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| 1 | How To Create A Social Circle Of Beautiful Women (excuse the shitty drawings :)Awesome man, thanks so much! Starting this week I will be putting out 2/week...one in which will be an interview with another dating expert. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 25/02/15 05:10 AM |
| 1 | 5 Top Dating Advice Books For Men (and how to learn from them)can't argue with that | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 09:03 PM |
| 4 | How To Start A Conversation On Tinder That Gets ResponsesCOME AT ME BRO | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How To Start A Conversation On Tinder That Gets Responseso.O | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 08:15 PM |
| 2 | How To Start A Conversation On Tinder That Gets ResponsesNo problem. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 04:07 AM |
| 1 | A simple technique for CONVERSATION...I see where you're coming from. I will definitely fix that for the future. Sorry about that. Also, value in this case is subjective no? That little tip could help out a lot of men on this forum looking for information on conversation. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 12:34 AM |
| 1 | A simple technique for CONVERSATION...I really wasn't trying to advertise my services. I wanted to share a great tip for guys that I teach. I was not trying to direct anyone to a sales page. Truly. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Today I finally said fuck you to my AAI like this. | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Like this infographic thing happening here. Here's my thoughts, which is similar to u/AFCDaniel but more simplified...Glad you connected to it! | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Like this infographic thing happening here. Here's my thoughts, which is similar to u/AFCDaniel but more simplified...Shit, good point. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 04:10 AM |
| 6 | Like this infographic thing happening here. Here's my thoughts, which is similar to u/AFCDaniel but more simplified...Explanation: These are the 3 pillars of becoming your most attractive self. You need all 3. Self-Actualization = Confidence, Happiness, Reaching Ultimate Potential of one's self and constantly growing Style = Appearance, Body Language, Grooming Seduction = Skills to seduce, conversation, flirting, escalating If you have just 2/3 explained: Style & Self-Actualization - You are a confident man and look good but can't seduce, therefore get put into the friend zone Self-Actualization & Seduction - T… | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Why a Girl Won't Text Back & The Importance Of ControlThanks my man, yes I am :) | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Why a Girl Won't Text Back & The Importance Of Controlwinner. | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 05:03 AM |
| 10 | Why a Girl Won't Text Back & The Importance Of ControlExactly, I can't stress enough to guys how important it is to work on your starting game. If you pull off enough attraction, EVERYTHING from there on out is super easy. Texting, getting the date, sex, etc. | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 05:02 AM |
| 7 | I cringe every time I see an approach on YouTube videos etc. but I k ow fine well that it's the only way to become successful.It's great that you can smoke and game, there's nothing wrong with that. But OP is obviously having a problem getting going. I think it's worth a shot to try and put it down and get this handled and then later on pick it back up if he wants to IMO. | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 02:14 AM |
| -1 | What sort of ideas do you guys use for a confidence boost pre game?Wow. Well said sir. | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 01:33 AM |
| 14 | I cringe every time I see an approach on YouTube videos etc. but I k ow fine well that it's the only way to become successful.The longer you care about other people and compare yourself to them the less time you will have to work on yourself. With that said... Stop smoking weed immediately. This is not helping in any way. I probably don't have to explain that. It's not a very productive hobby. But, working out is, so double that. You're going to find confidence in going out there and approaching. Experiencing what it's like to succeed and fail. If you get so much confidence from seduction material maybe read some befor… | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Tinder game. Best Practices.Tinder is a great app. Here's a good practice: Match>Tinder Text>Get Number>Phone text>Facetime>Ask for Date>Date It's all about gaining trust. Of course at the end of the day it's always a numbers game, but make sure you go through that small funnel to get a more SOLID date. | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 08:47 PM |
| 3 | I'm looking for a PUA coach or public speaker who can come do a paid presentation in the Tampa area.I just sent you a PM. :) | /r/seduction | 23/01/13 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Does seddit know how I can become a better texter?IMO texting is for setting up the date. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Keep it SimpleGreat plan man. That's looking good! | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Community Poll: What should our BestOf2012 contest be?Challenge potentially accepted if there is time. When should these be posted by? | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Making a Connection (for newbies)I like that, that's good. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 01:38 AM |
| 3 | How to use pick up tactics while you are in a relationship. A snapshot of few ideas.Be a prick at times? I know what you're saying, but that might not be the best way to word it. Maybe you mean, don't always be too available? IMO it's not right to play with a girl's emotions like that. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What other dating site I can go to pick up some casual fun except okcupid?this. | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 03:40 AM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/10/2012Check out r/gainit, r/fitness, r/loseit | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 01:34 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/10/2012Yup. Abundance mentality. I wrote an awesome article on that here: http://trippadvice.com/abundance-mentality/ | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Not much talk on Seddit about "approaching groups". Here's an article with some simple tips.Thanks man, that means a lot. Always happy to share the knowledge! | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Day game at airport?Good for practice, definitely! | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell the difference between rejection and bitch shields?Just remember, if they are teasing you and still talking to you, then they are bitch shielding. If they are actively trying to ignore you, then they are not interested (check her body language, does she keep turning away? how's her eye contact? etc) | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Date Resuscitation: How to inject some chemistry and attraction into a lifeless date?Have you heard about the new restaurant on the moon? The food is great but there's just no atmosphere. Now that I have your attention: it's all about the atmosphere. Dinner is not an ideal first date. Although society has showed us that this is the proper way to court a woman, it's not your best option. Try taking your dates to different activities and unique places, i.e. museums, local events, wine/beer tastings, window shopping, hell even an errand. Why would this be better than your average d… | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 06:07 PM |
| 6 | 4 Reasons Why She Doesn't Like YouNewbies find this sub reddit every day. | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 02:53 PM |
| 19 | the "I just got out of the shower" text message2nd one is gold. | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 10:51 PM |
| 25 | Have you ever done a PUA Bootcamp. Is it worth the money?Biased dating coach here. I believe this forum and other forums and all the information on the web can be very, very helpful. And everyone should start there. But, if you're not seeing success, even after applying and applying and reading and applying then there might be something else wrong with your interactions. Can your friends/wings help you figure this out? Yes, it's very possible. But, what if they can't? Then what? That's where a dating coach comes in. Now, I can't speak for every other … | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 11:15 PM |
| 51 | How to make it clear you are interested in her sexually, without looking like a perv?Yes, but this is what leads you out of the friend zone. It all really depends on the situation at hand. If you know she's into you and it's game on, then using the word "date" might not be necessary. But, if you know she's not sure of what's going on, then it's important to be clear with your intentions. Plus, bitches love dates. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 10:31 PM |
| 141 | How to make it clear you are interested in her sexually, without looking like a perv?Flirting and body language and kino. Tell her you think she's adorable. Any time you want to hang with a girl call it a date. Use compliance tests to slowly move up the kino ladder. Don't ever stop being playful, touchy and fun. Treat her almost as if she is already your girlfriend. Escalate. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 08:22 PM |
| 2 | What is a glaring difference between a girl playing hard to get and a girl that is just not interested?nailed it. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Hey seddit how do you deal with funnel chest/pectus excavatum?Hey dude. I have it. But I got mine fixed when I was 15. Ever think of having surgery done? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 06:44 AM |
| 1 | 3 Reasons You're in the Friend Zone (for beginners)precisely | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 08:49 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012Check the sidebar brother. There is a ton of info there! Here's a video post where I talk about it too: http://trippadvice.com/should-you-text-or-call/ | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 11:14 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012Depends how good his advice will be... | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 11:13 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012All options are pretty good at this point. It's how well you did in the initial interaction that will be the factor in you guy meeting up, not the medium. Either way, I would give her a call. Doesn't answer? Leave a voicemail. If she doesn't respond within a day, shoot her a text. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Robert Greene (author of The Art of Seduction) is doing an AMA tomorrow at 11am EST!This will be fun. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 11:00 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Reminder: Mark Manson Will Be Doing an AMA Tonight at 9pm ET!I've seen this as well with my business. Lots of guys like to throw money at the problem, but when it comes down to doing the dirty work, they start to get lazy. | /r/seduction | 07/11/12 04:44 AM |
