Daygame help - what to say/do when a girl trys to eject e.g. "well, i've got to go now"

legendofpasta · 2012-08-02T23:49:42+00:00

I wouldn't bother wasting my time with getting her number. You're asking for the number of someone who doesn't wanna give it and will just flake on you. You want the first interaction to go so well that she's excited to give you her number. Chalk all other chats up to a learning experience, and go open up someone else.

JellyPUA · 2012-08-03T00:08:53+00:00

If you have put a false time constraint on yourself, then this isn't really an issue.

But your standard line should be something like: blah blah "I've enjoyed getting to know you, we should do this again another time."

Followed by your choice of number close.

"Put your number in my phone and I'll call you."

"How can we make that happen?" (Then she suggests phone number exchange etc).

2012-08-03T00:56:15+00:00

I've used "ill only keep you a minute, you got a minute right?" to mixed sucess.

Some girls just arent interested, dont waste your time and keep moving. There's plenty of girls out there.

Dildo___Baggins · 2012-08-03T04:20:15+00:00

Typically if a girl is ejecting you can tell if she's ejecting because she feels weird or because she actually has to go someplace. If she has to go someplace, that's the perfect time to drop "Oh I didn't mean to keep you sweetheart, give me your # we'll finish this later" or whatever fits your style.

If she's ejecting because she feels weird, your cause is probably already lost unless you have pretty advanced skill. It usually means that you've already lost on the conversation and status points that you should be covering in a solid approach, and now she feels awkward and wants to leave. Don't feel bad about it - just take the lesson and move on. Don't be attached.

2012-08-04T03:13:17+00:00

If she try to eject it's because she's not interested or she has to go.

If she has to go but she won't give/exchange #/email, she's not into you.

Therefore you have the solution, you have to get better at generating attraction this is a good place to learn, and you ALSO have to go out there and practice practice practice and get rejected.

Try this http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ufzvf/planting_1000_seeds_a_bit_long_i_know/

2012-08-02T23:42:12+00:00

Depends if she is just saying it or or saying it and starting to walk away.

If she just says it:

You: "and?"

HB: "and what?"

You: "and were having such a great conversation that you want to exchange numbers!"

If she starts walking away she's probably pretty much committed to leaving, but you can persist as long as you feel she isn't bothered by it.

Title	Daygame help - what to say/do when a girl trys to eject e.g. "well, i've got to go now"
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Date	August 2, 2012 11:35 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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