E you need me, more than I need youSolid advice. Thank you stranger | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | TRP approved romantic dates/activities?Thanks for the response.. This has worked in the past with the same girl I'm talking about in the post. It's like now she wants a deeper connection. Word for word she said 'I just feel like I need to feel like more of a connection. Not that I don't feel a connection with you cuz I fucking do..(blah blah)" Ya feel me? Edit: this topic came up because I brought up our sex life. I've had way better sex and I fully believe if I unlock one more door with this girl we'll hit that level of sex. She's h… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 05:01 AM |
| 1 | TRP approved romantic dates/activities?I appreciate the response. Maybe I didn't make myself clear. I have invited her into my life. She likes my life. She's a good addition to my life. After almost 2 years I gave her my commitment. I'm now genuinely curious on how a truly red pilled man can be romantic without losing frame. And tbh, at this point it wouldn't be losing frame.. If I did the Hollywood version of romance my girl would wonder who tf took over my body cuz that's not me. Make sense? | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What's your take?Im leaving it up in the hope that someone else learns from it. Been a lurker on trp for years. Got plenty of material memorized. It's easier to preach than to live. What would your move here be? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 09:08 AM |
| 1 | What's your take?After typing it out and getting myself in the TRP mindset.. I clicked the link and realized I'm a cuck. End thread | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 08:58 AM |
| 5 | Will be sitting down with my manager for mid-year reviews(been at the job for 5 monthsnoe) . I am doing decent in my job but the word around the office is that the management tries to show that you are not upto the mark. Any machavelian ways to handle the meeting to present my high valueBig facts. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 07:58 AM |
| 1 | What did you do to fix this posture?Bruh. Hahaha | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 07:06 AM |
| 5 | GF acting sketchy with her phoneA-fucking-men brother. Not every situation needs to be reasoned or fully understood. Use your instincts | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 06:29 AM |
| 0 | Cognitive DissonanceThe main sub is shut down brother so I said fuck it. If the post is russeling your jimmies that bad then look away | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Cognitive DissonanceBecause this sub needs it | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Cognitive DissonanceI was yes lol | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:03 PM |
| 8 | What does love feel like?Beautiful | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:58 AM |
| 12 | what does 'fuck her good' mean?Foreplay is key. No seriously. How much foreplay is too much? There's no such thing. Lose yourself in the moment. Quit thinking, get out of your head. Do what feels right. Pay attention! If her moans or body language says she likes what you're doing, keep fucking doing it. Don't speed up, don't go harder. Do exactly what you've been doing. Practice makes perfect and compatibility is a big factor. Some girls you'll click with and others you won't and that's okay. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 11:00 PM |
| 33 | Success in straight-up telling a girl you just want to fuck?I'm going to piggy back off this and say that stating your intentions early works great. Bad example: "I just wanna fuck girl lmao." Might work with some but it's too blunt for me. Good example: "I'm open to the idea of a relationship but lately my career has taken off, so I'm just going with the flow." Creates a challenge for her. Can you be tamed/caught? Shows you have ambition. Tells her you're honest, cuz you are. Etc etc The key is knowing when to say this. Edit: I don't advocate lying to g… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | crop topRain drop | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 07:36 AM |
| 24 | Why do most men still go to bars and night clubs if women are just going there to waste their time?I cringed reading this. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Do women with “dark” tattoos turn off anyone?All these snowflakes looking for their unicorn... Oh well, more ass for me lol | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | any tips on how to stop focusing on sex (nofap, noporn, monk mode) etcIt's only a problem if it starts interfering with other aspects of your life. If you aren't getting laid busting a nut every once in a while is healthy. But if you're sitting at home not crushing your goals and following your mission because you're jerking off 6x a day then it's a problem. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Do women with “dark” tattoos turn off anyone?Too black and white. Can't clump all women with tattoos into the 'No fly zone', just like you can't say all guys who wear oakleys are douchebags. Sure some of them are douchebags and some of the tatted women are walking red flags, but you're selling yourself short if you automatically disqualify Susan cuz she has a bird tattood on her leg. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Plate got feelings and wants to stop seeing me so she doesn't get hurtThis. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 01:02 PM |
| -1 | Do women with “dark” tattoos turn off anyone?I completely disagree. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | any tips on how to stop focusing on sex (nofap, noporn, monk mode) etc90% of the comments on this sub are b.s. there is no one answer fixes all. You gotta take baby steps. Pm me and gimme more detail of your situation if you want better answers | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 07:15 AM |
