ME: meet me at the bar Her: im tired and im doing a crossword Me: crossword smossword come here her: psht i just finished 100% of the crossword thank you very much me: i just got 100% of this girls number here. You better quit bullshitting her: damn attitude much? me: you're missing the opportunity of a lifetime her:hmmm me:(after 15 minutes) if you're not going to be fun then its over between us. Sorry her: well i was going to come actually(thats what she said) but now you're being a dick me: im just playing hard to get. so ill see you soon her:haha you're so far from hard to get me: yeah im easy Her: well let me get ready me: see you soon (the next day) me: that water this morning was crucial, my head was throbbing

Basically my point is be bold and say things that you think you shouldnt. if it takes good if not forget about it and move on. at no point in our conversation did i ever care whether or not she actually showed up, and she knew that all along.