| 3 | First date today, forgot her name, what's my best plan of action?was waiting for that, nice one. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Whats the protocol on hitting on girls in the street?Awesome man! Hope to hear from you soon. Guys have been seeing some good results from the book :) | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Whats the protocol on hitting on girls in the street?whats your handle there? | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 06:31 PM |
| 24 | Whats the protocol on hitting on girls in the street?omg. I just spit out my food. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 05:02 PM |
| 34 | Whats the protocol on hitting on girls in the street?"Hey I saw you over here and I'd regret it for the rest of the day if I didn't come over and say hi" | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 03:48 PM |
| 9 | Using the word LIKE makes you sound uncertain and dumb. To my horror, my friend just pointed out I use the word 'LIKE' all the time. I found this guide on how to stop and thought it'd be useful to you sedditors.If you can refrain from "um" that helps too. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 10:26 PM |
| 29 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go OutTell me about it. Reason #4: beer goggles. :/ | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 06:40 PM |
| 4 | How do I break the Nice Guy I am?I wrote a post on that a little while back: http://trippadvice.com/nice-guy-syndrome/ | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Good kino openers for meeting someone the first time from online dating sites?at least a hug | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 06:01 PM |
| 2 | A simple trick for continuing conversation (for beginners)That's tricky. A lot of what I learned came from in-field experience. There is one good book called "How to Talk to Anyone". It's got some great tips in there. Only about half of the book is relevant to seduction, while the other half is kind of lame at some points and is more business oriented and cheesy. I suggest to check it out! | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 05:43 PM |
| 7 | Any Halloween Party Pro Tips?This. Don't put all your marbles into tonight. Treat it like any other night and approach, converse, flirt and see where you need improvement. Then continue to go out! | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 06:37 PM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/26/2012Ask her what she's "up to this weekend?" Find out more about her personally and transition from schoolwork to that. Then you can start to connect with her. Tease her from time to time, but not too much. This will start more flirting. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How to Attract Girls on HalloweenYou'll be good to go. ;) | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 11:25 PM |
| 1 | That dude who brings out the guitar on a house/after party?I always think it's important to be able to play an instrument. Start to learn one. Guitar has the easiest learning curve. It does wonders for your game. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 11:08 PM |
| 1 | How to Attract Girls on HalloweenThis isn't a bad idea at all, actually. Are you able to at least see your face? Or is it a full on face and body suit? | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 11:02 PM |
| 9 | 20 Ways to Be More Assertive and Get What You Want14 - share a traditionally "unattractive hobby" with a girl. Good stuff. My friend was a big D&D (dungeons and dragons) player. While that game was sort of intense he also was a big fan of munchkin (not the "coolest" game in the world). He started playing it with her and she got obsessed. She didn't start playing D&D after that, but now realized his obsession with it. For those of you who don't know, Munchkin is a dumbed down version of D&D. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 05:01 PM |
| 2 | How to Attract Girls on HalloweenWell, if you're wearing a oversized mask, they'll never know. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Music to set the mood?Not a suggestion, rather a story. I was with a girl once and we were in my bed in college making out. She specifically requested we listen to 2pac before we take it any further. She was white. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 04:47 PM |
| 2 | How to Attract Girls on HalloweenAgreed. It's so important to be cleverly dressed on Halloween. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Anyone from Chicago,?check out www.thechicagolair.com | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 08:45 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012I don't know why the community hates that so much. I'm a fan of it. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 08:32 AM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/19/2012Honestly, I would stop opening indirectly. That's the problem with it. It's usually difficult and some times awkward to start stating your intentions. But if you really don't like going direct then you could do something like this. Stop conversation dead in it's tracks and just say "I'm sorry but I just had to say, I think you are so adorable/cute/beautiful" Then you can go from there. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Share your daily exercises for: voice tonality, body language, conversation, etcOne of things I do to work on body language is to NEVER STOP WORKING ON IT. I don't just save it for important people I want to talk to, instead I'm always conscious. Hell, I even give my cat eye contact when I talk to her. I walk from room to room in my place with full posture. I sit at my desk with as best form as possible. Anyone who I talk to on a regular basis (friends, family, cashier, girlfriend, etc) I am always making sure I am practicing to my full ability. It's easy to lose over time … | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:08 PM |
| 5 | 20 Ways To Be More InterestingThat's the best thing I've heard all day. So, thank YOU. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 05:08 AM |
| 2 | [Wingmen] Let's create a definitive guide to winging: What do you do to be a good wingman? What makes a good wingman? How do you deal with 'conflict' and 'competition' between each other? Any other important factors to consider?I didn't even have these guidelines until my friends and I were improving. The whole system came about because of how messy things got when we would go out. People would be stranded, lol. Hearts would be broken. The guidelines made the nights so much better and more fun! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 12:15 AM |
| 32 | [Wingmen] Let's create a definitive guide to winging: What do you do to be a good wingman? What makes a good wingman? How do you deal with 'conflict' and 'competition' between each other? Any other important factors to consider?A wing man is ALWAYS there to support you in any situation. What a wingman should always do: • DHV you when appropriate (say how awesome you are at x,y,z) • Allow you to walk away with a girl at ANY time (unless he's your driver, logistics should be discussed prior to going out) • Give you constructive criticism (if you need to improve somewhere he should let you know, if you're doing awesome at something he should let you know) What a wingman should NEVER do: • DLV you (put you down in any way … | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 11:35 PM |
| 5 | 20 Ways To Be More InterestingThe earlier the better :) | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes people think I'm gay and it hurts my game more than I'd like to admitOnce you use enough kino and intent, they will know you're not gay. I think a lot of it may be in your head. I wouldn't worry too much more about it. Go about doing whatever you like to do and keep working on your skills. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes people think I'm gay and it hurts my game more than I'd like to admitI would think about it like this: is you "seeming gay" hurting your chances with the ladies? Or is it just some guys are being douchebags? Because if your game is rock solid, then it shouldn't matter! But, if something is going wrong and the women you approach etc aren't biting because they think your gay, then maybe there is a way to fix this. Tell us more details. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Tips for talking in bigger groups?I like to treat groups as one entity. When you're talking to them, treat it as if it's one person. When someone responds, you can respond to them, but try and aim it toward the whole group. The people in the group who are not responding or paying as much attention, try and call to them specifically when you want to say something to bring them back in. For body language, you should always be facing as many of the people as you can. Work on taking up space and looking confident (straight posture, … | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Is kino absolutely necessary?Hahaha. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 08:13 PM |
| 14 | Is kino absolutely necessary?Here's something I wrote a little while back: http://trippadvice.com/how-to-touch-a-woman/ | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 06:41 PM |
| 9 | Is kino absolutely necessary?Have no fear brother. Start working at it. Seddit has many articles and resources on how to get better at it. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 06:37 PM |
| -1 | 3 Reasons You Don't Need Money to Impress a GirlYes you're absolutely right. That's what I was saying in the video. It's not all about having money. Passion does amount to monetary value if you are working hard at it. You can't just have passion and do nothing with it. You have to pursue it. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 06:36 PM |
| 41 | Is kino absolutely necessary?Super important. Touch is one of the best ways to connect with somebody. They feel closer to you and you feel closer to them. Kino could be the make or break in getting her number and/or her responding to your initial call or text. It's tough at first to figure out but the more you practice you get the hang of it. Start with light touching and move on from there. Kino also keeps you out of the friend zone. It lets them know you're interested in them for more than just conversation. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 06:17 PM |
| -2 | 3 Reasons You Don't Need Money to Impress a GirlHow so? | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 05:49 PM |
| 0 | 3 Reasons You Don't Need Money to Impress a GirlScratch that. 6 Reasons you don't need money to attract a girl. Nice. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Thanks man! PM me, we should chat! | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 04:59 PM |
| 2 | 3 Steps to Quickly Getting Over Your ExThat's tough man. I feel for you. Do your best to follow these steps and get through it as best you can until its over. I wish you luck. The key is to be strong. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 01:09 AM |
| 3 | 3 Steps to Quickly Getting Over Your ExI should have been more clear. This post is not intended to run away from your problems. The steps in this process are meant to be implemented once all has been said and done. Have your conversations. Say your goodbyes. Once you've come to that final conclusion that the relationship is over you start to heal and move on. That's the key: moving on. Not ignoring. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 07:16 PM |
