Attraction Happens When You're Not Trying

pk_atheist · 2012-04-18T15:19:26+00:00

There's an on-going myth that trying makes it obvious you're trying and therefore messes with the organic nature of connections. I think the seduction crowd is here to dispel that myth. If you're not trying, you won't get laid.

The trick is to find game that works with the personality you've already developed so that you can use a lifetime of material that you have at your fingertips.

It's not about trying vs not trying. It's about exploiting your best resource: your personality.

bigweiner · 2012-04-18T06:58:10+00:00

"Approach a girl like you already know her." I like that. Makes you seem friendly, rather than like you're hitting on her and that's it.

djl135 · 2012-04-18T06:26:07+00:00

Simple, yet poignant video about being yourself and how that applies to pickup.

Title	Attraction Happens When You're Not Trying
Author	djl135
Upvotes	11
Comments	5
Date	April 18, 2012 6:25 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/sfn3r/attraction_happens_when_youre_not_trying/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/attraction-happens-when-youre-not-trying.1331503 https://theredarchive.com/post/1331503

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