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How To Start A Conversation On Tinder That Gets Responses

TrippAdvice1

December 7, 2014

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Title	How To Start A Conversation On Tinder That Gets Responses
Author	TrippAdvice1
Upvotes	153
Comments	53
Date	December 7, 2014 10:21 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2ol6ic/how_to_start_a_conversation_on_tinder_that_gets/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-to-start-a-conversation-on-tinder-that-gets.1380613 https://theredarchive.com/post/1380613

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As someone who absolutely hates Tinder and had my confidence torn apart by months of using it, I think that sub is the stupidest thing in the world. I've hooked up with 3 girls off that goddamn app - they were just some of the least attractive girls I've been with. I'm also an average looking guy, so it definitely didn't work on the "quick, easy sex with hotties" front that I was hoping for. More like "spend a long time texting mediocre looking girls and eventually meet up with them with kind of a guarantee that you'll hook up".

If I had spent the time I spent on Tinder either improving myself or approaching women in real life, I can almost guarantee I'd get better results. Especially since I got better results throughout my life as an AFC with very little game.

Tinder is just stacked in girls' favor and unless you stand out because you're so attractive (or if you just wanna bang anyone and lower your standards) it's pretty shitty.

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[–]WhosCountin 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Obviously I'm not trying to brag or get a "good for you" since in the end it was pretty disappointing, but it is idiotic to claim there are NO girls looking to hook up on Tinder. My logic is: as a pretty average looking guys, I was able to hook up with some pretty average looking girls on the app. I don't see why a guy who looked like a model wouldn't be able to pull some hot girls from there.

You really think that there are NO good looking girls out there who get horny and would like the convenience and pretty much infinite choices that they could get off of Tinder? Think about it: a HB9 on Tinder could essentially fuck any guy who is using the app whenever she wanted. There's already a clear shortage of girls, plus most single guys trying to get some would hook up with a really hot girl regardless of what she was like. People do use Tinder. Lots of people do. I know lots of girls and guys of various attractiveness who regularly use the app. There's a shitload of spam on there, and I'm sure they use dubious grassroots marketing, but why would you ever claim that someone who is super hot wouldn't be able to find another super hot person to fuck on there?

The idea of a conspiracy to that degree is just so farfetched. Why don't the people on that sub just accept that it sucks not to look like a model, but if you did, Tinder would pretty much be heaven/everything I've ever wanted. If I was a 10/10 I'd probably die because I would use Tinder 24/7 and abandon my other physical needs until I died of exhaustion or starvation. (Having said that, those few days would be better than the entirety of my current life up until now... Since what more could you want besides having sex with hot girls constantly?)

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[–]WhosCountin 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You do realize that Tinder is a win-win for beautiful women. They still control the access, but they can also grant access to hundreds of guys that they find really hot.

This whole conspiracy just reeks of insecurity. "Oh, no one gets laid on Tinder, it's all a big scam" is way easier to stomach than "I'm not hot enough to match with real hot girls on Tinder who want to fuck me." I've accepted the depressing latter truth, which is a lot more likely than some grand conspiracy. Don't you know any good looking guys? I do, and I've seen their Tinders, and I hate them for having a life that makes mine look like a pile of shit in comparison. I wish I was good looking enough to have girls wanting to fuck me based on my pics and a short bio alone. That's pretty much all I want. But you have to be REALLY good looking for that.

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