[FR] Highschool bus. What the fuck happened? (aka being a dick worked but I don't want to be a dick)

NickTDS · 2012-06-01T17:30:54+00:00

She's immature and young. Girls like that eat up guys who push them away and make them chase hard. I mean most women do to an extent, but the young ones crave that attention the most.

It also has nothing to do with being a dick, it was you growing a spine. You didn't take her silly shit and called her out on it. You probably had regular, comfortable conversations before with no chemistry or sexual tension. Once you added those elements in, you turned her on and showed your willingness to walk away (not be needy).

You can still be a gentleman who's confident, assertive, and sexual. You don't need to be an asshole to display those qualities. In fact, the guys who have the best of both worlds (respect + balls) succeed the most often.

Gives_Wrong_Answer · 2012-06-01T18:01:44+00:00

You're looking at this the wrong way. You weren't "being a dick", you were being someone who doesn't put up with annoying shit. You were being a man who's in charge of the situation around him, which is incredibly attractive (to both men and women around you). Don't look at this like you were being an ass. You were simply responding in a way to make sure the shit stopped.

Title	[FR] Highschool bus. What the fuck happened? (aka being a dick worked but I don't want to be a dick)
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Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	June 1, 2012 5:22 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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