For real, I ma looking and not finding. I like seddit and I use it as a small motivator to take chances (although they dont always play out well) But I am having trouble ascertaining any sorty of repeatable system.

I am a fairly normal guy who has a had decent or below amount of success with girls. Im not a huge fan of the idea of seducing but I like the idea of, HAVE A PLAN BEFORE YOU BARREL IN.

I am relatively good at opening and pretty easily Indicate interst, I am just very flirty. After that however I flounder typically.

so far I get this

  1. Open
  2. IOI
  3. Escalate? how?
  4. Close number/kiss/f etc...

What are the steps honestly?