So I arranged a date with a girl, she quickly said yes. Confirmed the next day in person if she will be coming "of course." Like instantly and enthusiastically.

Later in the day I ask for her address around 6pm. She ignores the demand and says that she is still at uni and classes are killing her.

When we where supposed to meet 8:30 pm I text if she is ready to be picked up. 45 mins later she says "sorry I just got your message."... I ask "so am I getting you or not.".... no reply for the rest of the night...

Next morning she texts me saying that she is sorry but she fell asleep almost as soon as she got home and if I'd like to get coffee with her later in the day. I just did "..." two hours later as my plan was hard next.

She approaches me later as we have the same class together. She explains in person that she fell asleep and was so exhausted. I tell her that it was sad she didn't come because it was really fucking fun. I also told her that I wouldn't have cared at all if she would have told me she is no longer coming but it was extremely disrespectful that she didn't bother letting me know because that way I could have just went with someone else and not waited. She said she is sorry. I told her that if she is sorry she'll have to make it up to me by inviting me to her house and cooking me some Ecuadorian food.

She said yes and started telling me how she isn't great in the kitchen but she isn't bad either so it won't be poison.

Now I'm confused on what to do. Hard next seems like the best option but at the same time she seems like she wants to make up for the fuck up (unless she was unsincere about actually inviting me over).

At the same time I can rationalize that she would flake because truthfully our classes are long and hard and by the end of the day people really are fucking dead. I can also understand she is afraid of conflict and thus didn't want to tell me that night she doesn't want to come anymore.

But on the other hand its still disrespectful as fuck and deserves a proper cunt punt.

Idk whats your guys take on it? She is hot as fuck and I'm kind of in a dry spell. At the same time I'm not going to let myself get walked over with bullshit like this.

I was thinking to give her the chance of cooking for me and if she flakes on that too permanent hard next.