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[–]VMikeL 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
... Dafuq? So long as she calls, you're fine. HOWEVER If she doesn't call, just have a text conversation leading into a day 2. Every text I send to people I'm trying to game, is to objectively set up a day 2. Theres this strange illusion among sedditors that you have to be "Alpha" in all facets of life. Sometimes it just means being confident in yourself, and not worrying.
[–]yourboyblue2 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fair enough on the illusion of alpha.
Can you elaborate a bit more on texting back? What would you text in this situation if she didn't call 24 hours later? I don't wanna neg yet as I like to keep those for face to face interaction.
[–]VMikeL 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh wow... Umm... Your game, or idea of it atleast, is about 5 years out of date... Negging is practically dead... fuck you have a lot to catch up on...
Okay if I want to jump start the conversation, or drive it in a new direction, I send a message that comes off out of context, and possible to get excited over for the both of us, usually giving her a false choice, or asking her how much she loves something. From that answer, I tell her about something I've remembered/walked passed/tried and how it's the BEST IN THE WORLD, and let her know I'm taking her on Saturday (or whatever day you choose).
Example being: "Hey, on a scale of 1-10, how much do you love chocolate?" OR for a false choice "Hey, Chocolate or ice cream? Which is more awesome?" - if she doesn't reply, I'll just forget her because she probably doesn't want to see you. The answer is almost always 8-10 "Oh cool, I'm more like a 20/10. I was just walking past this place that serves the most mouthgasmic chocolate sundaes in the world! I'm taking you Saturday."
Your texts seem to have no aim, saying "I'll call you later" is kind of useless, as opposed to "I'll call you in 10 minutes, It's a bit noisy here, and I want to ask you something about XYZ." Justification, it's really powerful, and very important.
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)
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[–]yourboyblue2 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks, Mod. I'll move it over right now.
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