I live in NYC and have, what I feel, a great approach game. I have no anxiety about speaking to new people anymore and get phone numbers from about 80% of the women I speak to. I am 23 and they all have been between 23-28. Here's the kicker, once I go on a date or hang out with them, we either become regular friends or I never hear back from them (bored?). I have more female friends then male friends now and its a little frustrating. Ive lived in NYC for 3 months now and have gone out with around 10 women. One was SUPER heavy for me on the first date but never heard back from. I think its because I don't know how to comfortably express my sexuality. I was raised to be "the genteman" and act accordingly, let them decide what they want. I dont know really what the next step is. I feel I am close since my confidence is generally high and I have a good track record about applying new ideas and theory into my daily actions. Any help would be much appreciated. If you need more specifics, I will be happy to provide.