| 9 | 3 Steps to Quickly Getting Over Your ExYou're absolutely right. This is for men AND women. I will post this in some other sub reddits. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 05:51 PM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Yes I remember! Which bldg? Send me a PM | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 11:13 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Nothing wrong with dating multiple women. I have an article about that here: http://trippadvice.com/dating/dating-part-3-dating-multiple-women/ I don't condone cheating of any kind. Even if they are the one who is married or has a boyfriend. Too much drama. There are plenty of women out there to go after. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 11:13 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Yes. People with sever anxiety need to see a psychologist. That's my best recommendation. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 11:11 PM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.First of all you have had a big breakthrough. Look where you are now. It's amazing. But the work isn't over. Now your goal is working at these dates. Your sticking point probably lies in connecting. How long are you talking to these girls? Are you really connecting with the women you number close? Numbers are actually easy to get but getting them out is more difficult. You have to make them see that you are worth their time. You are confident, you both have things in common, you are funny, she s… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 05:40 PM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Done and done. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 05:36 PM |
| 5 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.No man! Never! Get your butt in the gym. Work out, eat healthy and continue trying to approach women. You will succeed. The trick here is persistence. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.He came to one of my meetups actually. Great guy. Haven't seen him in awhile either. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Open the whole table and work on befriending the guys first. Once you've won them over ask "How does everyone here know each other?" Now you know who's dating who (the men will let it be known who their girl is) and you work from there. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:04 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Knowing only about 4 people. Having to branch out on my own and make new groups of friends. What was harder was working at a job that was a small company. Usually you can make friends through work, but that didn't happen for me. It was just my boss and I for half the time I worked there. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:49 PM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Always debated moving there. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:39 PM |
| 6 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.As you know, you're mindset is all wrong. As much as we call this a game, it's NOT a game. This is life. There is nothing to prove. You're in a great position man, people would kill to be here. But, of course it's all relative and if you're unhappy, then you're unhappy. So, I would say use these skills you have for the good. Start to meet new people and be open minded. That's what you're missing. The open-mindedness. The wonderful experiences of life and co-existing with some cool people and bea… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:36 PM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Santa Barbara? Nice! The hotties roam there. People on a budget must get creative. Time to put on your thinking cap. Find out cool spots to hike to, picnic, walk, etc. These are the best types of dates anyway! You don't need a car. And if you're desperate for one because you got a special girl on your hands, try and borrow a buddies for a night. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:30 PM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Thank you sir_smokes_a_lot. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:29 PM |
| 4 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Are you really branching out to find more women? Or are you just sticking around the campus? You should go to any populated area that has women to approach. Literally anywhere. As long as you are over 18, I give you permission to hit on any age group as long as she is not married and/or over 18. Community colleges must have a quad or cafeteria right? Check that out and never limit yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:28 PM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Been asked that maybe a handful of times. If you are holding a water at the bar, a girl never usually questions it. But when she ever did ask I would say "Eh, it's just not my thing". I would say 99% of the girls I said that too became more attractive because they saw it took pure confidence to speak to them rather than liquid courage. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:26 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.After a few years I brought back drinking into my life. But only for taste and never to get drunk. I drink scotch once in awhile, because I love the taste but I would say 90% of the time I still never drink anything. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:25 PM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.1) I don't consider myself a PUA actually. I would call my self a man first and a dating coach second. I have a girlfriend right now. In the beginning it was about hooking up and then it became to find a girl to settle with. 2) Bottom line: If you're not happy in your relationship. Exit. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:24 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Be sincere. Smile. Don't be awkward. How? Move and act with confidence. Be sure of yourself and the things you say. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:22 PM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.That line is to give a reason why you pulled her away. Or else this could have been something you could have done in front of her friends, but you explain that you were being considerate. A lot of girls will get embarrassed being asked out in a more public setting. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:20 PM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I stand by my video. It's worked wonders for me in the past and this isn't about her schedule at all. For example, if she gives you her free dates like thursday and friday and you happen to be busy on thursday then you pick friday. A follow up text could be "Cool, let's do xyz on Friday because I got a friend's bday on Thursday" Now it's showing that you're a cool guy who has is own life but still wants to see her. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:18 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Gaming moviestars? You treat them like ANYONE else. Why? Because they are always being treated like movie stars so you must be the exception. I wouldn't bring up anything about what they did for a living unless they did. Not even for a second. Everything else would stay the same. No specific routines. Just playing it cool. Great question! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I recommend anywhere during the day. Malls, grocery stores, downtown areas... | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:13 PM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Thank you sir! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:13 PM |
| 5 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Just use this: Hey I saw you over here and I thought you were really cute, I had to come over and say hi, I'm steph33ndeboi" | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:31 AM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I think it's great as an option, but never as a main source of finding women. It's best to use multiple avenues. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:18 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Don't specialize in that arena, sorry dude! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:17 AM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I don't specialize in online dating actually. Never liked it much. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:17 AM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.No not a death trap, but you have to be smooth about it. Slide it in at the right moment, when it's not awkward. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:06 AM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.1) craigslist for the very first few 2) if it's that bad, then I recommend they see a psychologist before we work together. I don't have a degree in psychology so sometimes "game" and such won't do the trick | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:05 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.If you want to start off small, start with workers or help. Talk to your local cashiers or employees and get used to talking to them. When you're ready start having longer conversation with them about other topics then you're original opener/question. From here start saying hi to strangers as you walk past. Then say hi to just girls as you walk past. Keep doing this until you get comfortable. Build up this way slowly to reach your goal of approaching women you're attracted to with a direct opene… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:44 AM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Let me clarify. Yes, the way you would do this is with a direct opener. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:39 AM |
| 6 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I can't answer that question for you. If you're ready, you're ready. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:38 AM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Right here my man: http://trippadvice.com/media/dudes-talking-about-chicks-podcast/ | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:37 AM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.West side. I would recommend pretty much anywhere. They are everywhere, literally. Hollywood, Santa Monica, Silverlake... | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:36 AM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I have slept with 10's, I choose not to disclose any more personal information than that. Also, there are no patterns. Every woman is the same. If anything, from my experience, it's age that strongly differentiates how well a woman is in bed and the means it takes to attract them. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:34 AM |
| 0 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.1) Talk loud and body language is everything 2) yes, exactly, if you don't dance 3) It is true, unless you've been talking for about 20-30 min, in fact I have a video coming out tomorrow that I will post | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:32 AM |
