/r/okcnoobs used to be this, but is obviously dead now. I only just subscribed to /r/OkCupid because I reactivated my OKCupid profile (obviously not as a substitute for actually approaching) and I've more or less instantly regretted it. Every other post or comment is some dude having a temper tantrum because he didn't receive a reply from a girl, and occasionally there's some girl who's frustrated that the only guys messaging her are either dickheads or AFCs.