first real highschool party need some help

throwawayAONO · 2018-10-06T19:19:13+00:00

I’m in high school.

Go to have fun not to pickup girls.

I’ve always gone with the thought of “I’m going to go have fun with friends and meet new people”

Everybody can smell the “I’m here for a desperate fuck.”

It’s disgusting.

Be the guy that’s fun and sociable and drag girls that aren’t doing anything into what you’re doing.

Once you’ve done that and girls are closer kino will be the game winner.

Especially in high school guys don’t escalate.

captaintrippay · 2018-10-06T23:02:25+00:00

I’m in my early 20’s but I was a party animal throughout high school and college. Literally hundreds of parties. You know that group of people you see almost every weekend and when you do see them you’re thinking, “oh this party is gonna be lit.” That was me.

First tip: You’re there to have fun and meet new people. You mentioned going from dancing to banging and that’s 100% the wrong approach. If it happens let it happen naturally, but typically bangs come later from girls you met and had fun with at the party.

Best way to meet girls? Find one you think is hot. Introduce yourself ask what school she goes to yada yada. She’s now your beer pong partner. Beer pong table full? Introduce your friends to her friends. Nobody goes to parties alone and if you suck at conversation you can curtail off your homies and her girl friends.

Don’t get too stuck on one girl. You’ll be seen as a creep in no time and word spreads fast.

Find the real party people. They’ll have addresses to other parties. Your party starts dying off? People freaking out about cops busting it? Tell the girl(s) you’re going to another address see if they wanna come with. 9/10 they will.

If there’s a dance floor and you wanna dance, dance. These are 16-19 year old girls who are drunk you legit stand behind them while they twerk on your ass. You could literally not move and if they’re feeling you they will do the rest. Seriously, I’ve done it.

And don’t EVER let your DD drink. Not even ONE. all alcohol you bring goes IN THE TRUNK. Look up your state laws with MIC/MIP. In my state, if the driver blows 0.0 minors(or anyone for that matter) CAN REFUSE a breathalyzer//field sobriety test. Don’t let the cops pressure you if your state law says they can’t.

Have fun dude

jhx264 · 2018-10-06T22:04:55+00:00

ok here's the deal in my experience -

Best to wait for not only multiple indicators of interest (ioi's), but also for HER to initiate physical touching. If she does then feel how that makes you feel, and then return that feeling back to her by touching her, either on the arm, shoulder, leg, neck, head, back, as if to say "that touch you gave me made me feel good, i want you to feel good to."

Then, and this is critical, after you escalate, BACK OFF. 2 steps forward one step back. back off, and change gears... slow down maybe do something you think is amusing or entertaining with her standing next to you, or change subjects if you're talking. This will show that even though you got to touch her, it means nothing to you, you were simply wanting to create good feelings in her, then go back to your own self amusement. she will want to invest more to a. get that good feeling you caused by touching her, and b. be involved in whatever it is that amuses you.

Title	first real highschool party need some help
Author	throwawayAONO
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	October 6, 2018 6:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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