I think that not having anyone to go out with is my biggest problem right now. Yes, I realize that I should be able to do this on my own, but I'm not quite confident enough to do it on my own yet, and this attitude is just hampering me because I just don't end up going out. Also, having a wing would force me to go out often and consistently, and plus give me another person's perspective on what's going on.

Anyway, I'm still pretty new to actually running game, though I've read a lot about pickup so I guess I have a "theoretical background." Where should I look for wings?