You probably already know what I’m talking about. This is a problem many men deal with.

So what exactly is “nice guy syndrome”? For starters, it’s when you possess the following qualities:

•continually asking for permission

•always at someone’s beck and call

•never saying what you want

•worrying what people think of you

•consistently walking on egg shells

•fearing rejection

So how do you change it?

START BEING OUTCOME INDEPENDENT

Easier said than done, I know. But it’s the only way to set yourself free. You will never attract a girl if you keep playing the role of the nice guy. All it will do is keep you in the friend zone. The friend zone is one of the worst places to be and quite difficult to get out of. Avoid this trap at all costs. So stop overanalyzing the outcome of your actions. Instead:

•Tell a woman how you feel.

•Do something for yourself.

•Take up space.

•Stop worrying.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE AN ASSHOLE TO ATTRACT WOMEN

Start having an “edge”. Instead of being the boring, nice guy that doesn’t get a girlfriend, be spontaneous and bold. Create new passions and hobbies for yourself. Get out of the same old routine. Change up your lifestyle. The reasons why so many “assholes” get hot women is because they don’t give a shit what people think of them and live a more exciting life. Nice guys aren’t doing that. So today I want you to:

-Find a new hobby. -Buy something you’ve never bought before. -Take a chance on something new. -Tell the girl you like that you’re into her.

Once you do that, you’re on your way to a new beginning.

TL:DR - See title.

EDIT: SPELLING - TIL "beck and call" ;)