How do you balance the fact that your successes also limit you from the wanton fun that you could be having.

2012-07-30T05:48:04+00:00

My belief is if a women is willing to invest in me I'm going to pay her my attention. Also be selective about your sets.

2012-07-30T17:36:41+00:00

Have you ever noticed that if you are doing the pretty normal, casual thing in a bar/nightclub kinda setting and you open a girl and it goes well, you start passing on other opportunities, some of which are actually better.

Oh god yes. Let me tell you about the guys I've been talking to lately.

Entrepreneur and martial arts instructor with an amazing body (my height) and one of the top ten best smiles I've seen. Our first IM conversation consisted of making a sexual bucket list for me. Oh and he has a British accent.
Bodybuilder (tall) and chemical engineer who does stand up for fun with a super sexy voice. He's kind of an asshole but in a cute and funny way, we banter. He's also into pickup and we've discussed that shit. Just invited me to a comedy show I'm not sure I can go to.
My new guy bff apparently. He's a swimmer who also lifts and we were hooking up in the spring when we lived in the same building. Now we're in different cities but we've been sexting nonstop. We're super sexually compatible. And he's amazing at writing erotica.
Artist/illustrator with the prettiest fucking face. I love creative people. I want to lick his face. He's about my height and thin but in a sexy thin way.
Tall cute-nerdy guy with the most beautiful big lips I've ever seen. And he's witty! I have to keep up with him! Totally boyfriend material.

Those are just my favorites, there are more. And they're ALL ASIAN <3

I wish guys worked like Pokemon. Catch 'em all. And then the ones you already have would wing for you to get the ones you want.

I might just be impatient. Even though I'm already talking to these amazing guys I can't stop talking to new guys. Especially with OkCupid. It's dangerous.

Haha this is totally not a helpful comment at all. I'm in the same boat. Maybe we can try to figure this out together?

the_cucumber · 2012-07-30T07:44:07+00:00

Tell the girls you start seeing from the get-go that you are only pursuing a casual relationship with them and you're not willing to be exclusive. Don't lead them on for weeks letting them think you're this great boyfriend-material only to disappoint them when they really start getting attached and you get bored. Make your intentions clear from the start and you won't have this problem.

puaCurveBall · 2012-07-30T15:48:57+00:00

I know I essentially have a girl on call who I know is into me.

Yeah, but are you into HER? It is extremely easy to get low-value girls to be in love with you and doing whatever you want, the hard part is finding a woman WORTH your time.

When you decide you want a girl in a relationship, it should be because you've met hundreds of others and she is the BEST of them all. It is easy to turn down random sex and opportunities when you believe this.

A woman should have more value to you than simply being into you.

Title	How do you balance the fact that your successes also limit you from the wanton fun that you could be having.
Author	lambo101
Upvotes	8
Comments	4
Date	July 30, 2012 2:06 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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