| 4 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I was wondering if there would be any listeners chiming in tonight. I'm so glad it helped you out. That was when I first started off giving advice and every Monday night at 9pm was some of my favorite memories. Cheers bud. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:31 AM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I want to keep on answering more questions so I will defer you to a blog post that I wrote about it: http://trippadvice.com/how-to-flirt-with-women/ | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:28 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Here's a trick: Extract a word from what they say. Use that word to bring up either a question or a statement. There's a seddit post on this somewhere. But it's definitely a great trick that I used to help me in conversation when I first started out. For practice make notecards with different subjects and train yourself to come up with conversation on the spot according to the subject. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:25 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Go to your concierge and find the hot spots for every night of the week. Every big city should have them. Those will be your spots. You won't come off as a jerk with that stuff. Just don't talk about it. Instead let them find out as you go along. Telling them will make you sound like a douche. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:23 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I just don't care as much. I keep an active and healthy lifestyle, which is good for me at the moment. Eventually I will lift more when I have the time. As for now, if it ain't broke, don't fix it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:21 AM |
| 6 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Then nobody would watch the videos! :) I think people can manage with a 3-4 min vid. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:20 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Lol. No, sir. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:19 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.More reason to go and do it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:18 AM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.You should have made/make a connection with her. The dates you setup should be "experiences" rather than just time together. Make her feel excited to see you because she knows every time you guys are together you have the best time. Laugh with her, but also get deep with her. Tease her, but also compliment here. That's the key. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:17 AM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.That's awesome, when was this? That's a great little method there. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:11 AM |
| 8 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Is it possible? Yes. Is it easy? No. With this girl I would tell her that you like her and you don't want to have a friendship with her. Simple as that. Give her that ultimatum. Yes, I know it sounds intense. But, what kind of friendship is it really if it's one sided? | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:07 AM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Kino and intent. As long as you are doing both of those things, then you shouldn't ever be put in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:05 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Wrote a whole blog post about that: http://trippadvice.com/5-essential-tips-to-attracting-women-in-los-angeles/ | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:05 AM |
| 5 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.1) http://youtu.be/N0B2v2G8ll4 2) Always be in conversation, wear fitted clothes, be prepared to fail 3) I can't answer this question because I would have to see you in action, so unfortunately I have no quick response. But, it could be possible that you're treating them different then 7's and 8's and the 9's and 10's are seeing right through that. Treat them and game them all the same. If it's still a problem, it could be your fashion. Lots of hotter women are very in tune with fashion and look… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 03:04 AM |
| 6 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.None taken! I am a skinny dude for sure. 140 lbs. 6'0. Never hurt my game once. There are a lot of chicks who have a fetish for super skinny guys. I also sometimes dress like a hipster so it works for me. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:59 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I like that one! I am really into push/pull methods. Spit out some kino and then stop. Do that again, then stop. Keep doing that until she stops your advances. Back up. Start all over again. Common pua tactic, but works like a charm. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:56 AM |
| 6 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.For night time, find any location they serve alcohol. For day time, anywhere there are an abundance of women: malls, parks, rec centers, the downtown area of your suburb. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:48 AM |
| 1 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Something in your town that you can touch her easily and have fun. I replied to an earlier thread saying that bowling, arcades, and activities are the best. Here's a video I made on it: http://youtu.be/xl67hUggwdk | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:47 AM |
| 7 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.That answer is a whole series of e-books :) In a quick response, don't every worry what people think about you. The only person who can judge you is YOU. Start your journey with baby steps. I'm talkin' little tiny midget baby steps. The smoother you're journey is the easier it will be to complete your goals. I hope that helps. I have some awesome articles on my site under "Dating Tips" that might help even more. Check those out! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:44 AM |
| 7 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I forced myself to do it when I got into this. From day 1 I stopped having even a sip of alcohol when I went out. It was probably one of the most amazing things I could have done for myself, because it gave me the skill to socialize in any setting. There's no better skill than that. It started becoming more natural after about 3 weeks. Before that I felt like I entered a whole other world. But, when you're the only sober guy in the bar with full control, it gives you a new sense of confidence. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:41 AM |
| 17 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.If you haven't succeeded, you haven't tried hard enough. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:39 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I promise, I will. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:38 AM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Thanks man! I'm glad I can help. :) | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:38 AM |
| 27 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.The only one I used to use was my boyfriend/girlfriend routine. I don't feel like typing it all out, but here's a link: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/a-killer-routine-bf-gf-roleplay-vt141938.html?highlight= | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:37 AM |
| 8 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I use it to carry conversation and to refrain from asking too many questions. For example, instead of "what do you do for a living?" I would say "You seem like such a goodie two shoes, are you a nurse? (smile) But that's pretty much it. I wouldn't ever use palm readings, thought they were kinda cheesy. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:36 AM |
| 20 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.The first 3 weeks I went out, I went out sober and it was scary as hell. I approached maybe 1-2 girls a night sometimes 0 in that first month. I thought I was never going to make it. My revelation happened when I went out one night and just threw everything I knew out the window. My goal was just to talk to people, guys and girls, and just see what happens. That night I had the balls to approach a mixed set of 3-5 people. I don't even remember what I opened with, but it went super well. Everyone… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:32 AM |
| 6 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Wouldn't be able to tell you off the top of my head. Anything indirect would come from a situational opener I would use like something about what's going on around us or something unique she is wearing. I'm usually a big fan of direct. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:22 AM |
| 2 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Actually, I remember reading that. That is a solid one, although I remember reading the part about approach anxiety and it did not help. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:21 AM |
| 9 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Let us know how it goes and shoot me an email to tell me how it went! | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:20 AM |
| 9 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.In order to defuse the shit test of a girl calling you a jerk I would over exaggerate it: "I know, I'm like the biggest jerk in the world, I've been so mean to everyone tonight!" (with a big smile so she knows you're goofing) But to be honest if a girl is calling you a jerk and not smiling about it, I would re analyze the situation and figure out why she called you that. I'm not saying you can't come back from a girl calling you a jerk, but a solid interaction with a woman should never lead you … | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:19 AM |
| 9 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.You're welcome I'm glad to be here! My game and what I teach is on the natural side. I don't like to teach guys to be something they are not, rather take there existing good qualities stand out and push away their negative ones. In the beginning I had a whole different mindset. I thought you had to use tricks and routines to get women. Over the years I found that fashion and confidence were the two main factors in attracting women. Look good and feel good. I started off by trying to memorize rou… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:17 AM |
| 10 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Next time you see her say, "hey can I talk to you for just a quick second?" Pull her aside as if you want to tell her something personal. Tell her: "You know this may sound random, but I think you're really cool and I want to take you out some time. I only pulled you away from your friends because I didn't want to embarras you, but it would be awesome to get to know you" She rejects you? Then it was never meant to be. She says yes? Get her number and plan a sick date. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:11 AM |
| 7 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I wish I knew more about signs of when a girl is attracted. Of course, that stuff always comes later, because you're working through other things like approach anxiety and what the hell to say. There were so many instances where I could have gotten with beautiful women, but I was too scared of rejection/pushing it further and wasn't even sure if they were interested. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:08 AM |
| 19 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Experience. That's #1. Honestly, the best book I ever read was The Power of Now by Eckharte Tolle. That's one of the best books because it teaches you how to live in the moment and stop worrying about unnecessary shit. Pure inner game stuff. Anything else I just picked up was from forums or testing out random things out in the field. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:05 AM |
