Guys, the nature of what we call 'game', 'pick up' and 'seduction' has changed.

We all know where it started... Men who wanted to have women in their lives were intelligent enough to develop techniques to accomplish this. That's what attracts a lot of people to this community. The thing is, it didn't stop at the techniques. The community got popular. The techniques developed.

It's no longer merely about focusing outside outside ourselves on trying to attract the women we want (in the early days of this people called them 'targets'. Can you fucking believe that?) Now we focus inside ourselves. We're not just trying to get laid any more - we're trying to improve ourselves. Do you see what I mean? This community has developed what was once the desire to become attractive to women into the urge to become a better person. To come out of their own world and into the real one. To learn the skills necessary to express their true personality. To form meaningful connections with other people.

You can say all the right things to attract a woman. You can act like you're an attractive man. She might even buy it. Congratulations - you got some meaningless shallow sex with a woman you conned who didn't ever know who you truly are, without even connecting with her. That's not a good reason to do this. If you begin joining in with life, expressing yourself and sharing what you have to say, you have become the attractive person you once pretended to be. You're no longer 'gaming' women - you're engaging with them like human beings. The attraction will take care of itself, and you will be able to enjoy the process rather than calculating and manipulating it.

If you focus on developing yourself and having an identity to present to the world, you will not only begin to form mutual attractions with women, you'll begin to grow as a person, shaped by the experiences you have, and you'll be leaving your mark on the world.

Who you are is defined by what you do - what you contribute to the world. If you don't participate in life, you're keeping what you have to offer to the world to yourself. That's selfish. You are a completely unique individual with an entirely new perception of the world and by staying within the comfort zone you've carved around yourself you are preventing everyone around you from experiencing that.

I hope this made sense. I'm pretty baked.