Background: I met this girl on OKC about three weeks ago. We had texted back and forth after a few OKC messages. She was out of town for a couple of weeks after just having moved to my area. We had a date scheduled for yesterday to go disc golfing as a first date. Something fun that if she didn't show, no big deal, I would have had fun regardless.

She is actually staying about an hour away from where we were going to be disc golfing so I was there a bit before she would have gotten there. As I arrive I get a text from her asking if I can get her the address of the place. I call her up and give her better directions and tell her that it is no big deal, just get there when you can. NOTE: Make sure they can find the place. GPS is not always perfect unfortunately.

I decide to go ahead and throw the back nine with this other guy that rolled up. Good social skills makes this type of thing a whole lot easier now. There was no nervousness and we just had a pretty good time chatting and throwing the back nine.

So I texted her to check where she was when I was done and she was getting close to the disc golf course, so I called to try and help her get to the entrance and she makes a wrong turn and ends up back on the interstate. I said, "Screw it, just go to [blah blah blah] restaurant and I will meet you there and we will grab some drinks and something to eat.

Finally get to the restaurant myself about five minutes later and we go inside and sit at the bar. I chose this place specifically because I know all the bartenders, the manager and several waiters. Good social proof and all that. Also sitting at the bar allows you good opportunities to start kino. I was able to touch shoulders, arms and legs from this position.

Conversation was pretty awesome about random stuff. How I lived in Italy, blah blah, conversation threading. When you are in a good conversation and having a good time, topics tend to flow effortlessly. She ordered a sandwich and I had a side of fries and we ended up splitting the sandwich. She ended up paying as well, but it wasn't really a huge bill so no big deal.

I then got us to bounce down the road to this other bar that has some pool tables and dart boards in order to continue to escalate kino. I have found that pool works pretty well for this, especially if you share the same pool cue. Every time you switch shots is an opportunity to get in some kino. It also gives an excuse to increase the sexual tension with obvious play on words such as " You are holding my stick to tightly" or "rubbing my stick". About the middle of the second game I decided it was time for the kiss. The best way to do this I have found is to just walk up and do it. Don't talk about it or ask if it is okay. She has decided to go from one place to another with you. You guys are touching different parts of each other's bodies in various ways. Kissing is a pretty natural step at this point. I did use the technique of starting a kiss and getting really into the middle of it and suddenly breaking away to take my shot. I think this helped to keep her really riled up for most of the rest of the time we were playing pool. She was playing coy a couple of times, but I just continued to be as sexual as possible throughout. I would lightly rub her ass as she was standing next to me and stuff like that. I did however miss a cue once. She mentioned that it was very smoky in the pool room. She had to mention it twice before I got the clue that we should go outside to the parking lot. Silly me. We were kind of sitting next to each other with my arm around her shoulder and nibbling on her neck in a fairly brightly lit pool room at the time though. I was a bit distracted you could probably say. I did get the bill for the beers at the pool hall at least.

Once we got out to the parking lot, we leaned on her car and basically made out for about an hour. During this time we were both telling each other all the dirty things we wanted to do to each other. This was extremely hot, but the logistics of getting some place private were just not feasible since she is living with her parents and my house was about 40 minutes in the opposite direction of where she had to go. There was one thing she said that I am not sure if I answered it properly or not. As we continued to make out I kept mentioning that my house was available and she was more than welcome to come over for a little while. At one point she said, "If I agree to come over, you have to promise me that no matter how much I beg you to, you won't have sex with me tonight." I will edit my answer in a little while later, but I am curious as to how the rest of you guys would have answered this question.

EDIT: So basically what I ended up saying was, "Nope, can't make a promise like that." I think she was only teasing anyway. Both of us had to work in the morning and it was getting late anyway.