| 4 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I'm not sure what micro-calibrating is. Let me know when you find out. I'm going to take a shot in the dark here and say you haven't tried going out and approaching or put anything to use? If that is the case then I suggest you get right to it. One of the best ways to build confidence or self-worth is to watch yourself succeed and go through the journey. You will fail no doubt, but if you are consistently working at it, you will find success. Small ones here and there, until they get bigger and … | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 02:02 AM |
| 46 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Always have something to look forward to. One of the reasons why so many relationships go stale is because everyone is getting bored. Make sure you have date nights planned but take those a step further. I don't mean getting dinners, that shit's boring. Plan some weekend getaways. Plan some vacations. Do stuff besides watch TV. Also, don't stop flirting with her. It's always going to be a game of push/pull. Maybe not as much as when you first started dating, but continue to tease (lightly) and d… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:46 AM |
| 3 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.Yeah that sounds good, but I suggest you just let her know you're interested and find a time that's more suitable for just the two of you. That way there's no "games" nor interruptions. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:29 AM |
| 10 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I do make a living. I'm not rich by any means, but it pays the bills and I plan to grow the company bigger, help more guys(maybe girls one day?) and continue to prosper. The best cities are the bigger ones, LA, NYC, Seattle, Miami. It doesn't matter where you live as long as there are options, meaning the more women the better! Living in LA, I find it to be the hardest city because it's so transient and of course the women are ridiculously hot. I call LA "The Harvard of Dating", because if you c… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:24 AM |
| 7 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.1) I think both work, but the latter is better. It gives her more of a reason to actually want to hang out with you. 2) Highschool is literally another realm compared to the real world. Women haven't matured much yet, so the stuff you can get away with post 21 is different than when the girls are younger. With that said, just take girls out to fun places (arcades, bowling, etc). Somewhere you can talk and have a solid conversation. Conversation skills will be super important by the time you get … | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:21 AM |
| 33 | I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA.I met Mystery twice at two different bars. This was when I first started out and I was frequenting the Hollywood clubs in 2009. He is actually a really nice person. The first time I met him, we just started chatting randomly about bullshit. You could tell he was extremely high, which he told me so. He said something about how he thinks weed is the best now and still doesn't drink alcohol. The second time I met him he was with Matador, who isn't the friendliest of guys, just kind of out to do the… | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:18 AM |
| 1 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateText her in about 5 days bringing up something about how her week is going. My advice to you is next time don't go right into asking her out. Start off with something lighter to break into conversation. Then ask her out after you've texted back and forth a few times. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 02:42 PM |
| 2 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateI've gotten the Ben Stiller thing before. But Kattan is new. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Getting better at storytelling?This is awesome. Great info! | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Getting better at storytelling?Wow, so weird. I was about to post something about storytelling. I'm trying to get better as well. Any book suggestions out there? | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:44 AM |
| 1 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateThat's a shame you feel that way. It's worked wonders for me in the past. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:26 AM |
| 6 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateThat's the whole name of the game, brother. Try new things. Fail here, succeed here. See what works. One step at a time. It's not a race. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:14 AM |
| 1 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateThank you! I live in Los Angeles. I shoot all my videos on my zen-like balcony. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:13 AM |
| 2 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateYou are kind, sir. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:12 AM |
| 2 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateWhat'd I do? :) | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:04 AM |
| 4 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateCouldn't have said it better myself. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:04 AM |
| 6 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateIf you did the right job in the initial interaction you won't need to DHV or work much harder to get the date. It should be easy as finding out when she's free and setting it up. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 04:02 AM |
| 24 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a Date:( | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 03:06 AM |
| 3 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a DateI also want to emphasize the fact that I am not a big fan of "text game". Use texting for logistics and setting up dates. That's another point. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 03:05 AM |
| 20 | The Bext Text to Send a Girl to Setup a Date*best | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 12:40 AM |
| 4 | First Date Guide - How to get her to bed every time!I've found it easier to master SNL's and harder to create a meaningful relationship. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 04:42 PM |
| 11 | I told her: "Come over to my place... No funny business though, seriously." F-closeYes I have done this before and by golly it works. Had a first date with a girl and told her (out of nowhere) "we are NOT having sex tonight". We did end up having sex that night. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 05:19 AM |
| 25 | Get a Life: A How-to GuideThis is a great post and a quote instantly popped in my head: “Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it” - Ferris Bueller This is a fantastic quote and has wide array of meanings, but here I want to relate it to pickup. In the beginning of your journey I highly encourage the attitude of constantly going out and approaching, getting over your fear and absorbing yourself in all that is PUA. But, this is only the beginning. Not the whole thing. Li… | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 09:29 PM |
| 1 | What movie/TV show should every member of this community watch?Mad Men | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 01:57 AM |
| 1 | 10, 5, 3, 1Don't be like all the other men who approach her. And how do you do that? Read all the posts in r/seduction | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 03:15 PM |
| 22 | 10, 5, 3, 120, 10, 5, 3, 1 Approaches, numbers, replies, commitments, 1 shows up. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 01:37 AM |
| 0 | Watch what happens.. How did he manage to do this? Is that Alpha?? | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 01:33 AM |
| 0 | Why Hot Women are B*@!%sThere is no clever marketing ploy here. The fact of the matter is that, yes, many hot women are bitches. You will run across that and I give the reasons why. But, then I am trying to say that they aren't all bitches and challenge you to open your mind to a new perspective. These aren't tricks, just information. You must have me all wrong. Also, I'm confused why this makes seddit appear negatively? If you watch the video then you will hear information that many men and women will agree with. No? | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Why Hot Women are B*@!%sLOL, yup, from what I've seen/heard. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:24 AM |
| 2 | How would you start a conversation with a womanLiterally anything you want. Just be sure to show intent, maintain attractive body language and close. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 11:59 PM |
| 18 | Where’s your statement of intent?That read like a poem. Good stuff. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 04:23 PM |
| 16 | All the guys having their first AA problems? This worked for me.So after all this, were you able to get numbers and dates? (just curious) Because it sounds like you were entering some solid sets! | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Showing a Couple PickupHuh? | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 02:33 PM |
| 2 | How to Flirt: The Art of Playful Teasing.Agreed. Would love to see more examples. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 02:30 PM |
| 4 | The best tip for beginners.That was an amazing video. I take that more as a life lesson on top of meeting women. Be sure of yourself and your actions. Stop second guessing and caring what people think of you. Feel proud and passionate with every step of the way. Nice. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 12:43 AM |
| 0 | The 4 False Beliefs About FashionMuch obliged friend. Glad you enjoyed and more to come! | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 12:27 AM |
| 2 | The 4 False Beliefs About Fashionthanks man and I dig your name | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 09:21 PM |
| 1 | One very important thing working in sales has taught me about closingMy friends and I would call this "Don't Fuck Up Game". No joke. It was basically this same idea. You would have the interaction in the bag and you know it was a close. All you had to do was not fuck up. That was basically it. That's the best kind of game there is. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Practicing ChivalryAgreed. Being awesome is the result of caring about other people. Taking that extra step to do something for others. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Do You Have to Be Good Looking to Attract Women?Its true. Why not make yourself as best looking as possible? They help a lot in your initial approach. Then you can work your way from there. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 08:33 PM |
| 1 | DAE notices that when it rains it pours, and then there are dry spells?Absolutely. I don't really believe in fate, energy, and spirituality etc. but there's something weird about Murphy's Law. When I was going out, everything was about streak. Some weeks were insane and I thought I might have been the best PUA in the world, haha. Other weeks were completely dry and couldn't get even a single number close. I'm not sure the reason behind this or how it happens, but it happens. Anyway, not sure why it happens just thought I'd relate. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Step-by-step Instructions to Overcome Social AnxietyRelevant! http://www.meetup.com/LA-Redditors/events/76828212/ | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about our bedrooms? Any ideas on how I can decorate it to set the right mood?Frame EVERYTHING. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 01:46 AM |
