Hey Seddit. I've been lurking for a few months, then on St. Patrick's Day I went out for some drinks with a like minded wing (non-community natural) buddy, and my brother.

Short Version: Went out on my first sarge, entertained a HB7 'C', her friend 'S', 'S' was digging my buddy offered us 'a ride home'. They flake last minute, we stay in frame. Text a few times that night, cut it off early, she has to earn my time. She texts me the next day, wants to get together again. I was only in town for the weekend so I intentionally friend zone her.

Then to my surprise she texts me on sunday, alpha responses to everything, tell her I live 3.5 hours away by the beach. She said she wants to come visit soon. I told her I'd get back to her. How do I proceed oh masters of seddit? My thoughts are that I should make plans soon, and try to 'get her motor running' through texts. Is this whole thing a disaster waiting to happen?

Brief background: 24 yo. Prior to finding the community I was beta as fuck, out of shape, and vastly over thought every social interaction, intent upon pleasing the other person. Thank you all for your time and knowledge.

Long Version So we get to the bar, empty. On St. Paddy's day in a college town... We are freshly out of school ourselves but forgot about spring break. I suggest we take a walk around the area to check out the other bars. As we walk around I decide to speak to everyone we walk by at the other bars, to get in state if you will. Get some weird looks from guys, no shits given.

Other bars are just as dead. Arrive back at first, ready to get social. Have a drink and play pool, notice a bunch of cute girls around in crazy outfits... Promo night. Turns out two different mixer companies were doing promos that night. There were literally twice as many promo people (a few guys on the crew) as there were patrons. Anyway, these girls were immensely helpful for practicing pickup on. It was like practicing on sales girls at the store, except they were all gorgeous, and you obviously push the boundaries of the interaction a bit further. Great practice.

The # Close: Met two HB6.5s (C and M) by dancing like only a white guy can by myself on the dance floor. It was extremely uncomfortable at first, but I quickly got few girls dancing who were watching from the sidelines. Fast forward C asks me for my facebook info. I like to keep my socializations analog. Tell her "I don't do facebook' (need to think of something better next time ha), text me instead, get flirty text, don't reply Fast forward end of the night. Girls flake on ride (should have offered drinks / smoke / any reason to leave with us), we take cab, tease the girls for flaking, bed. She texts me the next day, 11am, we talk a bit, i friend zone. Now she wants to drive 3.5 hrs to visit me... Bitch crazy?