20 Ways To Be More Interesting

itsmevichet · 2012-10-15T17:54:47+00:00

Gold. If you are a young guy (18-24), read this, and live it.

trandin · 2012-10-16T00:51:01+00:00

Wow, I suffer from majorly low self-esteem at times. Being able to check of most of these (as in I already do them) makes me feel incredible. This made my entire day.. No.. My entire year. Thank you.

nhuff90 · 2012-10-16T12:57:33+00:00

I know English, Java and C++.

Woah woah, ladies! There's plenty of me to go around!

lilhurt38 · 2012-10-15T21:26:11+00:00

I'd like to add that you should always do a fun activity for a first date. Keep it lighthearted and fun. Is there a rock climbing gym near you? Do that. Laser tag? Do that. Go to a park and have a picnic. Go to an art gallery (if you're into art). Don't just do the normal sit down for coffee and make it into an interview. Keep things fun. I had one date where I met a girl downtown, rode the lightrail up to the college area, roamed around the shops for a few hours, and had lunch later. There wasn't a solid plan and we just joked around and did what we wanted. It was a blast and it didn't cost me much money. We ended up making out for most of the date. The next date we met up with my brother about an hour away, drove on a dirt road to a waterfall, and jumped off that waterfall. You can talk about your interests all you want, but doing these kinds of fun things shows her what your interests and passions are. If she's having a good time with you, you will get laid.

cas18khash · 2012-10-15T23:56:26+00:00

As an 18 year old how has almost all of these aspects in his personality, I must say I'm very happy that my parents always had very high expectations and pushed me to use my every minute wisely

Thumbz8 · 2012-10-15T19:04:06+00:00

19/20 Time to improve my Spanish/German/Sign Language to a level of "know."

But not to be seductive. Just so I can compete with all you seductive assholes in the field of general self improvement.

JSlasha88 · 2012-10-15T23:44:43+00:00

I'm definitely leveling up in the kitchen lately. Food just tastes like 10X better when it's something healthy and delicious that I made from a recipe!

riotingchimps · 2012-10-16T04:58:08+00:00

summary: constantly expand yourself.

reigorius · 2012-10-17T21:34:42+00:00

Lets see:

You know how to cook.

Check. I love cooking and I love it even more to cook for guests. You should come and taste my moroccan tanjin. My friends love it.

You're well traveled.

Check. Been all over Europe, been to Morocco and China. Seen my fair share of different cultures and adventures.

You know how to dance

Check! I love dancing and I recently joined a salsa class. I suck at it, but I am learning and will become good at it.

You're constantly growing.

Hell yeah! Life begins where your comfort zone ends, is my motto.

You can speak multiple languages.

Check! I speak my own native language, plus English and I speak a fair word of German. So check the fuck that.

You can build stuff.

I'm getting warmer. I am an engineer and I can do magic with my hands. I am a skilled modeller, house renovator and whatnot. Give it to me and I build it. Whoot!

You have passions.

I'm on fire now. I love to climb. I love it! I love reading! I love my friends. I love a lot! There you go!!

You offer new perspectives.

Yes, yes and yes. There is always a different way to look at things and I am all open for it or offer it to anybody who talks to me. I'm GODlike now. What's next?

You have a unique style.

I recently changed my whole wardrobe and I am now a true and fashionable male. And I have a weakness for good looking hoodies and it is my trait. I look awesome!

You have an adventurous side.

Going on a 6 week trip by bicycle in New Zealand. Going to be self-sufficient for the whole trip.

You have an artistic side.

I like drawing and I do it a lot for my work. I'm a toy designer.

You are athletic and or active.

Did I mentioned climbing? Lost 13 kgs so far and build up muscles. Still improving as we speak.

You are sensitive.

Hell yeah. I am capable of shedding a male tear when watching a movie that touches my soul. There you go!

You are spontaneous.

One trait all my friends say to me that I have. I love saying yes! I'm a Yes man!

You have interesting conversations.

I love talking to people and people love talking to me. Yesterday I chatted with a random stranger who said he enjoyed our little talk and wished it would happen more often to him and in this world.

You ask unique questions.

Yup!

You are well read.

Yes, from classic writers like Dostoyevsky to a plethora of self-improvement books and other inspiring reads. I love printed paper. Bring me more!

You are open minded.

As I said before, I am a yes man! Danny Wallace was a great inspiration for me.

So, as we established I am interesting fellow according to these checkboxes.

**WHY THE FUCK ARE THE LADIES NOT PILING THEMSELVES UP AT MY FRONT DOOR?**

I suppose number 21, or 0, is missing:

Be a fucking confident man and own the world while only giving fucks that needs to be given fucks.

Nope, not there. Yet. I'm still that needy little fuck who gives to many cares about stuff that doesn't.

wtfsystem · 2012-10-16T06:51:18+00:00

Well I can cook. 1 out of 20 ain't bad.

reigorius · 2012-10-17T21:38:53+00:00

And I upvoted all of you. Just because I can.

Jamesvalencia · 2012-10-16T07:01:00+00:00

You should be doing this stuff anyway, its what makes you a real person.

riotingchimps · 2012-10-16T07:16:56+00:00

The number one way to be more interested is to act/be interested in other people. People really just want outlets for their narcissism, if you give it to them and act like it's fascinating, they are halfway in love already.

PopeOwned · 2012-10-16T10:20:15+00:00

Seeing as I suffer from incredible low self esteem, despite the fact that I know full well what I need to do, I'll pass. Why? Because I don't know.

No, I'm serious. I have no reason why I don't force myself to change my boring, uneventful, sack of shit lifestyle, even though I keep telling myself to. All these things (although I do some of them) are fantastic tips... and I'm just going to sit here in my apartment for the 7th day in a row.

faint applause

2012-10-15T19:53:22+00:00

I never worry about being "uninteresting".

Why worry about such a incidental detail? Why are you so obsessed with what other people think about you?

Also, if you pick up a hobby or start reading something just because somebody told you to do so in a list, that is not particularly realistic or honest to yourself.

Everybody is the right level of interesting if they know what to do with it. I can meet the most interesting man in the world, but he doesn't get laid at all, because he does not know how to present himself.

If you do anything at all, do it because you WANT to. That is way more important than defining yourself according to other people's expectations.

Title	20 Ways To Be More Interesting
Author	TrippAdvice1
Upvotes	178
Comments	30
Date	October 15, 2012 3:34 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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