| 5 | How To Develop Skills While In An LTRI'm in the same boat. I have a girlfriend although I am a dating coach. The way I try and keep up is by going to as many social events as possible. I open up everyone and try and make as many friends as possible. The only downside is I do not flirt. But I've done enough of that in my day where I don't need much more practice. But, sometimes I'll do the playful flirting with my gf that I would do with other girls in the past. Anyway, long response short, talk to as many people as you can and lear… | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Hitting the club for the first time tonight, any tips?-don't be overwhelmed by the music -approach everyone -kino is usually more appropriate in this setting -TALK LOUD | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Date etiquette, paying issues.Or. You come up with some creative date ideas that don't cost a lot of money. Do a little research in your area and see what it has to offer. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Date etiquette, paying issues.You should pay for something you suggest. If you're the one to say "let's go rock climbing", then you are offering up a suggestion to do something. It's only right that you pay. I know it's the 21st century but, it's still more gentleman-like if you pay for the date. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 11:33 PM |
| 8 | Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself tooFYI to any newbies out there: It's possible to be good at pick-up without being a douche bag. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Would you like an example of text game? [NSFW]This is true. But, by posting this on here, you are telling people that it is okay to hit on girls who have boyfriends that are about to propose. I am just not sure how you feel good about that. Again, I am an advocate of sexting and text game and being sexually assertive, but not in this fashion. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Would you like an example of text game? [NSFW]But she still has a BF and you're sexting her. I DO NOT ENDORSE OP'S MESSAGE. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Would you like an example of text game? [NSFW]So, let me get this straight...you have a GF and she has a BF? | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 05:22 PM |
| 4 | I'm 16, and I've been "friendzoned" even though I've heard that the "friendzone" doesn't exist. I'm tired of being a beta and I need advice.Girls are immature at 16, it will change when you get older. For now, work on your flirting and intent. Show a girl that you are actually into her before she can friend zone you. Rejection (in my eyes) is always better than being friend zoned. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 01:54 AM |
| 2 | 10 Mistakes I Made in Collegethanks man! | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 11:57 PM |
| 2 | So within the last month I'm not exactly sure how, but I went from having intense social anxiety to giving almost zero fucks around girls. I don't fully understand why completely but I will explain what happened--maybe it would help.This is by far one of the best posts I've read in the last few months. Well done, bro. You should be extremely proud of yourself for the transformation you went through. It only gets easier from here on out. I think the problem with trying to attract women and creating a better life for yourself all revolves around inner game and working out those kinks of "not giving a fuck" and approving yourself, rather than seeking approval from others. I'm about to dig into The Art of Happiness soon by the … | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 08:01 PM |
| 3 | What activities or hobbies have you taken up to become a more interesting and attractive person?Single malt scotch man here. Love a good glass of Oban or glenlivet/glenfiddich | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 07:05 PM |
| 2 | "Just be yourself" - the best (and worst) piece of advice you will ever receiveand here - http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tgw28/why_be_yourself_is_the_worst_advice/ | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 02:08 AM |
| 23 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?I did for the most part. I had note cards and everything. Read almost every PUA book available. It was like a summer course for me. But, all the studying of the material never worked for me. I went out and failed hard. What made me better was dropping the books and just going out in field as much as I can to find my own success and methods. | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:56 PM |
| 11 | To PUA's: Are you happy?I went through an interesting episode. I started to get so good at a point that I scared myself. It all happened when I K-closed a girl on a 15 minute airport shuttle ride during the day. I never thought in a million years I would be able to do that. I was on my way to a trip where I grew up and it got kind of emotional for me. I felt very strange and different and I almost didn't like it. When I came back from my trip home I actually started to reject all the PUA stuff and went back to "normal"… | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Need advice on daygame, first day on field ever.I would only do some of that. Here's what you do: 1) find hot girl 2) use direct opener: "thought you're cute wanted to say hi" 3) get in conversation, be funny, tease, NO NEGS just be cool 4) #3 sounds good | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Developed a website to show seddits best weekly quotesThis is good for right before you hit the town. Stare at this site for 5 minutes, then go hit on girls. Nice work! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Infield video - Persistent escalationI think this is a great video and it does teach you that persistence pays off. My only argument is I'm not really sure how much that woman is going to want to get in touch with him later on. Women are much more flaky when you don't build any kind of connection. So it's cool that he got a kiss and if you want to go out and get a bunch of makeouts, then great! But I don't see how the video helps in the long run of getting a date or receiving a solid number. But then again, maybe he did hear from b… | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Developed a website to display Seddits best weekly quotesyes, there ya go | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Hey Seddit, I want to propose a challenge.Wait, so you've had women say "fuck off" when you say "I just wanted to tell you that I think you're very cute/attractive/beautiful."? That seems hard to believe... | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 07:53 PM |
| 15 | A stripped down, easy to follow pickup method for all you newbiesThis is great. Only problem is with opening a group. I think that if you open just her it's not socially savvy. To enter into a group of friends and ignore everyone else seems a little strange. I prefer opening up the entire group befriending everyone, THEN going after your target. That has always seemed to work better for me. | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday's post about how to make cocktails got me thinking: What other skills indirectly related to seduction should every man have?Know how to change a tire. For the off chance that you guys get a flat or she does and calls you for help, you will look so boss workin your mechanical magic. | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Why does every PUA Coach sound so OVERLY salesman?I am a coach. I post here frequently. I never force anyone to do anything. I write posts that I post here first to Seddit, then to my blog. I offer a link to my blog for more info. If you start to snoop around and see something you like, it's not hard for you to get in contact with me. Otherwise, I love posting here because I enjoy the feedback on my thoughts/opinions and like to help guys out. I believe that is the best way to go. A lot of PUA's go overboard with their marketing and sometimes m… | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 05:28 PM |
| 16 | How to stay out of the "creep zone".Definitely agree. Overstepping your boundaries is a huge part of creepiness. I should have labeled this post, as the "beginning stages" of creepiness. As in, the creepiness vibe that one gives in the first 2 minutes of talking, giving the guy almost 0 chance to get conversation in. The next step, which you describe, is something all men should understand as well. Amen. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How to get good with women fastThanks man, thank you for reading, subscribe to my blog! trippadvice.com/blog | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 04:43 PM |
| 1 | So I tried this sober thing... and it sucksI've done this so I totally hear where you're coming from. Drunk people are obnoxious and it's way more fun to be hammered with them than not. But, I challenge you to keep at it for a little while. It took me about 2 weeks to realize that it helps so much more than it hurts. The positives are that you have full control over yourself in a bar of people who don't. You have that upper leg! That control starts to boost your confidence which really helps in your game. Plus, girls will be more attract… | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How to get good with women fastKyle and I went separate ways. We put in 40 solid episodes and were just interested in different things. We are still friends. | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How to get good with women fastI like it | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How to get good with women fastI'll be honest, I read this article and it didn't really say too much about how to flirt. All I got from it was that listening is important to flirting, which I totally agree with. But, that's really it. Let me be more clear about my post: it's not about over complimenting. I think that's a horrible idea but somewhere in your conversation you need to be clear about your intentions. It shows confidence, which women are highly attracted to and keeps you out of the friend zone. Show your intent. An… | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 11:28 AM |
| 8 | How to get good with women fastBaby steps, baby steps. That's what this post is all about. Take those steps you need in order to start socializing. If you actually have anxiety, then I would see a therapist. But, if not, just step outside your home. | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Israel trip, need adviceAh, birthright, where Jewish mating is prevalent. The next night you guys have free time and you're drinking etc pull her aside ANYWHERE and tell her you have to tell her something do crazy. When she comes with you just start to kiss her. If you are right on your assumptions that she likes you then you'll be good to go. Keep your options open for other girls. There's usually plenty to go around. And yes Bedouin tent is solid but get in there before that happens so you can have a for sure deal go… | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 05:27 AM |
| 1 | "Interning" with a "dating coach" attraction/confidence expert this summer. How can I best utilize his skills?Good point. | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 05:22 AM |
