New to the game, landed a date with an older woman. Tips please?

thatsnotmystyle · 2012-06-27T15:20:05+00:00

Stick to what you know gaming wise. I almost exclusively go for older women. I'm 25, my ex gf of 4 years is 34 so it's an identical age gap to yours. In my experience the majority of the time age really doesn't matter with women. It's just a little speed bump. I usually make a joke out of it initially along the lines of:
Her: "So how old are you?"

Me:"[obligatory] Guess"

Her: "Ummm, 27?"

Me: [I make another little joke]

Her: "Ok but really, how old are you"

Me: "Old enough not to answer a silly question like that" (I find this works best when they have told you their age first)

When you do tell them, which you obviously have to a some point, they'll might do a little "omg" act.. just bounce it right back and say, hey, I'll give you a minute to let that sink in [back turn]....

Oh, and "You are So fucking good looking" is a pretty fucking good ioi dude. Have fun.

Marsupian · 2012-06-27T15:24:29+00:00

I'm pretty sure you should just treat her normally. As soon as you start treating her differently because she is older will it actually make a difference that she is older. Treat her normally and get it in your head that this age gap is no big deal.

MetalMeltdown · 2012-06-27T15:42:01+00:00

Awesome guys you are very helpful. Definitely calmed my nerves a bit so thanks. An update, this woman is a step ahead on everything. She's escalating it pretty quick so at this point I'm pretty positive its on :)

puaCurveBall · 2012-06-27T15:53:03+00:00

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Title	New to the game, landed a date with an older woman. Tips please?
Author	MetalMeltdown
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	June 27, 2012 2:37 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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