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Elitism or not willingness to shortchange myself?

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June 18, 2012

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Title	Elitism or not willingness to shortchange myself?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	June 18, 2012 4:17 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]puaCurveBall 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I com across a cure woman who is just as motivated as I am, I might close the deal, but that is just a mean to its own end; two consenting adults having fun for a short while; and it gets old pretty quickly.

Why, if you are finding a cute motivated woman who lives up to your values, is this only casual short fun rather than moving towards a relationship?

I totally agree with you, which is why I maintain several casual relationships while continuing to look for a long term relationship with someone really amazing, so that I won't have to settle.

I've personally only found 1 (perhaps recently 2) in my entire life I would consider valuable enough for a LTR. That is about 1 every 1.5 years or so. I've actually run the numbers and I'm pretty amazed I found 2 in such a short time.

That is just the way things are though, what type of advice or problem are you looking to solve with this post?

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[–]puaCurveBall 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]squarehouse 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

There probably is a sense of entitlement. There are enough guys like you who probably only care about looks, and maybe a family down the line, yet provides everything that you have.

I guess I get frustrated sometimes thinking what it is like to be a hot woman. It has to be hard trying to focus on career and self-improvement, when you have a pretty solid understanding that at any moment you will probably be whisked away by a high-status alpha, who will provide for you, and you don't really need to work at it.

I was thinking about when women around here start dreaming about moving away, to Los Angelos, or New York City. Why? I think they're looking for powerful men. That's the attraction. They know what sort of guys who are in the local area, and it turns them off that we're mostly proles and blue-collar workers.

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[–]squarehouse 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link