| 1 | The elements of Seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Sexual Interest - A brief overlookslow clap Great stuff here man! I don't connect much with the alpha talk at all. It's all about the conversation, body language and intent. Right on. | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Body language: hands on hips (guys) - good/bad?As long as you keep an open stance and you don't fidget too much. You want to let people know you're not timid or not confident. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Some tips for beginnersThis is all I preach, sir. Amen. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 12:09 AM |
| 7 | How to open girls with headphones on?Wave to them. Make eye contact. Smile. Make a notion with your hand to take off her headphones (you pull out fake headphones in your ear type notion). Say your opener. Easy! | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 07:13 PM |
| 1 | DestroyersThis is a great post man! Upvoted and saved. I usually go the kill me with kindness/mockery route. I have an older brother and lots of older friends, so that always worked for me. Rock on. | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to socialize at a party.Cool, great advice! Personally I think it's not just a matter of their body language etc, but you have to talk to everyone. I've managed to talk to some people who definitely looked high value and when I talked to them, they weren't at all. It seems to me more of a trial and error kind of thing. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:06 PM |
| 10 | Best ways to socialize at a party.That's a great call. But, my question is, how can you tell? Is this just by looks? | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Best ways to socialize at a party.That's always a tough situation. You don't want to interrupt people who are already in conversation. You could be that annoying outsider. Best thing to do it what you said: Isolate on of them and ask them to introduce you to their group of friends and say they look cool. That's one of the best ways to get in. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Best ways to socialize at a party.Great idea Ringside. Those always are a great in. Especially if someone catches the reference. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 04:01 AM |
| 1 | My AA is relentless, are there any extreme practicing methods you know of that can help?Super sound. Also, do it for 2 weeks straight and don't stop. Make sure you keep with it everyday so it starts to become part of your life. | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I seem more attractive to women before they get to know me?Have something interesting to say. | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 03:30 AM |
| 0 | What are your hail mary texts or plays?SAVED! Great ideas here gentleman. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Gareth JonesWhy is he leaving? | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 04:08 PM |
| 3 | How the hell did I not know about /r/SocialEngineering until now?!?!seems creepy.. | /r/seduction | 21/05/12 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Why "Be Yourself" is the worst advice.Read a few books on humor and jokes. Watch stand up. Practice your delivery. You can get good at this. It's much harder than some of the others, but start to emulate the people that you think are funny. | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 04:34 AM |
| 9 | MILF gameVery little teasing or game has to be done. Direct, direct, direct. Show interest and flirt heavily. They are older and have been through it all so they just want to know they are still attractive. Let them know and lay on the kino. | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Why "Be Yourself" is the Best AdviceI think we were sort of talking about two different things here, but this post clarified everything nicely. The ego and the self was something that I combined. On that note, FUCK EGO. Good stuff. Upvoted. | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Nice phone trickThat's a risky move. I'd rather be in control of the situation. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Dressing well yet not giving a fuck: Paradox?I believe that dressing well is part of attraction. So it really differs from the concept of "not giving a fuck". When you are trying to attract a girl there are specific things you do: flirt, maybe tease, kino etc. and DRESSING. It's part of looking good so you can attract the women you are going for. So yes it's about caring what you look like, but it's not directly related to inner game (that is unless you use it for confidence, which is good too) | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Issues with preconcieved status and social circles. I need reset my social life but am having trouble doing so, adivce from those who've been there?You definitely need to get a new social circle. It's a process, but you need to be patient with it. There's a few ways to start: •One option is you can go out alone to new bars and pubs and start socializing and making friends. Don't think about gaming women, just being friendly. If you get in good enough with a new group/man/woman get their number as friends to hang out some time. Do it under the context of something you and that person connect on. Maybe you two play the same sport, like the sa… | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Newly single guy. Going on 7 day cruise. Looking for advice.Socialize hard the second you get on the ship. Start right away. Get social proof ASAP. You want to make it like your the life of the party and the most popular guy on the ship. So befriend everyone, even guys. This will make you stand out. Remember everyones names as well. Come night time when you go to the 18+ club, you will know everyone and it won't be hard to start getting in good with your targets. When it comes to cruises (and all vacations rather) you're kind of in this fantasy land. Nob… | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Texting trick that has never failed meI love this. | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Be careful what PUA information about yourself you give out to others. This guy has become an internet viral target now: "David Merkur, nerdy Lothario tracks online dates on a spreadsheet"I'm confused how this is a bad thing. Why is it bad to date multiple people? He is keeping track of what he wants to remember with all the women he is dating. Nothing he says on the spreadsheet is crude or offensive. Everyone rates each other in their head, he just happens to put it on a spreadsheet. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Seduction Journal?It's a great idea. It's what made me get so much better. I love going back to it and seeing Day 1: 0 sets approached and then Day 20: 10+ sets approached. Do it, you won't regret it. It's also easier to form goals this way. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Bad breath kills gameI've looked into this. Bad breath comes from the back of the tongue and throat. I would get a tongue scraper AND I would start brushing your tongue thoroughly when you brush your teeth. Brush those bitches 2 times a day. Most importantly, floss. Every night. You ever smell floss after you've used it? It's nasty. That's the smell in between your teeth. Good luck man! | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 03:44 AM |
| 2 | I don't know how to have fun.Are you depressive? Do you get down in the dumps easily? I would look into this, if that's the case. Also, I would start by writing out the things you like to do and the things that are fun to you. See what's on that list. Start doing those things more and get involved with people who like those things. Also, try new activities and meeting new people. You have to constantly work at this to see what's fun for you. It's important you start hanging out around people you enjoy. That is what makes fo… | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 03:38 AM |
| 1 | 5 ReasonsTimes up, start living. Leave. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Holy shit. I had a realisation.And why do you check this sub reddit? No offense, I'm actually curious, if you're still married. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Bad breath kills gameHave you tried a tongue scraper? | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Tips on Keeping Good PostureSee if this does anything for ya: http://www.alexandertechnique.com/ | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Season 1 Finale of "The Social Rules": my dating advice web show. Enjoy!You can find the rest here: http://www.thesocialrules.com along with a full blog of all the rules from the show. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 07:57 PM |
| 7 | What the hell is wrong with us? Why do we need all this stuff?Most people can't admit they're not good at something. Those who can, come to Seddit and start living. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Need some help!Yes, it's all about the TELL. A good way to do this is say "Let's..." Instead of asking. Just assume she will say yes. "Let's get dinner on Saturday night". Etc. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Why are you always so happy?She's very self conscious. I've dealt with this before. Be wary. Don't over tease this one, because she's sensitive. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Conversations seem dry?Awesome. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 07:48 PM |
| 68 | Approaching girls who always seem to be part of a group/surrounded by friends, that you don't know.This is a great question. Every group situation is different, but I will explain the most common, at a party or bar: Approach: •Open the group with "hey you guys look like you're having fun over here, what's going on?" •Get great banter going Attraction: •play off each HB "How do you all know each other?", "Okay you must all be the bestest of friends, tell me a crazy story" (everyone loves to talk about themselves) •Get kino in early, touch everyone (high fives, light arm touches, hugs) •Don't p… | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Daygame openers / conversation topics?start with this: "What are you up to today?" (then go off of that) "What's your favorite thing to do around here?" (go off of that) Ask chode questions in the beginning, just to get yourself familiar with conversation. These may not get you anywhere (but you never know) and just talk about mundane things. When in doubt ask questions. This is your first start. When you've done this 25 times (literally) come back to Seddit and figure out the next step. Right now you just need to work on this and t… | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 04:32 PM |
| 2 | How simple it is.Don't knock it till you try it. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 06:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR]#3 - From zero to awesome in 12 daysThat's amazing man. Lots of great progress in such a short amount of time. Going out multiple nights in the row is one of the best ways to get better. Great job dude! | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 05:54 AM |
| 2 | When she asks for your number insteadI totally forgot! Yes, Facebook. Genius. I've done this before when my interactions with a girl are quick. So easy to get there Facebook. Then you can friend them, message them and get their number from there. Good stuff! | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Help with Kino Implementation During DaygameI don't think kino should be used that much, if at all during the day. You're right in the fact that it is uncomfortable, because you're a complete stranger. It's more acceptable at night because people are looking for partners and there's dancing etc. During the day you should limit kino to your high fives, handshakes, and small hug at the end. Most important is to make sure you get a solid number. Then on your day2 you can go all out. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 12:46 AM |
