Ok, so lately I've been talking about how I've been in a slump, but making progress. I've been opening more people, and seriously, once you get over that opening hurdle, it's no big deal. I do have a question regarding the last section (about when a group hates you), if you feel like skipping over everything, check that out.

Girl Tries To Hook Up With Me In Bar

So I was walking by trying to get a drink, and I see this girl flirting with these guys. Her friend is pulling her away saying "she has a boyfriend"! I walk by and comment "you have a bf and you're flirting like this? tsk tsk."

She starts talking to me, and assures me she is single. I give her a hard time and joke about it with her for a while, completely believing her friend. The girls shit test me a bit but I give it right back to them. Her friend tries to pull her away from me, but she resists and finally her frustrated friend goes off.

Now, I don't hook up with girls that have boyfriends, so I'm just sort of keeping it small talking, and flirting lightly (I've been called a chronic flirt). She explains that her friend is anti-social and lies about her having a boyfriend so she doesn't talk to guys. We talk for a 10-15 minutes about various topics... I'm starting to believe her, and she is all over me at this point.

Her other friend walks up and I ask her about the boyfriend. She says "no, she's single". I see the girl who is all over me staring at my lips and practically begging me to leave with her, but to be honest, I wasn't really feeling it and didn't want to hook up with her (I JUST got to the bar with some friends). I continued talking to her and her friend, and at this point, the girl just puts her hands in my pockets and straight up starts grabbing me. Meanwhile, I'm trying to have a convo with her friend. Finally, the girl gets frustrated and straight up slides her hand down my pants in the front. Her friend sees this, laughs, and pulls her hand away.

The friend wanted me to buy them both drinks, however I wasn't feeling it and didn't want to spend any money (I'm broke as fuck right now, I didn't tell them that though). Realizing that I wasn't isolating anytime, the girl's friend grabs her, physically pries her away from me, and goes off telling me it was nice meeting me.

Open Group of Two Girls and Guy Sitting Down

I talked to a few other people but besides some friendly small talk, it didn't go anywhere. I opened a table sitting down, and they were all really friendly at first. One of the cute girls seemed to be digging talking to me, and we were kicking it off pretty well (I talked to the other two as well obviously). However I noticed I started getting incredibly dirty looks from the other guy and girl, and they kept saying shit to each other behind my back.

I don't know if they were anti-social or what, but the convo started dying, and I tried to plow through with the one girl, but her friends were just death staring me. I finally became kind of uncomfortable with the whole thing, and ejected.

QUESTIONS

  1. What do you do in a situation where all her friends hate you for no reason? It was strange the dirty looks I was getting.

  2. In the situation where the girl was all over me, truth be told, I was more interested in her other friend who came up and talk. When a girl is all over you and trying to hook up, is there anyway to reverse this to hook up with her friend? I felt like I was far too deep in. Maybe if I bought them drinks we could have escalated more?

Lessons Learned:

Just because a cock blocking friend says that a girl has a bf, doesn't mean it's true. Always verify with someone else. The friend could just be jealous of the girl.