| 2 | How to sound more well-spoken and articulate? Will this raise my SMV?"Will speaking more articulately raise my SMV?" No. Speaking confidently, however, will. Look at Trump. Love or hate the man, he says dumb things all the time. But damnit if he doesn't sound good doing it. You can be grammatically incorrect or you could be Mark mf Twain but confidence is what separates you from the rest. You're looking for a black and white answer in a scenario that isn't black and white. Confidence is the black and white key. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 07:03 AM |
| 21 | Do women with “dark” tattoos turn off anyone?All you faggots instantly shutting down girls with tattoos cuz "meh girl gonna be pure and virgin skin!" It's 2018 fellas, use your intuition and judge women and individuals off your intuition and nothing else. This thread is a circle jerk of naivety. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 06:24 AM |
| 2 | How to become an obsessive workaholic?It’s just gotta come natural.. I used to work 40-42 hours managing a cell phone store and hated my job. Felt 42 hours was an INSANE amount. I got offered a serious job with the potential for a promotion dependent upon my own sales abilities. A year and a half later and I’m now managing my own sales team in a completely new territory/state. I’m 23 and am on track to pull in 80k this year. I’m addicted to the money. I work 56-60 hour weeks religiously and during peak times 70-72 for weeks on end. … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Girl gives lot of IOI's but gives Facebook instead of numberBruh. Most younger girls don’t like handing out their number, unless you have a ridiculous SMV and give her super tingles. It’s usually Snapchat. Too many creepy weirdos out there. The fact you’re on here posting about this one random girl giving you her FB instead of her # validates the reasoning behind why most girls don’t just hand out there # to every guy. Hit her up on fb and quit fucking over thinking. I’m with them on this one, I rarely hand out my # on first contact it’s usually my snap.… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 12:57 AM |
| 9 | Dumped by LTR turned LDR today.I’m gonna say something I don’t think is said often enough on here... It’s going to affect you. If you’re a human being and not a complete psychopath IT WILL, to some degree, affect you. Accept it, but use it to your advantage. It affects everyone differently. Some people play it off well, some people wallow in misery for months or years, and others go crazy and it hits them later, etc. the point is it’s going to affect you. The question you gotta ask yourself is this, “how MUCH am I going to le… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | first real highschool party need some helpI’m in my early 20’s but I was a party animal throughout high school and college. Literally hundreds of parties. You know that group of people you see almost every weekend and when you do see them you’re thinking, “oh this party is gonna be lit.” That was me. First tip: You’re there to have fun and meet new people. You mentioned going from dancing to banging and that’s 100% the wrong approach. If it happens let it happen naturally, but typically bangs come later from girls you met and had fun wi… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | May not belong here but I like your guys' opinion. I don't agree with my sister dating a black dude, am I a bad person for thinking this way?Ooof. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 02:40 PM |
| 19 | [Question] 24M What the heck do girls mean by "let it (sex) happen naturally?"Plausible deniability. P-L-A-U-S-I-B-L-E - D-E-N-I-A-B-I-L-I-T-Y A) Hey I just met you, and this is crazy, but I think you’re sexy, come over and fuck me maybe? B) Hey I just met you, and this is crazy, but I’m grilling out tonight, come join me maybe! If you were to use line B as lame and corny as it is, it would work way more often than A. Why? Well shit Sarah, I went over for steak and grilled asparagus and next thing I know his dick was in my mouth and I was loving it. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 05:24 AM |
| 2 | How do I reconcile this seemingly opposing ideals?Me no smart with yoga. Me don’t know your yoga style. Me do know pickup heavy bar get big muscle. Do yoga then lift heavy bar. Muscle build. Make time for all your endeavors. Feels good. Real good. Big muscle real good. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 05:16 AM |
| 37 | Guys 25 and under, do you feel like social media is a must have when it comes to dating?It’s not a must. You gotta ask yourself first, do you want an IG or Twitter? If yes, why? Is it to up your chances with the ladies, keep in touch with family, or for your own reference later on? You’re over thinking it brother either you want one or not, and if you ever meet a girl who rejects you solely because you don’t have one, let us know so I can call you a fucking liar. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Does your sex drive increase as the quality of females you have sex with goes up?Why tf is that last sentence so true tho. The more I’m attracted to the girl the better the sex is and the better I perform. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 04:45 AM |
| 113 | I can't sleep properly with my girlfriend next to me.Dude this is an easy fix.. Be 100% honest and up front with her about it. Set your boundaries now and not later. If she respects you she’ll understand, and if she doesn’t, see ya! | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 07:40 PM |
