Hey guys,

I think for a majority of people who come here, they are looking for a fresh start, one where they can forget their boring and miserable past, and I myself am one of those people.

Although I am not the most experienced person here, one thing that I know will help many people is to really clean up the environment around you. For example I wanted to really get rid of a lot of stuff that reminded me of the self that I did not want to be, so I really gave my room a thorough cleaning.

I got rid of a lot of stuff, books, video games, CDs, things that needed to go. I even got rid of a lot of small personal items from past relationships that never worked out. I also got rid of a lot of clothes that either don't fit, are out of style, etc.

The benefit in this is huge I think because it is you making a conscious decision to get rid of the things that you don't want anymore and giving you new found room to grow. I got rid of probably %80 of the clothes that were in my room, now forcing me to go out and get a new wardrobe with the help of /r/malefashionadvice. I forced myself to get rid of my collection of personal effects of women that I had once been obsessed with forcing them to stay out of my mind. I now have room to pick up a new hobby since I have extra closet space (boxing and wine collecting). I even got rid of my desktop computer that had all my videogames on it and moved it to the basement where I never go. I even have looked into getting new furniture.Not to mention, it allowed me to do some much needed cleaning and dusting.

Being a Sedditor is about building a better you. Therefore everything needs to change, including your environment that is around you. It might be hard to part with somethings (I had trouble with my computer) but it all needs to go. Having a "new" room will go a long way into improving yourself dramatically.