| 5 | First night outHolePunch66 has it on the nose: •Have fun •Expect failure •Try out all your new stuff •Don't be afraid of rejection Take this night to learn, learn, learn. The only outcome you should be focusing on, is what worked and what didn't. Enjoy man! | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 09:59 PM |
| 3 | When she asks for your number insteadI think this is a good indication that she is in a relationship or your game isn't strong enough. If a girl is afraid to give out her number, then you didn't do something right. I would be a bit more pushy to see if you can get it (it's worked for me in the past) or just give her your number, but I doubt you'll ever hear from her. Main thing to take away from this is you need to up your attraction and flirting. You need to get to the point where she will be so excited you asked for her number. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 09:56 PM |
| 15 | Daygame openers / conversation topics?The best opener that's worked for me and everyone I know, which is super direct: "Hey I saw you over here and I thought you were cute, I had to say hi." Just use that line every time unless you see a great open for a situational opener. But it's better to state intent ASAP, so you avoid friend zoning and they understand why you're there in the first place. Then, banter, banter, kino, tease, kino, banter, number close. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Roleplay Attraction TechniqueYes, for sure. The whole point is to really get to a physical level with the girl. I find that this way is good for beginners so it gets you used to touching more in set. Once you get more confident, you won't have a problem with it. This role play is a good pushing off point. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 08:10 PM |
| 2 | What do you say when she asks "what are you looking for?"I agree with this one. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 05:46 PM |
| 6 | What is the next step after pick up?Great question, man! Nobody ever asks this. I thought the post written a week ago about advice from a 68 year old man was GOLD. Check this out if you haven't: •http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/r381m/advice_from_an_experienced_natural_68_year_old/ Also, I wrote an article for an online magazine a few months back about the most important parts in relationships: •http://wilesmag.com/2012/what-he-wants-9/ I have been in a relationship for over a year now and I work real hard at it. I belie… | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Read alot of stuff, watch the DVDs, butwhen it comes time whet I'm sitting by a cute girl I still don't know what to doJust what ThrowawayPUA said. I had the same problem. I watched so much shit and I thought it would help, because I was absorbing so much knowledge, but it didn't. Nothing is better than real life practice. Take baby steps. Start by saying hi to strangers. Then, from there, start to approach girls that are cute and just saying hi. Then go up to them and say they're cute. From here, say they are cute and continue conversation. Take baby steps. Create goals for yourself and journal it. I had a litt… | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 06:34 AM |
| 1 | 7 unique TL;DRs.Not just Reddit. Expand. Read CNN, read more books, check out Huffington Posts and blogs. Start doing research on anything you're interested in, even if it's something small. StumbleUpon! is good too. Branch outside of reddit to find more. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Old [FR] from 2009: "Airport Shuttle Instant K-Close"For sure, I will continue to post them. I did a couple 3 week sarge-a-thon's. They helped tremendously. You should post yours too. One of the best part of writing it all down is seeing how far you've come. Good luck to you. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Sasha - Epic Speech (Direct Approach)That was perfect in all ways. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Day-game mixed sets, how to approach?I would go over to the set and start making general conversation: •"Hey do you guys know where x and y is?" •"I am new in the area, what's the best x and y?" Once you get them in conversation ask the golden question: "So how do you all know each other?" This is where you can find out if the girl you're after is dating one of the guys. If not, then continue conversation, ask them interesting questions to keep them engaged and if you can, start to isolate the girl, then get her number. If you can'… | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 08:44 PM |
| 61 | 7 unique TL;DRs.My advice to the people who want to have something interesting to say is to start experiencing. Travel, read, explore, talk to interesting people (politicians, your wise grandfather, your local homeless person). Know what's up with current events and get people's opinions. Be informed and up to date on everything - technology, politics, sports, world issues, movies, pop culture. Do interesting things and never stop. This way you will always have something interesting/fun to say. You will always … | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Bar archetypes & how to have fun at each (and pick-up)Make sure you're flirting when you're in conversation. Here's your closing line word for word: "Hey you seem really cool, we should hang out sometime, let me get your number" | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 02:59 AM |
| 6 | Bar archetypes & how to have fun at each (and pick-up)Daygame. This is the best way to meet the cutest girls. If you want to get better with women, then start checking out local coffee shops, grocery stores, and everywhere else around campus. The best part is you can do this everyday. | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 12:24 AM |
| 2 | My simple strategy for CONFIDENCE.It took me a solid 1.5 years. This was working at it nonstop for the entire time. Went out 3-4 nights a week for that whole period and it was definitely worth it. I learned a lot from trial and error and luckily had a wing to do it with me. I never received coaching but I did once spend $70 for a 8 hour course on how to get SNL's. It did nothing for me. All my information came from my own experiences. | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 01:26 AM |
| 2 | My simple strategy for CONFIDENCE.Yes, food definitely comes first, haha. Thanks for the kind words, it means a lot. I have been around for about a year now. I'm not offended by your question. I would consider myself a "half-natural". My conversation skills and social skills were always strong, but it took me lots of patience, effort, and going out multiple times a week to understand how to attract a woman. Confidence was always an issue too, which I had to work on for awhile. I am self-taught and of course had lots of inspirati… | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 01:01 AM |
| 2 | My simple strategy for CONFIDENCE.So this goes back to "Act, Learn, Move On". Let's take your example. You did act. You went up to a girl and had nothing to say. What can you learn from this? It's that you needed something to say. So think about what you can do to say the right thing. Keep on approaching and trying different openers. Tell her she's cute. Tell her you wanted to say hi. Try all the openers (many of which I don't like actually) you find on the internet. These are your baby steps to learning what works and what does… | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 12:22 AM |
| 2 | My simple strategy for CONFIDENCE.I am actually a dating coach and I have a very affordable rate and help with AA, fashion and everything else. PM me if you want more details. And as for my show, I half recruited and half are my friends. I am Tripp (obviously) in the videos. I produce, direct and edit all of them to help promote my business. | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How to spin not having a facebook?yes on all fronts. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 10:12 PM |
| 4 | This stuff helps... Absorb it, and live your life.Hell yeah man! I've only been recently posting to Seddit the past couple days, but that's awesome you were able to accomplish your goals. Good stuff. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Approaching seated girls in daygame?When you go and approach a seated set, if you don't get blown out within 2-3 minutes I would sit down. If she is responding to you and showing any bit of interest she is welcoming you into her world. Therefore, it's not awkward to sit down. I wouldn't even say anything I would literally, continue conversation, hold eye contact and just have a seat. The worst she can do is say no. But, if she's engaging in your conversation it will be perfectly normal. You definitely need to be on the same level … | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 09:53 PM |
| 0 | My simple strategy for CONFIDENCE.Unless you have Seddit, a dating coach or friends, then the best way, I believe is to change your style. If something isn't working for you, tweak it. Do the exact opposite. Figure out everything you're doing in your approach and start to change it. See what differences that makes. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 09:41 PM |
| 5 | My simple strategy for CONFIDENCE.Thanks for watching. I got 10 more episodes coming out, starting in May. Worked very hard on them, so I appreciate you taking the time to watch. :) You are right about baby steps. That's what I stated at the end of my post. Baby steps ARE the way to help with being outcome independent. Yes, it's very hard to do this, but I believe with enough practice and time you can reach this state. The outcomes (goals) should be small: •Today I'm going to say hi to 5 strangers •Tomorrow I'm going to say hi a… | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 09:39 PM |
| 4 | How do I increase frequency of SNLs?"Blow me or blow me out" - BradP This has helped me in many situations, going for SNL's. Escalate, escalate, escalate and of course logistics. Any SNL I had or a friend has had was all because of not being scared to be extremely sexual. It can be sort of a numbers game. Any girl who is not taking well to your sexual advances will blow you out, but the one girl who is digging your vibe will be your SNL. Don't give a fuck and take the chance. That's the only way this will happen. As far as logisti… | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Advice from an experienced, natural 68 year old man. Never divorced with a wife who is still dreamy-eyed for him.Yeah, that's the best you can do. I always tell my friends and clients that you have to just keep going out. Fail, fail, fail and learn from all your mistakes until you realize all the ways that work. Good luck to you! | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Advice from an experienced, natural 68 year old man. Never divorced with a wife who is still dreamy-eyed for him."But what will make her attracted isn't what makes you great, but what makes you a man." Love this, great post. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Why guys are being ruined socially, short TED talk (x-post from r/nofap)This is why my job as a dating coach exists. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 10:35 PM |
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