| 9 | Do I invite her to hang out or directly ask her to come over?Do you really wanna take this girl out for ice cream or coffee? Or do you really just wanna fuck? Your answer to that should dictate what you ask her to do. Do as you please not what you think would please her. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | New shit test, whats the appropriate reaction?There’s too much context involved but more than likely it’s not a shit test. Ever think that maybe she just doesn’t want her hand held for an uncomfortably long amount of time by a stranger at the bar? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 01:43 AM |
| 8 | Going on a date with a woman taller than meI’m a shorter guy and usually go for shorter chicks. Met this drop dead sexy hb9 who was a good 2-3” taller than me and we hit it off. She Shit tested me a little at first and I passed with flying colors. We had a ton of fun while I was living in her city. The best part? She was giving me the eyes from a distance and I almost didn’t approach because I could see she was tall, possibly taller than me. I’m glad I did. Hell she even loved wearing heels and when she did she towered over me but niqqa … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Plate caught feels and this was her shit test. What’s the reason for it?If you use it and it works for you.... Your welcome | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Plate caught feels and this was her shit test. What’s the reason for it?She asked if her dog could come with. Last time, she brought no food. Felt bad for the dude in the am and gave him some leftovers I had. It was a long stinky car ride home for her, apparently haha. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Plate caught feels and this was her shit test. What’s the reason for it?Edit | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 04:32 AM |
| 4 | Plate caught feels and this was her shit test. What’s the reason for it?Appreciate the input. Solid points | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 03:55 AM |
| 62 | Plate caught feels and this was her shit test. What’s the reason for it?This is the answer I was looking for. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 03:53 AM |
| 9 | Plate caught feels and this was her shit test. What’s the reason for it?She is a very good communicator and the reason I believe it’s a shit test is because of the emojis. They weren’t accidental. Dunno tho | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | what would an Alpha do?!Monk mode. Lift and stack that paper. You’re not fully over your ex you need to leave her in the past where she belongs. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 02:41 PM |
| 3 | [16yo] Why did she flake when she doesn’t have a better option?You answered your own question bud. She’s just not that into you. Being so young her parents may have been a reason why. Don’t blow up her phone and when you see her at school play it off don’t act upset over the whole thing. Soft next | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome the need to give incentives or trade gifts for attention?Edit: TL:DR by being eager to please you come across as low value. From the very first interaction you are in her frame, she smells an orbiter. Go out there and be the best mf you can be and this type of thinking won’t even be comprehensible. -“I notice I am too eager [to] offer something in trade upfront.” Example- “(1)Come by for a drink sometime on me. (2)My pleasure. (3)Here’s the name of my bar. (4)Hope to see ya!” Four sentences. You are the prize. Your attention and time IS the trade off.… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 06:10 AM |
| 4 | I feel genuinely violated and I'm not sure how to proceedThis. Better head to r/legaladvice OP, you and your frame have been violated. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Did I fuck this up? Just trying to smashFrom what you’ve posted you’re still in the clear for now. If after your last response it’s not pure logistics move the fuck on. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 04:09 AM |
| 3 | What Does It Mean For Good Men (GMs) If ... ?Holy shit buddy... You need to get out of your head and just lift. Wake up, lift, work, eat good, sleep good and repeat. Do that until you’re pumped up with so much confidence you won’t be living inside your (incredibly weird) thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 05:49 AM |
| 2 | GF posts a lot of memes on her social media, they can either be random or about men/relationships, where should I draw the line?They’re memes not nudes brother. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Can’t enjoy sex anymoreAmong many good answers in this thread, it’s obvious that what you need right now is time and discipline. Gonna throw you some tough love. The discipline to accept this situation for what it is and to not sit and dwell on it. And the discipline to continue on your path of self improvement and not let this one night stand throw you off it. Time, you just recently had THE BEST sex of your life. Chick was awalt. Not gonna lie brother it’ll take you a little time to accept the fact that the best pus… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 10:38 AM |
| 0 | How to game chubby girls/fatties?Don’t | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 04:57 AM |
| 45 | 21 years old coming too fast.Used to have this problem in my late teens and all this advice is bs. Tried everything, nothing worked. But ya know what did? Not giving a fuck. I’d bust that nut as soon as it was ready. 2 minutes? Sweet. 30 seconds? Fuck it. I’d recover and go for round 2 like a fucking thoroughbred. Eventually this dgaf mentality made me stop focusing so much on the nut and it took away all the anxiety surrounding it. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 02:09 PM |
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